Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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Hi there!

First of all:

Happy holiday season!

I honestly LOVE helping you improve your sex life. Trust me, that is by FAR the best Christmas gift I can get…

But enough about me… let´s talk about you and how to enjoy the sexiest Christmas ever!

Here are a few tips…

1. Buy the hottest sex toy and give it to your loved one in a red box (with red and green gift wrap) during christmas… Yes, during the “family” dinner. But tell her to open the box after the party.

2. Write a sensual letter to “Santa” asking for the hottest sex toys and female lingerie (for her), and give it to your woman a night before Christmas.

3. Give her the best Christmas gift ever: a letter (signed by you) with a formal commitment to be her SEX slave for one week.

4. Ask your girl NOT to wear underwear during the Christmas dinner. Plus, she MUST wear a dress!

5. Sit right next to her during the “family” dinner… and touch her slowly… Make sure there´s a long table cloth!

6. After dinner is over, she´ll be ready for wild sex. So, hurry and go back home to enjoy the new sex toys together!

Have a VERY sensual holiday season!

Once again: helping you is the BEST gift I can get!

Love and Kisses,

Sarah

Hi! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you some information about my OBSESSION:

Sex toys, sex toys, sex toys… I love them!

Let´s talk about the Vibrator for a moment. Just because most people know about it doesn´t mean they all know how to use it properly!

So, let me teach you a few concepts… Relax and enjoy!

Sarah xx

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Sex Toy/Accessory: Vibrators
Average Price Range: $15 to $90

Description:

Vibrators are similar in some ways to dildos. Many are shaped like penises, but there are a wide variety of other shapes and sizes to choose from as well. The biggest difference between a dildo and a vibrator is the vibration.

The traditional vibrator’s action – which is usually powered by batteries or wall outlet – stimulates the clitoris and helps bring a woman to orgasm.

Today, couples have more options to choose from. Vibrators can be purchase to stimulate the clitoris, the G-spot, or the vulva. Some are large and have a stronger vibration while others are more discreet and can be used almost anywhere. Another type of vibrator – commonly called the tongue – recreates the feeling of oral sex for a woman.

Men don’t have to lose out on the pleasures of vibrators either. Just as there are dildos designed specially for anal fun, there are also vibrators that do the same thing. Because of the vibration, the vibrator doesn’t have to inserted very deeply usually to stimulate his pleasure zone – the prostate. Plus, these can be used to give more pleasure to women as well.

How to Use It:

That all depends on the type of vibrator you bought. Vibrators can actually be a lot of fun in the bedroom – that might be why they are the most popular sex toy hands down.

If you choose a vibrator for clitoral stimulation, it can be used during vaginal or anal intercourse to give your partner that little extra something she needs to hit the high notes of orgasmic delight. Of course, anal vibrators can be used during intercourse as well by either partner.

The vibration also feels amazing when it stimulates any erogenous zone on the body, including the breasts, the neck, inner thighs, etc., which means you can use them to heat things up during foreplay or to get things moving in the right direction during intercourse.

And, as with the dildo, each of you can watch or help one another climax using these nifty little toys.

Why to Use It:

The best reason of all to use a vibrator is because they feel incredible. If you’ve never used one, just turn your cell phone on vibrate and have someone call you while you hold it in your hand. Imagine that feeling intensified and located in your vagina, your anus, or on any other sensitive spot on your body. You’ll know exactly what I mean.

Another great reason to use a vibrator is because they aren’t intrusive. Some men shy away from dildos because penetrating their partner with a glass or acrylic shaft doesn’t leave much room for them. Since vibrators are smaller and can be used simply to add in a little extra sensation, they don’t get in the way of the main event.

Plus, let’s be honest, men are already sensitive about penis size and many of the most popular dildos on the market are a little “over-sized” when compared to the average man. That doesn’t men women like them bigger but it does mean that the toys have to be made that way in order to correctly stimulate the woman. Since vibrators come in small sizes and in shapes that don’t even resemble a penis at all, men won’t necessarily feel threatened by playing around with them.

Purchasing Suggestions:

For the best time with a vibrator, you should shop around. You definitely want to be able to adjust the strength of the vibration in order to customize your pleasure. That’s just a given.

You also need to take into consideration how you want to use them. If you’re looking for a water toy, then make sure the device you pick is water-proof and doesn’t run on electric power – be warned though that this usually means they don’t have the punch of other vibrators. If you want to be able to slide the vibrator between your partner’s legs during a movie, at a restaurant, or in the back of a cab, then you’ll want to choose something small and quiet.

Important Tip:

Whether you’re using dildos or vibrators, it’s a good idea to use lubricant. Even the smoothest toy can cause unpleasant friction whether it’s penetrating a man or a woman. Good lubricant can make a huge difference in the pleasure of the experience.

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You may be surprised to find out that inside the mind of your significant other are plenty of steamy sex fantasies she’s probably never told you about but that’s she’s secretly dying to get a chance to act out. Can you imagine the night of wild sex the two of you could have after acting out just one of these fantasies? You’d both end up experiencing a night you’d never forget!

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But how do you get her to open up about her fantasies? That’s the tricky part because women don’t want to give away too much of her secret, sexual selves because we’re afraid of being condemned by the men in our lives. We don’t want them to think our fantasies are weird or that we’re slutty or anything like that.

You can try sharing your sexual fantasies with her and seeing if she’s willing to open about hers, but if that doesn’t work you can share some possibilities and see which ones get the biggest reaction from her. She doesn’t have to say it’s her fantasy but she can give the two of you permission to try it.

Here are some ideas:

The Groupie & the Guitarist

Lots of women spent their teenage years fantasizing about the guys of their favorite band. They’d see this hot guy on stage playing music they loved and feeling as if he was doing all of that just for her. And she’d wish she could get backstage just to show him how much she loved his music.

The good news for you is that in this fantasy you’re going to be that hot musician and she’s going to be the willing groupie who’s ready to do just about anything you ask, especially performing oral sex. Make sure to dress in your most impressive rock star attire and have the music for the band she used to fantasize about playing in the background to create the right vibe in the bedroom.

The Stranger

Sure women want to have sex with guys they love and care about, but that doesn’t mean we don’t fantasize about meeting a stranger and going home with me to experience a night of incredible, nameless, and no-strings attached fun. The problem is many women would have a hard time making this one happy for real.

So you can make it happen instead. Go separately to a bar. Both of you dance and mingle with other people for a little while before meeting for the “first time.” After a little flirting and suggestive behavior, the two of you can head right outside to the car and have a good time right there in the parking lot or lock yourselves in the bar’s restroom for a little fun. It feels dangerous and that makes the whole thing even hotter.

Being Aroused by Authority Figures

There’s a good chance you’ve woman has had more than an innocent crush on at least one authority figure in her life. It might have been a teacher, a police officer, a fireman, even a politician, but the important thing she was turned on by his position of power over her. If you can find out who she couldn’t think of without envisioning a steamy encounter, then you’ll know exactly how to make this fantasy work.

Let’s say her fantasy involves a teacher. You can be the teacher who makes her stay after – not to punish her but to give her your own special reward for being such a good student. If you have a desk that could be used a prop in your fun then that’s even better. After all, if you bend her over most desks she’ll be in just the right position for whatever “reward” you have in mind.

Other women fantasize about getting it on with a police officer. You can act this one out, too, even if you don’t have access to a uniform. Make sure to frisk her slowly and rub your hands up and down her entire body, as well as between her thighs and over her breasts. If you happen to have a set of handcuffs (and a key) then they can be excellent props, too.

Try suggesting one of these sexy fantasies to your significant other and see what she says. If she’s up for it, then have a good time and reap the benefits of an incredible night of ecstasy neither of you will soon forget.

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Let me get rid of one of the biggest misconceptions guys have when it comes to sex and their partners. You know those sex toys she’s hiding in her nightstand? They don’t have to replace you. In fact, believe me, your woman would much rather have you inside her than any old piece of plastic. There’s plenty you can give her that she just can’t get from a dildo or a vibrator.

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Unfortunately, lots of guys end up viewing their partners’ sex toys (or sex toys, in general) as a threat and they miss out on a golden opportunity to give their women some intense pleasure by combining two of her favorite things: you and her sex toy. In lots of ways, this is the best threesome she could ever hope for and if you’re serious about becoming an even more amazing lover then now is the time to learn how to master the power of the sex toys.

First, let’s talk about your sex toy arsenal. If your partner doesn’t have any toys lying around or she has them so well hidden you’ve never seen them, then you’re going to need to find a good store where you can find some. Now I know this can be a little embarrassing if it’s your first time picking out dildos or cock rings, but remember getting rid of your inhibitions is an important step to taking your bedroom fun to a higher level. Of course, if you’re too nervous to shop in person, you’ll find plenty of great stores online which sell everything you need.

Now what exactly do you need? I would definitely suggest a vibrator. Dildos can be work, but you’ll find a vibrator is going to be more useful. You’ll probably want something small so it will be easier to handle. Make sure you also buy some high quality lubricant. You want the vibrator to slide inside of her easily without causing uncomfortable friction – that’s not a turn on at all.

Don’t hesitate to look around and pick out some other handy items, too. Cock rings are great if you want to be able to hold your erection longer and many of them have built-in vibrators which can increase the pleasure for both of you. Anal beads can be a great toy for both of you. Like a string of pearls, you simply put them inside your partner (or have her return the favor), then slowly pull them out. It’s a very sensitive area full of nerve endings and the gentle pressure from the beads feels amazing, especially if you use a little lubricant.

Once you have collected your arsenal of sex toys, you’ll need to know how to use them. In fact, you can use them at almost stage of your bedroom fun.

During foreplay, run the vibrator over her breasts or her inner thighs. The vibration will excite all of those sensitive nerves and will make her tremble with excitement for you. You could also use it to tease her a little by sliding inside her just a little then pulling it out again. When she begs you to go deeper (and she will!) you know it’s time to pull out the real thing.

Once you’re in the moment, a well-placed vibrator can almost guarantee that she’ll climax. The problem for many women is that it’s difficult for a man’s penis to hit her clitoris in just the right way to bring her to orgasm. Some women can have vaginal orgasms with just penetration, but don’t rely on that possibility. Clitoral orgasms are usually stronger and longer, so they are much more prized by your woman.

You can slide the vibrator inside her along with your penis or while you’re giving her oral sex. If you have a vibrator designed for the anus, you can have that in place during almost any type of penetration and it will be sending intense shock waves through the lower part of her body. You might even be lucky enough to hit her G-spot and send her to the moon with ecstasy!

After you’ve both climaxed, you don’t necessarily have to call it a day. Bring out the vibrator and use it to bring her to orgasm two, three, four, even five more times. When you can make her have multiple orgasms, you’ll definitely shoot right to the top of her list of the world’s greatest lovers.

Just remember to keep your sex toys clean. Never use them on different body parts or people without thoroughly cleaning them first. You don’t want to ruin all of the intense fun the two of you are going to share.

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