A woman masturbating in front of her partner is a predominantly male fantasy. Women tend to enjoy interacting with their partners when they are together and then play with herself alone.

For all possible reasons, be it mere curiosity, adolescent associations, voyeuristic tendencies, or something else altogether, this fantasy to watch a woman masturbate has strong appeal to men of all ages. So why keep it a fantasy?

Ways to Persuade Her to Engage in ‘Self-Love’ Right Before Your Eyes

First and the most important factor that will eventually lead towards fulfilling your fantasy is trust. Your partner has to trust you. If she trusts you, it’s amazing how easy it can be to accomplish this goal.

It may be as simple as asking her to do it. But more often than not, you need to build on the trust between you first, and this may take some time. Some women are so dependent on their men, they would almost instantly do anything to please him. Other women will never do a single thing that makes them uncomfortable, no matter how much they love their partners. Therefore, one of the goals here would be to make your woman feel comfortable enough to succumb to playing out this fantasy of yours.

To convince her to do it for the first time is a problem, because how do you tell her what you want in a proper and non-demeaning way? An honest relationship allows you to approach your partner with all your needs and desires, so simply explaining to her this fantasy you harbor would be a good start. If she is reluctant, offer to do it first.

Ask your partner to sit down, fully clothed and have her watch you masturbate. Do not allow her to interact, just allow her to watch.

Perhaps it would help if you offer her to role-play. The story would go something like this: she is alone at home, in bed, reading. You are a burglar who got surprised by her early return and who is hiding in the closet. She can then pretend that nobody is home and have a go at herself, while you are in the closet ogling your eyes out.

Also, be careful of being misunderstood by your request to watch her masturbate. Think of it from her point of view: she is present, ready and willing to have sex with you… and you prefer to just watch and not engage with her?

Unless you really explain why you want to do it this way, she’ll figure you’re a pervert. You, on the other hand, will have a hard time staying put. At some point the pressure in your pants will go berserk, so calculate that occurrence when you propose to do a purely voyeuristic encounter.

Why Masturbation is Good for Your Relationship

Why is it important to go through with such a fantasy? This is because it is healthy for your relationship to live out all your sexual fantasies together with your partner.

If you don’t talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and you leave them simmering in the back of your head, some day you will get a feeling as if you are missing out on something. Such desires can get very strong and ultimately ruin a good relationship.

The solution is to speak out about it. Women are smart, but they cannot read minds, again unless you are married to her for a decade or so. Actually, this advice to speak out about your sexual fantasies goes both ways. You need to ask her about her fantasies and reciprocate by fulfilling her desires too.

A very young relationship, where you have been together with a woman for a couple of days, or maybe weeks, is frail and asking your girlfriend to perform for you is a risk. However, if you are honest and able to properly define your reasons for asking such a thing, she may do it. And even if she doesn’t this should be fine with you.

There is plenty of time to get back to that idea later. An icebreaker may be to propose to masturbate simultaneously, watching each other. This may also be a solution in case she is reluctant to have real sex.

On the other hand, a mature relationship, perhaps a yearlong marriage, does very little to promote variety and sex is mostly a matter of catching a mutually convenient and physically possible moment to get intimate.

To waste that moment on a fantasy may seem ludicrous to you, but believe me that a change in the routine may be a very welcome surprise to your love life. It is always good to be creative and imaginative with your partner, so that she feels wanted, desirable, sexy and beautiful. After years of marriage, sometimes that validation is more important to a woman then having sex. So really, asking her to masturbate in front of you may be something she’s secretly delighted with!

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One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really give her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you’re using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don’t use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what’s mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you’re going to burn scented oils.

Also, don’t scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don’t forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don’t join her in the bath just yet.

Start sexually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or ‘clean’ her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here’s a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try ‘shampooing’ her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her ‘sweet spot’. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply ‘connect’ with that special place as well. Good luck!

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Hi there! Today I want to share with you 5 hot variations of the so-called missionary position.

Please, please, please try one of them tonight with your loved one.

Enjoy!

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Missionary Position 1

For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn’t mean she can’t still get off. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched. Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you’ll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse. However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.

Missionary Position 2

Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner’s legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work your way up to harder and deeper penetration. Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements.

Missionary Position 3

This is a variation of the second missionary position which allows for even deeper penetration and gives you an angle more appropriate for clitoral stimulation. Again, your partner lies on her back on the bed. You’ll be kneeling above her, but at a slight angle. Take her legs and put both of them over one of your shoulders. Make sure you remain at that slight angle during penetration as well.

Missionary Position 4

This missionary position works by keeping the two of you closely connected so each thrust is more likely to stimulate its desired target. Of course, your partner lies on her back and you straddle her body. After you are inside her, she needs to pull her legs tightly together and you’ll need to wrap your ankles around her lower legs. While in this position, you’ll continue thrusting into her. If she seems uncomfortable, you may want to use lessen the depth of each thrust. Remember discomfort of any kind will interfere with your partner’s orgasm.

Missionary Position 5

While this technique may not technically be an example of the missionary position, this is the best classification I could determine. This time your partner lies on the bed or floor with you kneeling above her. Now take her legs and raise them up, so you are holding her calves in the crook of your arm. Her butt should now be lifted off the bed and her vagina should be in line with your penis, so penetration will be easier. If it makes her more comfortable, you could slide some soft pillows under her lower back. In this position, each time you thrust into her, you are also pulling her body against yours so each penetration is deeper and more intense. Because of the angle of the penetration, you are also more likely to stimulate either her clitoris or her G-spot which should bring her to orgasm.

“Tantra does not require “believing in” something, or even “agreeing with” anything. There is nothing to accept on blind faith. The validity of Tantric teachings and practices lies in our own experience, our own inner process. We don’t have to take anyone’s word for anything. No one is asking us to believe anything. There is no dogma. The only way we can truly practice Tantra is to give up our concepts of what we think is happening and see what is actually happening. Through the process of Kundalini awakening we open up to inner or intuitive knowledge. The Shakti stimulates insights and breakthroughs. We practice Tantra and relate these practices to our day-to-day life. We become more fulfilled and powerful.” —– Gurumayi Chidvilasananda

Supreme Bliss Tantra

Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy that transforms Kundalini, or orgasmic energy, into expanded consciousness. Tantra believes that all energy is life force energy. Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path that uses Kundalini energy practices to…

- Deepen love, intimacy and ecstasy
- Extend lovemaking, and
- Create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra…

…heals your mind, body, and spirit, connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to reach cosmic peaks of pleasure making life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is. Wow! Can you see why I’m so jazzed about it?

Ancient Tradition Without Fear

The word Tantra comes from the roots “to expand, extend, and weave.” Tantrikas, adepts at Tantric practice, extend their awareness, heighten their sensitivity, expand their consciousness, and weave all the energies of life together to affirm joyous living.

Tantra emerged thousands of years ago in India, moving to China and Tibet as a grass-roots rebellion against the repressive hierarchical religions of the day. Back then, to even reach for enlightenment required lifetimes of denying desire and doing penance for past-life karma. Tantra opened the doors of spiritual evolution to everyone, regardless of their social status.

If you’re worried about what you’re getting yourself into, don’t. Tantra isn’t a religion based on faith, dogma, or right living. You don’t have to join, carry a card, cut your hair, or wear robes.

Since it’s not really a philosophy, it has no rules, qualifications, or requirements. There’s no code of behavior, no punishment for sin, and no pot of gold waiting for you in the afterlife at the end of the rainbow.

If you’re seeking inner peace, higher consciousness, a more fulfilling sex life with a new partner, or rekindling the earlier fire with a longtime mate, the erotic sacred wisdom of India and other Eastern cultures can help.

East Meets West

In the modern West, we stress the power of knowledge and thought. What you know determines what you can do. You measure success through hard work, accumulation material wealth, and caring for your relationship and family.

You reap physical pleasures, moments of happiness, and a high quality of living.

In the traditional East, the quality of inner life — not the process of living — was more important. Inner peace free from raging mind chatter was and is most important. Inner stillness free from the ravages of the pursuit of success and the fear of failure. Inner harmony free from relationship ups and downs by loving yourself most.

You reap Supreme Bliss by experiencing joy in every breath, every tree, every flower, every moment. Tantra is the bridge between the East and West — the path to the joy of the soul through full awareness of the physical world.

By learning to make love consciously, fully, spiritually, you transcend the outer school of hard knocks and grow into total acceptance of your inner self while living in the world.

In Tantra, sacred sex is a path, not an end.

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Raising consciousness is the heart and soul of Tantric Sex. So many people are swept through life looking at pictures in the mind instead of living with full awareness of each moment.

They spend their time and energy dwelling on the past, plotting the future, and comparing the current state of affairs to a set of pre-recorded subconscious tapes.

To counteract the programming that keeps us distracted and to quiet compulsive left-brain thinking, Tantra teaches us to focus our attention on the present.

Tantra shows us how to exist in this moment, become totally absorbed in the “now,” and open our inner windows to the world fully. This activates our right brain that contributes to a presence more deeply rooted in spirit.

We do this by heightening our five senses — sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing. We become dedicated to enjoying the physical fully by reveling in eating, drinking, massaging, dancing, and making love.

We learn to live in harmony with whatever life serves up, whether on a silver platter or bed of thorns. That’s partly why Tantrikas major in surrender — just letting things happen of their own accord without resistance. This whole approach to life suggests we should just give up goal orientation, enter each experience without expectations, and just live fully in each moment.

PRACTICE: Sitting Meditation

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Tantra aims to raise consciousness. It’s not a philosophy but a collection of spiritual and sexual practices. A logical question, then, is how can you practice raising consciousness? Soon we’ll show you how to do this with sex. For sex to be sacred, transformative, and awesome, you must approach it with the right attitude. That attitude is meditation. Which is a great way to practice consciousness.

Meditation is simply sitting and emptying the mind. It’s not an essential prerequisite for joyous Sacred Gate massage, but it sure helps when you enter yoni with the right attitude. We describe it here for you to experiment with.

Since you can’t force thoughts away, emptying the mind is more challenging than it sounds. Gurus have developed many meditation techniques down through the ages that can help you quiet the inner talk and enter a “no mind” condition. We’ve tried many of them and they all seek to create a deep inner peace filled with stillness.

Purpose

Sitting Meditation just guides you to watch your breath. The simple relaxation method is good preparation for what’s coming, because conscious breathing is one of the Tantric skills used in the sexual practices that follow.

1. SPACE

Make some free time in a quiet uninterrupted space. You can do this next to a partner, but, since it’s a personal private inner experience, it’s not essential. Yes, you have to turn off your phone, answering machine, pager, and TV. Be brave, let go of the remote for just a few moments.

2. SIT

Sit in a comfortable position. The classic posture is the lotus position with one leg crossed over the other. We can’t get all the way there, and it may not be easy for you either. Get as close as you can to this posturing, insuring that you sit upright at least. A great aid is a “zafu,” a round Japanese meditation pillow that’s firm and shaped like a fat pancake. It helps you keep your pelvis higher than your semi-crossed legs. You can also meditate sitting straight in a comfortable chair or sofa.

3. BE

Meditation is not doing anything — it’s simply being. So don’t set any goals or preconceptions of what’s going to happen. Just sit for a moment and relax.

4. WITNESS

As you settle in to a comfortable state, you’ll undoubtedly discover that your mind is busy. Don’t do anything about it, just let it happen. Witness ideas floating by like clouds in a brisk wind.

5. WATCH YOUR BREATH

To quiet the mind without force, watch your breath coming in and out. Don’t change your breathing consciously, just pay attention to it entering your nostrils, flowing into your lungs, and out again.

6. COME BACK

You’ll probably find your concentration wandering away from your breath. Don’t beat yourself up, this is natural. When you realize you’ve strayed, just come back to watching your breath.

7. A FEW MINUTES

Gurus advise sitting like this for 15 minutes morning and afternoon. Since you shouldn’t be watching the clock, we’re not sure how you time it. We usually just remain still until we relax and the mind settles.

Afterthoughts

My primary concern here with how meditation helps prepare you for ecstatic sacred sex and Tantric Orgasm. All I can say is that tension impedes the process and relaxation is vital for long lasting supreme experiences. It also helps you practice focusing, an important skill in Tantric lovemaking.

As well, if you incorporate regular meditation into your life, you’ll find that it’s a great way to relieve stress, release tension, and relax. One essential requirement for ecstasy is “relaxation in high states of arousal.”

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The famous sex researchers, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, were the first to outline the four stages of sexual response in human beings. These stages apply to both men and women, but each gender experiences the stages differently. Men typically race through the stages faster than women do, but that’s only on average. In some situations, women may be ready for orgasm much faster than a man. We’ll look at each of the stages as they occur in women and we’ll tell you what signs to watch for so you’ll be able to determine when your partner is ready for the next stage.

Stage 1 – Excitement

This is one of the easiest stages to reach for both men and women. A woman can become excited just by smelling your cologne or having your hand brush against her breasts. She can become excited by fantasizing about sexual encounters or by flirting with you during dinner. In fact, during the average date, women may become excited ten to fifteen times. Most of those times do not lead to the next level, however.

The female body responds to this stage in very specific ways. Let’s go through some of those physical signs of excitement:

• Her nipples become erect
• Her vagina starts becoming lubricated
• Her clitoris begins to swell and grow larger
• The inner parts of her vagina begin to expand
• Her breasts may even increase in size if she becomes highly aroused

These are not the only physical signs, but these are probably the ones you or her may notice. Notice that during this early stage, her vagina is already becoming lubricated. Many men have the mistaken notion that this is a sign that a woman is ready to engage in intercourse. That is not the case. A lubricated vagina only means a woman is aroused. All of these signs do suggest, however, that her body is preparing for the possibility of sex.

Stage 2 – Plateau

This second stage does not occur as frequently as the arousal or excitement stage. In fact, most incidents of arousal never reach this level. So when does a woman reach this level? Well, she will require more physical stimulation. Foreplay, for example, will help her move to this stage, so does increased fantasizing. During this stage, sexual tension inside her body is growing.

This stage is also accompanied by more physical signs. A few of those signs are listed below:

• Breasts may increase noticeably in size
• The vagina swells and the vaginal opening begins to narrow
• The clitoris becomes more erect
• Her heart beat may increase noticeably
• The color of the labia minora will change from pink to either red or wine-color

This final physical sign is very important. Researchers have found that if the color-change does not occur, then women rarely have an orgasm.

About one-half to three-fourths of women also experience what is termed a “sex flush” on parts of their body. The increased blood flow to the skin sometimes gives the appearance of a flush over the chest or other parts of the body.

During the plateau stage, the woman’s body is becoming ready for intercourse. Only near the end of this stage is she physically ready for vaginal intercourse.

Stage 3 – Orgasm

All of those women who fake their orgasms end up continually jumping from the second to the fourth stage of sexual response. After her body is truly ready for intercourse and if she is receiving the proper stimulation – usually clitoral – then it does not take long for her to reach the third stage.

Below are some of the physical effects your partner will experience during this stage. Some of these should be noticeable by you and a couple are impossible for her to fake, so if you really want to know whether you are making her climax or not you just need to pay attention to the physical signs.

• Muscle contractions – Intense muscle contractions through the pelvic area will occur during the orgasm. A woman can have three to fifteen of these contractions depending on the strength of her orgasm. She may also experience muscle contractions in other parts of the body as well.
• Most women’s bodies become temporarily rigid at the highest point of their orgasm. This lasts for only a moment, but its something you may notice.
• The “sex flush” is another indicator of orgasm. At this stage, it becomes brighter and more noticeable. It may also have spread to other areas of her body.

Another tell-tale sign of orgasm in some women is ejaculation. Some women do ejaculate after an orgasm.

Although you won’t be able to see this, an orgasm can be detected by looking at a woman’s brain wave patterns. There is a clear difference.

Stage 4 – Resolution

This is an interesting stage because what happens during it depends on what did not happen before or what is continuing to happen. For example, if a woman does successfully complete the third stage then she may be able to have multiple orgasms.

If a woman does not have an orgasm, then her body will begin to return to normal but it will take longer. Many women report physical discomfort in the pelvic area during this process.

You should also keep in mind that after an orgasm a woman’s breasts and nipples will be incredibly sensitive. In fact, they can be so sensitive that touching them is uncomfortable for her.

After the last orgasm, the “sex flush” will disappear.

Also, your partner may experience heavy sweating, rapid heart beating, and/or heavy breathing.

The resolution stage marks the end of the cycle for women.

Using The Right Techniques And Positions

Now that you understand the four stages of female response, it´s crucial that you learn the right techniques and positions.

Why?

Simple: because if you don´t use the right techniques and positions you will most likely skip one of the stages. (There are proven techniques and positions to make the female orgasm literally inevitable!)

And today, I will share this techniques and positions with you!

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You want nothing more than to have your woman crying out your name in pleasure, right? The problem is you don’t know exactly how to get her to that point consistently. Well, let me give you seven pointers that are sure to make her want you inside her in the worst way – and once she’s at that point, you’re home free.

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1. Touch her hand and wrist – Nothing seems less sexual on a woman’s body than her hands to most men, but they are actually extremely sensitive spots on her body. Just stroking her palm or the inside of her wrist very softly will send shivers all along her spine. Try rubbing your hand from her inner wrist all the way up her lower arm. Not only will she melt, but you’ll be putting her senses on high alert so she’ll be ready for more.

2. Whisper in her ear – Your woman’s ears aren’t just perfect for listening to you talk about your day at the work. They’re actually a very sensual part of her body. Plus, they’ll directly connect you to the most sexual organ in her entire body: her brain. Lean close to her and whisper in her ear. The gentle rush of warm air along her ear will send tingles down her spine. And if you’re saying some naughty words about what you want to do the non-ear parts of her body you’ll probably get quite a rise out of her.

3. Give her neck some attention – While you’re whispering in her ear, your hands can be working their magic on her neck. For some reason, the base of the neck where it connects to the shoulders and upper back is full of nerve endings that would love to send shots of pleasure rushing through her whole body courtesy of your fingertips so don’t disappoint them. Gently stroke her lower neck with your fingers and when you’re not whispering in her ear you could also cover it with delicate kisses and maybe even a little lick.

4. Stroke her hair – You may love the way her hair smells after a shampoo or the way it feels draped over your chest after a round of passionate sex, but you probably don’t show it the attention SHE wishes you would. A woman’s scalp is super sensitive and each strand of her hair is connected to it. Imagine what that means when you start stimulating thousands of those strands at one time! Remember women aren’t just playing with their hair to look cute or flirtatious; they do it because it feels amazing for them, too. Just start running your hands over her hair and she’ll start to melt. Some women even go crazy when their partners brush their hair for them.

5. Massage her back – What woman can resist a sensual massage? None that I’ve ever met! And there’s a good reason. A woman’s back is teaming with nerve endings just waiting for stimulation. Of course, each woman is different in terms of where the sweet spots tend to be. Some prefer the areas just under the shoulder blades; others get weak with a few strokes on their lower back. Part of the fun for you will be discovering all of the best places for your fingers, hands, tongue, and lips to enjoy her body. If you really want to experiment, take a feather and light stroke her back with it. The moaning you hear now will only be a prelude to what you’ll be hearing in the bedroom.

6. Touch her lips – You’d probably be surprised to discover just how many tiny nerves can be found in those soft, sweet lips that have kissed you and which have probably given you hours of pleasure in other ways. Now you can repay the favor by giving them some much needed attention. Kiss her. Start with very gentle kisses, then gradually become more intense and passionate. If you want to start even more slowly, run the tip of your finger across her lips to give her goose bumps all over her body.

7. Ignore her breasts for awhile – Men love breasts, and women love men to love their breasts. But we love having you love the rest of us first. If you really want to work your woman into a frenzy, work on stimulating all of her body you can reach without removing any of her clothing. When she’s already highly aroused – and you’ll definitely be able to tell – then start stroking, kissing, and licking her breasts and nipples. Your devotion to the rest of her beautiful body won’t go to waste.

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The G-Spot is a highly sensitive area on the front or upper wall of the yoni (Tantric for vagina). G-Spot a modern term, coined by Ladas, Whipple, & Perry in their 1982 book The G-Spot And other Discoveries About Human Sexuality. They named it after Ernst Gräfenberg M.D. who first wrote about this “new” orgasmic trigger in a scientific journal in 1950.

By the way, Gräfenberg didn’t call it a spot and rightly so. It’s an area in different places in different women. And it moves.

In Tantric sex it´s called the G-Spot the Sacred Gate, partly because all of sex is sacred to a Tantrika (a Tantra adept) and partly because it truly is a doorway to profound love, deep emotional intimacy, and sexual ecstasy. The Sacred Gate contains the power to unleash hidden emotions, generate deep orgasms, and trigger ejaculation when aroused enough.

Before you’re done reading about the G-Spot over the next few weeks - and doing its many juicy practices, I can assure you that you’ll be able to find and excite your beloved’s Sacred Gate. You’ll learn anatomy, massage strokes, and more pathways to G-Spot orgasm than you can imagine.

I expect that some of you have had negative experiences with G-Spot stimulation. You may have felt little, nothing, burning, or other discomfort. Let us assure you that, by following my program to awaken your Sacred Gate, this will never be the case again.

A Brief Sexual History Lesson

Though G-Spot is a modern term, undoubtedly the ancients were aware of the super sensitive parts inside yoni (vagina). They were certainly aware of one the Sacred Gate’s primary sexual functions, female ejaculation. There are references to the female expulsion of fluid with orgasm as early as Aristotle in ancient Greece. The Kama Sutra mentions in clearly. Shakespeare called it “the water of my love.”

It wasn’t until about 400 years ago that a Dutch anatomist, Regnier De Graaf, clearly defined the glands and ducts that make up the Sacred Gate. He said they were analogous to the male prostate. This started a scientific trend of referring to the G-Spot as the female prostate.

In 1880 Alexander Skene, M.D., extensively studied and illustrated the glands and ducts that comprise the female prostate. To this day, some refer to this part of a woman’s anatomy as Skene’s glands. It wasn’t until 1953 that a urologist named Samuel Berkow concluded that this tissue was erectile.

More current research beginning in the 80s concluded that the Skene’s glands are small, functional organs that produce female prostatic secretion and possess cells comparable to the male prostate.

When you feel the G-Spot, or Sacred Gate, you’re feeling these glands beneath the skin of yoni’s upper wall.

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To help as many people as I can enjoy the best sex positions every time!

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Three Positions to Hit the G-Spot

I read the other day that the majority of American’s regularly have sex in just a few positions. Well, if that’s true, its time to shake things up! This article is on g spot positions. These are our favorite ways of hitting the g-spot during sex.

If you like boring, normal sex, that lasts just 5 to 10 minutes, don’t read this page. If you’re feeling more adventurous, and are ready to blow your mind then please, proceed!

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For the purposes of this article, we’re going to assume you know what the g spot is, how to regularly find it, and how your partner likes it stimulated.

Now that that’s all taken care of lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.

In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We’ve found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.

And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!

Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

I have to say there’s something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.

As you are on top, experiment with what feel’s best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel’s good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)

Now, as the guy in this position, you’re not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do “ just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.

You’ll also get a great workout! : )

Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you’ll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.

I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference. If you want to find out more about liberator shapes, their website is www.liberatorshapes.com.

Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there’s just something so primal and sexy about *&#*! from behind.

Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.

However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)

Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.

This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.

We’ve also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.

Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman’s Legs on His Shoulders)

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can’t look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner’s shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)

Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won’t tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

Well, these are our three favorite g spot positions, and I hope you try them out and enjoy!

Visit our pages on g spot positions for more information.

Or check out our website and learn to explore your g spot, and enjoy amazing orgasms, and female ejaculation. Authored by a real couple, with practical tips, techniques, and exercises. http://www.master-your-g-spot.com

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Have you thought about bringing sex to a new level but aren’t ready for toys? Sex furniture is a perfect way to spice up your sex life. It’s non intimidating and so discreet your partner won’t even be able to distinguish it from the rest of your home decor. Today I’m going to inform you on sex furniture, what it is, what it does, and why your woman will love it. C’mon guys it’s about time you take sex out of the bedroom!

What is sex furniture?

Unlike most sex toys, sex furniture is made for couples to enjoy together. It’s not to be used alone or only on one partner. Sex furniture is home furniture designed specifically to allow partners to reach perfect angles for ultimate penetration and sensations. Sex furniture is not cheesy; it’s versatile, comfortable and stylish enough to be part of your home decor.

In fact, sex furniture should be made to be out in the open. Studies show items put away or hidden get used less than ones easily available. The innocent look of sex furniture allows you to integrate them into your home decor. This means they’re always accessible, just like a bed but so much better. Their ability to be arranged into shapes makes it perfect furniture for the day and so much more at night!

How does sex furniture work?

Most people know the difference between okay sex and great sex is finding the right angle. Sex furniture allows couples to find perfect angles flat surfaces like beds don’t offer. With sex furniture couples find their bodies fit together like never before. For women this means a position where her clitoris is stimulated and her G-spot can also be accessed. Men also experience intense sensations from reaching new angles during sex. Because sex furniture is so flexible, couples can create unique positions and angles that ensure every thrust reaches the right place.

This ability which allows couples to find just the perfect angle makes it one of the easiest and satisfying ways to improve sex life. In fact, women know the secret to great sex can be as small as a slight change of angle and it’s no wonder over 90% of people buying sex furniture are women. The truth is beds are dull and boring in comparison to sex furniture.

Here’s why:

Benefits of sex furniture

As mentioned above, the key to great sex is finding the perfect angle; any kama sutra book will tell you that. However, what they don’t take into account is that not many couples are as agile and youthful as they use to be. Some couples are limited by their bodies due to injury or from the natural aging process. Sex furniture will help you get into those amazing angles without catching a cramp! Just because you are no longer in your physical prime doesn’t mean you can’t experience sex like if you were 20.

You don’t need to be a gymnast sex furniture will give you the right support for wild sex. Unlike, regular furniture which can wear down, lose shape or collapse after heavy use, sex furniture is built to last. They are designed to support the force of two bodies with a much higher level of specification than traditional upholstery. In fact, most products come with a 10 year guarantee. They also come with removable, machine washable covers so that you leave no trace behind!

With the wide variety of sex furniture stores available you can easily find a product that fits right into your home. Most have an extensive product line with different colors, materials, and dimensions so that you can easily add it to your home decor. My favorite product line is by Loving-Angles but my girlfriends all love the Liberator as well. Here is a brief reminder of why you should consider sex furniture:

• Access exquisite angles not offered by flat surfaces such as beds
• Enhances sex life by creating new sex positions
• Allows men to stimulate a woman’s clitoris or g-spot during sex
• Provides support and comfort for unique positions
• Is built to last; won’t lose shape or collapse
• Designed to be part of your home decor
• Machine washable covers for easy up-keeping

5 popular sex furniture items

1. Wedge

The wedge is great for beginners. In fact, many couples have used the science behind the wedge without realizing it. Have you ever noticed your girlfriend prop a pillow underneath her during sex? This gives her a slight lift so that her clitoris or g-spot is stimulated during sex.

However, unlike a pillow which loses shape and goes flat, the wedge securely elevates a woman’s hips to improve her sensation during sex. It also helps men penetrate deeper into the vagina. The wedge offers a slight change of angle which can make all the difference. It can also be used in combination with other products below. It’s definitely an essential.

2. Tilt

The tilt is a larger wedge and is great for doggy style or anal sex. During rear entry sex positions many women experience discomfort as they elevate their body with their arms and shoulders. The tilt eliminates this pressure and makes sex more enjoyable for women. It supports and pushes a woman’s hips up for the perfect back door angle. Now both of you can last as long as you want without having to stop from discomfort.

The tilt can also be used for front positions similar to a wedge for extreme elevation to the hips. The tilt and wedge make a perfect combination on or off the bed. These are one of the smaller sex furniture items which are great starters.

3. Pad

The pad is a base for sex furniture. Instead of placing items such as the wedge and tilt on the floor it is ideal to use them on the pad. The pad eliminates carpet burns or pain to knees caused by hard floors. The pad also converts to a seat when folded in half. The pad gives great control and leverage so that sex is more comfortable. In combination with other sex furniture, like the tilt seen below, the pad is the perfect base for all shapes.

4. Box

The box is also a familiar furniture seen at home. It resembles an ottoman but is designed to deliver a stable springy bounce for rocking sex! Internal layers inside the box allow it to alternate from a stable seating to a bouncy love cube. You can sit on it while you have your partner straddle you or you can use it to place her feet over it. The possibilities are endless. Below it is used to give you ultimate rear entry penetration.

5. Head Rest

The head rest is a perfect support for oral sex. It supports your head when you are on your back and your woman is on top just as the picture demonstrates below or it can be used to support and lift your chin while lying on your stomach. The head rest can be adjusted to give an upward or downward tilt without slipping or losing shape. It ensures the perfect fit and support no matter how tall you are. Bye Bye neck aches during oral sex!

Overall, sex no longer is a thing for the bedroom. It could and should be explored in other areas beside the bed. Even if you don’t have sex furniture, improvise using furniture in your own home. Be creative and find those angles that can make sex so much better! Another great tip to giving your female partner the ultimate sensation is to enhance lubrication in combination with a great sex angle.

Special lubrication enhancement like sensitizing FuYuaChun enhances a woman’s clitoral sensitivity so that each penetration is intensified and she achieves orgasms easier. I personally never have sex without it; it’s like the icing on the cake!

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So men, it’s about time you offer women unique angles for penetration and couples it’s about time to start creating them. Remember, you don’t have to be in your 20’s to have wild sex. There are ways to have both comfort and pleasure during passionate sex. Be open and explore other regions; I bet you never knew your home could be your playground!

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So what is SO amazing about having an orgasm? Well, let me explain…

Most women described two parts of the orgasm: the physical and the psychological sensations. Physically, many women feel pleasant contractions throughout their pelvic region. These contractions are caused by the blood returning to the body and the blood vessels narrowing again. One woman described these contractions as ripples of pleasure.

While the physical sensation seems to be wonderful, many of the women I’ve discussed with paid more attention to the psychological sensation. Immediately after the orgasm, women report feeling completely relaxed and stress free as if all of the tension in their body has suddenly been released. They also talk about overwhelming feelings of peacefulness. In fact, many women claim that orgasms help them to get a more restful night of sleep, particularly when stress has been interfering with their sleep patterns.

The physical sensations of the orgasm usually last between 10 to 30 seconds. The psychological sensations can last as long as an hour or more, depending on the environment.

When it comes to female orgasms, there are technically two types: vaginal and clitoral. The truth is that almost all female orgasms, even those supposedly resulting solely from vaginal stimulation, originate with the clitoris.

So what does that mean for lovers? First, it means that if you have not yet discovered the clitoris in yourself or in your partner, then that should be your first task. The second task is to start discussing what kind of clitoral stimulation works best. If you don’t know now, then by all means begin experimenting.

I should also mention that more recent research is indicating that at least in some women both vaginal and clitoral stimulation is needed to provide a so-called œcomplete orgasm.

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Hi everyone! It´s Saturday, so this post is short (but extremely powerful).

I call this technique: “Her Clitoris And Something Else”

You see, most men try to bring women to an orgasm by touching their clitoris.

WRONG!

If you touch her clitoris ONLY, it will be extremely difficult for her to reach an orgasm.

Here´s what you have to do tonight:

As you stroke and rub her clitoris, stroke another part of her body at the same time.

So what you have to do is CONNECT two parts of her body: her clitoris and something else.

You might try connecting the clitoris up with the:

- Breasts
- Toes
- Mouth
- Anus

Trust me, it works. Please try it tonight.

Remember: Her clitoris and something else! (you choose…)

Enjoy! Cheers…

Sarah

Tantric Sex is making love reverently, sacredly, and consciously to maximize and circulate orgasmic energy. It’s much more than technique. It’s an amalgamation of attitude and emotion, awareness and approach.

To be sure, the G-Spot course you will have access to in a few weeks, will teach you lots of specific sexual how-tos that will give you enormous confidence. Just remember, when you combine them with the Tantric attitude, voila, you’ll become every woman’s dream lover.

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The G-Spot course will include expansive and exciting solo and partner practices to enable you to understand, first-hand (pun intended), the nature of Tantra and the experience of Tantric Sex. Before you’re done, you’ll know exactly how to find, excite, and create maximum pleasure from the G-Spot. You’ll know how to ejaculate if you’re female, or make your female partner’s waters flow regardless of your sexual preference.

More importantly to students of Tantra, you’ll know how to interweave mind, body, and spirit to create powerful, ecstatic and long lasting sexual experiences, with or without sexual union. (That’s one of our names for intercourse.) You’ll learn to muster your inner fire, couple sexual energy with physical touch, and exchange orgasmic magnetism with your beloved.

By the way, everything inside the course applies to women giving to women as well as men giving to women.

Kundalini To The Rescue

Before going further, let me explain what I mean when I refer (often in my tantric sex articles and in the course) to a key target of Tantric Sex, Kundalini energy. There’s a dormant life force inside all of us that few tap into fully. When you’re turned-on sexually, you can feel this nervous stimulation and physical excitation, alive, bubbling, vibrating inside you. Even when you’re not, you can probably feel it trickling and tickling inside.

This is sexual energy, which most lovers feel most strongly right before orgasm. So sometimes we call it orgasmic energy.
Kundalini is the old Sanskrit name for this normally latent psychosexual power. The ancients pictured Kundalini like a coiled snake that lies sleeping at the base of the spine. When awakened through Tantric practice, Kundalini energy can ascend through the subtle body, creating powerful ecstatic experiences and heightened cosmic consciousness. Know how to do that for yourself, and exchange Kundalini with a partner and, virtually, the sky’s the limit.

Being a great lover is a learned art and science. If you grew up the way most of us did, you weren’t born into a society fully aware of this knowledge. Now you can enter the sacred gate of supreme bliss. The path is great and wide.

Welcome to expanded Tantric sexuality.

Why Is It Important For You To Learn About Tantra?

Tantra is the ancient art of transforming the Kundalini energy awakened by orgasm into spiritual connection and cosmic consciousness. Its roots are very old, as long as 7,000 years ago.

Tantra shows us how to open fully to our sexual nature and, in the process, learn to love all of who we are. As we practice more ways to feel pleasure and consciously experience ourselves as sexual beings, we’re able to more fully realize our spiritual nature. Sadly, we live in an anti-ecstatic society that doesn’t promote joy, pleasure, and ecstasy as worthwhile pursuits. Tantra says these are the only worthwhile pursuits.

As part of your Tantric exploration into the depths of your sexuality, it is only natural that you explore the capacity of the Sacred Gate (The G-Spot) and the phenomenon of female ejaculation. Tantra says be all you can be, experience everything, enjoy.

Know yourself sexually, and the truth will set you free. We’ll fully explore the nature of Supreme Bliss Tantra so you’ll learn how to be the blissful, playful, energetic lover you were born to be. That’s a lover who has the desire and capacity to make lovemaking last through multiple orgasms of multiple kinds, regardless of your sex. We’ll teach you ancient Tantric secrets about how to relax, awaken your senses, and use your breath to increase your sexual pleasure. We’ll demonstrate how to move your body to enhance your orgasms. We’ll offer you everything you need to know, to practice, to experience and to fly emotionally and spiritually on the wings of sexual bliss.

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