Hi everyone! Sarah here…
Here´s a cool tip for the weekend:
Get a cold drink… (well, two… one for your girl).
Then tell her to pose for you! Be as CREATIVE as possible! (her main goal is to be as sensual as possible!)
But you MUST take pictures or video!
Trust me… after doing this your desire will increase 398% and you will have a great night together! 
Here´s a quick video to show you what I mean… Enjoy!
Have a great weekend!
Sarah
There are lots of different ways to spice up your sex life and they don’t have to be tedious relationship-building exercises. Instead, start playing some sex games which will not only add some flavor to your sex life, but it will also be a fun way to experiment with new sexual activities. It will add spontaneity to your sex life and you may end up doing things that you never even imagined possible!
Body Painting
If you are looking for sensual fun, then body painting is a great idea. Besides being naked, you get to rub sticky, slippery stuff all over each other’s bodies. What’s more fun than that?
Basically, you and your partner get naked and you paint each other’s bodies using just about anything you want. Adult stores will have different materials to use as paints – anything from strawberry-flavored body paint to chocolate body paint.
Or, you can just use what you’ve got around your home. Get out the chocolate sauce and peanut butter to create a sticky, sexy masterpiece on your partner. When you are done, you can eat it off! Just make sure that you’ve got old bed sheets on the bed or floor to make for easy clean-up later on.
Strip Poker
This is a classic sex game for couples and with good reason. There’s nothing quite like beating your partner at a game of cards and then with each winning hand, forcing them to slowly and sensually undress right before your eyes. To make the game more exciting, make sure that you are both wearing really sexy undergarments – that way, even if she gets you naked before you get her naked, you can still enjoy the lacy underwear show. To add an extra level of excitement, invite another couple over to play the game with you. The idea of seeing your buddy’s girlfriend naked and vice versa is sure to be extra stimulating.
Pretend You’re Meeting For The First Time
Get dressed up – she should look hot in a low cut dress and you should try your best to look dashing as well. Think James Bond and you should get the look right. Then, head to a classy bar. You should enter first, and have a drink at the bar. Let everyone admire you as you stand there drinking your martini shaken, not stirred.
When she enters, everyone’s eyes will be drawn to her automatically and she will pretend not to know you. She’ll seat herself at the bar and order a drink, and that’s when you will approach her. Of course, she will play hard to get and every other guy in the place will be dying to give her a try after you have struck out.
After some time, the two of you should engage in a lusty lip lock in front of everyone, which will make this role playing game even more fun. Everyone will wonder how the two of you hooked up so quickly, and then you can leave together, go back to your place, and go at it like bunnies.
Install A Stripper Pole In Your Place
You might not want the stripper pole to be the centerpiece of your home, but if you can install it in a place where all of your guests won’t immediately see it, you won’t regret it! Your partner will want to show you that the strippers you and your buddies check out at the bars have nothing on her, and you should take her up on that offer. Get out your favorite tunes and have her demonstrate her stripping skills for you. For more fun, have your hands tied behind your back so that you can’t reach out and indulge yourself. Let her tease you until you are ready to explode.
Make A Scavenger Hunt For Your Partner
In secret, make a scavenger hunt for your partner. Then, place the clues throughout your place. Make sure that with each clue, your partner has to either remove an item of clothing or put on a sexy piece of lingerie. You can also involve the use of sex toys, lubricants and other
sexy toys.
For example, have her start out by moving from clue to clue removing the clothes she is currently wearing. Then, when she’s naked, and you’ve had the opportunity to observe her naked body for a while, let her continue the hunt. She can then dress up in the sexy lingerie you’ve hidden for her. When that’s over, let her find the vibrating dildo you’ve hidden and order her to start using it on herself. Once you get to this part of the scavenger hunt, you can just join in for a night of fun.
Have A Sexy Reading Night
Pick up some racy books that you and your partner will get turned on by. Then, get naked under the covers and start reading each other steamy passages from the book. As you read, start touching each other and yourselves. Let her keep reading her favorite passages and try to act out everything she is reading. Before she gets to the climax part of the book she is reading, you will be able to throw your book aside and just continue on your own.
Getting Started With Sex Games
Most of these sex games are pretty simple and you don’t need a lot of tools or imagination to make them work. All you need are two willing partners and since you are reading this article, you are probably interested already. That just leaves her to be convinced that sex games will be fun and a turn on. If she’s a skeptic, start with simple things like the scavenger hunt game or the body paint game. If you start by asking her to dance like a stripper for you, she might feel shy and turned off. Break her into these games easily and before you know it, she’ll be making up her own games too!
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One of the biggest misconceptions people have about female orgasms is that they are all created equal. The truth is that not all orgasms are the same: they may all be equally pleasurable but they are generally arrived at through different means.
Basically, there are two types of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral.
Today, we’re going to briefly discuss both types.
Vaginal Orgasm
This type of orgasm was the only type Freud and other men of his time felt to be legitimate types of sexual pleasure for women to experience. Unfortunately for women, only about 20% can receive an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The other 80% need something a little extra.
Before we get into that, let me explain exactly what we mean by vaginal orgasm. A vaginal orgasm occurs solely because of stimulation of the vagina. That stimulation is usually in the form of the thrusting of the male penis during vaginal intercourse.
The reason most women do not receive an orgasm just from penetration is that the vagina is not a highly sensitive area. This is actually a good thing. Remember that the vagina is not just used for sex but also for delivering babies. If the inside walls of the vagina were made up of concentrated nerve endings like we find in the nipple, the clitoris, or the penis, then childbirth would be even more difficult for women.
In fact, only the first two inches of the vagina are sensitive at all.
So why do some women have orgasms solely from vaginal stimulation?
The answer is they probably aren’t. Women who report vaginal orgasms benefit from their anatomy. In some women, the labia minora are formed in such a way that vaginal penetration actually causes the labia to rub against or gently pull on the clitoris.
This, not vaginal stimulation, is leading to the orgasm in most cases. Technically, however, this would still be considered a vaginal orgasm because there is not direct stimulation of the clitoris.
Another reason why some women report having vaginal orgasms is that the shape of the penis and their preferred position allow for stimulation of the G-spot. Because the G-spot is linked to increased pleasure and may also induce orgasms, this is another possibility worth considering.
The bottom line here though is that vaginal orgasms are not common. Men and women need to realize that penetration is often not going to be enough to accomplish the goal. The good news is that gives both partners an excuse to experiment with some new things and ideas!
Clitoral Orgasm
By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. First, let me share with you some information about the clitoris.
The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.
Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.
Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.
The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.
With that said, it’s important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.
What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman’s body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.
The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.
Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we’ll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.
Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it’s usually not the most satisfactory approach.
The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.
And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.
So, bottom line: Please understand: there is NOTHING wrong if your woman requires clitoral stimulation besides penetration to reach an orgasm. And actually, it IS more fun!
Once you understand this fact, you´ll both start to get more “creative” in bed. And trust me, she will NOT be frustrated anymore!
