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Hi there! Today I want to share with you 5 hot variations of the so-called missionary position.

Please, please, please try one of them tonight with your loved one.

Enjoy!

Sarah

Missionary Position 1

For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn’t mean she can’t still get off. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched. Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you’ll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse. However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.

Missionary Position 2

Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner’s legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work your way up to harder and deeper penetration. Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements.

Missionary Position 3

This is a variation of the second missionary position which allows for even deeper penetration and gives you an angle more appropriate for clitoral stimulation. Again, your partner lies on her back on the bed. You’ll be kneeling above her, but at a slight angle. Take her legs and put both of them over one of your shoulders. Make sure you remain at that slight angle during penetration as well.

Missionary Position 4

This missionary position works by keeping the two of you closely connected so each thrust is more likely to stimulate its desired target. Of course, your partner lies on her back and you straddle her body. After you are inside her, she needs to pull her legs tightly together and you’ll need to wrap your ankles around her lower legs. While in this position, you’ll continue thrusting into her. If she seems uncomfortable, you may want to use lessen the depth of each thrust. Remember discomfort of any kind will interfere with your partner’s orgasm.

Missionary Position 5

While this technique may not technically be an example of the missionary position, this is the best classification I could determine. This time your partner lies on the bed or floor with you kneeling above her. Now take her legs and raise them up, so you are holding her calves in the crook of your arm. Her butt should now be lifted off the bed and her vagina should be in line with your penis, so penetration will be easier. If it makes her more comfortable, you could slide some soft pillows under her lower back. In this position, each time you thrust into her, you are also pulling her body against yours so each penetration is deeper and more intense. Because of the angle of the penetration, you are also more likely to stimulate either her clitoris or her G-spot which should bring her to orgasm.

Raising consciousness is the heart and soul of Tantric Sex. So many people are swept through life looking at pictures in the mind instead of living with full awareness of each moment.

They spend their time and energy dwelling on the past, plotting the future, and comparing the current state of affairs to a set of pre-recorded subconscious tapes.

To counteract the programming that keeps us distracted and to quiet compulsive left-brain thinking, Tantra teaches us to focus our attention on the present.

Tantra shows us how to exist in this moment, become totally absorbed in the “now,” and open our inner windows to the world fully. This activates our right brain that contributes to a presence more deeply rooted in spirit.

We do this by heightening our five senses — sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing. We become dedicated to enjoying the physical fully by reveling in eating, drinking, massaging, dancing, and making love.

We learn to live in harmony with whatever life serves up, whether on a silver platter or bed of thorns. That’s partly why Tantrikas major in surrender — just letting things happen of their own accord without resistance. This whole approach to life suggests we should just give up goal orientation, enter each experience without expectations, and just live fully in each moment.

PRACTICE: Sitting Meditation

Description

Tantra aims to raise consciousness. It’s not a philosophy but a collection of spiritual and sexual practices. A logical question, then, is how can you practice raising consciousness? Soon we’ll show you how to do this with sex. For sex to be sacred, transformative, and awesome, you must approach it with the right attitude. That attitude is meditation. Which is a great way to practice consciousness.

Meditation is simply sitting and emptying the mind. It’s not an essential prerequisite for joyous Sacred Gate massage, but it sure helps when you enter yoni with the right attitude. We describe it here for you to experiment with.

Since you can’t force thoughts away, emptying the mind is more challenging than it sounds. Gurus have developed many meditation techniques down through the ages that can help you quiet the inner talk and enter a “no mind” condition. We’ve tried many of them and they all seek to create a deep inner peace filled with stillness.

Purpose

Sitting Meditation just guides you to watch your breath. The simple relaxation method is good preparation for what’s coming, because conscious breathing is one of the Tantric skills used in the sexual practices that follow.

1. SPACE

Make some free time in a quiet uninterrupted space. You can do this next to a partner, but, since it’s a personal private inner experience, it’s not essential. Yes, you have to turn off your phone, answering machine, pager, and TV. Be brave, let go of the remote for just a few moments.

2. SIT

Sit in a comfortable position. The classic posture is the lotus position with one leg crossed over the other. We can’t get all the way there, and it may not be easy for you either. Get as close as you can to this posturing, insuring that you sit upright at least. A great aid is a “zafu,” a round Japanese meditation pillow that’s firm and shaped like a fat pancake. It helps you keep your pelvis higher than your semi-crossed legs. You can also meditate sitting straight in a comfortable chair or sofa.

3. BE

Meditation is not doing anything — it’s simply being. So don’t set any goals or preconceptions of what’s going to happen. Just sit for a moment and relax.

4. WITNESS

As you settle in to a comfortable state, you’ll undoubtedly discover that your mind is busy. Don’t do anything about it, just let it happen. Witness ideas floating by like clouds in a brisk wind.

5. WATCH YOUR BREATH

To quiet the mind without force, watch your breath coming in and out. Don’t change your breathing consciously, just pay attention to it entering your nostrils, flowing into your lungs, and out again.

6. COME BACK

You’ll probably find your concentration wandering away from your breath. Don’t beat yourself up, this is natural. When you realize you’ve strayed, just come back to watching your breath.

7. A FEW MINUTES

Gurus advise sitting like this for 15 minutes morning and afternoon. Since you shouldn’t be watching the clock, we’re not sure how you time it. We usually just remain still until we relax and the mind settles.

Afterthoughts

My primary concern here with how meditation helps prepare you for ecstatic sacred sex and Tantric Orgasm. All I can say is that tension impedes the process and relaxation is vital for long lasting supreme experiences. It also helps you practice focusing, an important skill in Tantric lovemaking.

As well, if you incorporate regular meditation into your life, you’ll find that it’s a great way to relieve stress, release tension, and relax. One essential requirement for ecstasy is “relaxation in high states of arousal.”

To learn proven Tantric techniques to give ANY woman a G-Spot orgasm, click here.