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Hi all!

It´s finally 2008, I´m so excited about 2008.

Today I´ll give you some tips to spend a VERY sensual evening with your partner.

It´s called “lights… camera… action!”

Because the idea is to take advantage of the technology we have today (such as digital cameras) to enjoy some sexy moments together.

So let´s get started!

1. Grab your video camera and make your own porno movie together. I recommend creating a title for the movie and a story. Don´t just have sex in front of a camera! Create a story first, and then act it…

2. Get a few costumes to make your porno movie even more sensual. For example, try roles like: CEO of a company, secretary, soldier, prostitute, etc.

3. Another great technique is to videotape yourselves having sex. Just have sex as usual. And then watch the movie together to see what you both like and what you´re doing wrong. (It will help both of you improve your sex skills!)

4. Finally I recommend preparing a romantic dinner together, grab a bottle of red wine, a few candles and… enjoy your sensual movies together!

Enjoy!

This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

So do you know your woman’s sweet sex spots? Here’s a quick rundown of what they may likely be and what you can do to it during a sexual massage.

Her Breasts.

Ok, her breasts may not be a big erogenous zone secret for you but do you know how to handle them properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts. And more so during sexual massage! So what do you do?

First of all, remember that the goal of a sexual massage is to de-stress while heightening sexual desire. So the general rule is to handle her body with TLC (tender loving care).

When it comes to her breasts, this is what you should do during your sexual massage session: avoid putting your whole hand over her breast. Using your index fingers, lightly press on her nipples as you would press a sensitive buzzer. First use dry fingers, then lick your index fingers and push down again.

The fact that she does not feel anything except your index finger on her nipple will send shivers through her body! And because you’re not touching her anywhere else (avoid any other body contact), her body is still in total relaxation (while her mind is already advancing towards sex).

Now, after about 10 ‘finger presses’, very lightly lick her nipple. Do not overdo this, just give her butterfly licks. After about 10 licks on each breast, stop and go to other hot zones.

Her Armpit.

Another erogenous zone is her armpit. Lick this during the sexual massage and she will feel delirious and lustful! To make sure that this is not unpleasant for you. Prepare a wet, hot towel before you start the sexual massage and use it to wipe her armpit before you start licking gently.

Do the ‘Dip’

From her upper torso, gently move towards sexually massaging her by doing “The Dip”. Put her arms above her head then position your arms under her shoulder (as if you were embracing her in bed). This position will ‘open’ her body to you. Breathe warmly against her collarbone, kiss the side of each breast and then position your tongue between her breasts.

From this position, lick her all the way down, passing her stomach, belly button, belly and then ending with a quick ‘dip’ in her genitals!

Her Foot.

This is the proper position when you start focusing on her feet: have her bend her knees and spread her legs a bit. This vulnerable position will already bring images of sex to her mind. You then kneel between her legs and lift one of her legs so that you can massage her foot. Put a lot of warm, massage oil on your hands and then slowly knead her feet. At the end of your massage, breathe against the sole of her feet. Your warm breath will both relax and sexually stimulate her.

Her Toes.

Toes are often neglected erogenous zones! The proper way to sexually massage toes is this: clean off any oil on and between her toes with a soft, wet and warm towel. Hold her big toe, run your thumb against its sole (out a bit of pressure) and follow through with a quick like. Do this for each toe. The next step is to slowly and seductively suck each toe!

Her Butt.

Have your woman lie on her back. Put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her ass, kneading lightly. After this, progress to kissing them and licking them. And then just when she’s so relaxed, comfortable or maybe even about to drift off, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her a sexual charge like no other!

Proceed to licking her crack and when you notice that she’s getting too excited. Turn her over and let the love-making begin!

The fact that you’re bodies are both slick from the massage oil and glistening in the dark makes love-making even more exciting.

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Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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Ok “boys”, lets get started with today´s naughty fantasies.

Important: I said FANTASIES!

It´s not legal to have sex outdoors in most countries, so let´s just fantasize together darling.

Here are some of my hottest Outdoor Sex Fantasies:

1. Get a blow up pool and enjoy a moment together in your backyard;

2. Go camping with close friends, and get a sleeping bag for 2 (for hot sex while your friends are sleeping);

3. Try having sex in a hammock;

4. Go to the closest beach, and try a “salt water” sex experience;

5. Rent a kayak (or similar), go far away from the beach and have hot sex;

6. Try something on in a store together, and enjoy wild sex in the dressing room;

7. Take your woman to a restaurant (outdoors) and tell her to give you a blow job (under the table cloth);

8. Invite your closest friends to a picnic, and have sex in the car while they´re getting the BBQ ready!

Now it´s YOUR turn.

Please take a moment to write your fantasies in the “Leave a Comment” section!

Kisses!

Sarah

Hi there!

First of all:

Happy holiday season!

I honestly LOVE helping you improve your sex life. Trust me, that is by FAR the best Christmas gift I can get…

But enough about me… let´s talk about you and how to enjoy the sexiest Christmas ever!

Here are a few tips…

1. Buy the hottest sex toy and give it to your loved one in a red box (with red and green gift wrap) during christmas… Yes, during the “family” dinner. But tell her to open the box after the party.

2. Write a sensual letter to “Santa” asking for the hottest sex toys and female lingerie (for her), and give it to your woman a night before Christmas.

3. Give her the best Christmas gift ever: a letter (signed by you) with a formal commitment to be her SEX slave for one week.

4. Ask your girl NOT to wear underwear during the Christmas dinner. Plus, she MUST wear a dress!

5. Sit right next to her during the “family” dinner… and touch her slowly… Make sure there´s a long table cloth!

6. After dinner is over, she´ll be ready for wild sex. So, hurry and go back home to enjoy the new sex toys together!

Have a VERY sensual holiday season!

Once again: helping you is the BEST gift I can get!

Love and Kisses,

Sarah

Foreplay is not something to be rushed. In fact, the longer the suspense, the tighter the tension, the hotter the passion!

You see, if you are trying to put foreplay back into your lives and then rush through it, then you are undermining its importance. Instead, plan for a night of passion you and your partner won’t forget.

Start the day right. Start foreplay the minute your partner wakes up. For women, try leaving erotica (a Kama Sutra-type book always works!) by the bedside or ‘accidentally’ leave a pair of black (or red) thongs on the bed. Titillate his imagination!

For men, leave a dirty magazine under the pillow or on the bed. The ‘accidentally leaving your underwear’ thing doesn’t work for men as successfully as for women though. Instead, wake up with, er… an erection and be sure your partner sees it or ‘accidentally’ comes into contact with it.

I guarantee your partner will wake up with thoughts of sex in the air! (There you go; foreplay has begun!)

Now continue this ‘teasing’. For example, you can let your robe fall off after the shower or go out of the shower completely naked (say you forgot to bring a towel or clothes or something…). Don’t be shy to make ‘poses’ while naked! Bend over, stretch, or even rub yourself lightly. Do this innocently but be sure your partner sees it!

Be unreachable but don’t be mean. At this point, your partner’s thoughts may already be about sex, don’t give in! Play hard to get. However, don’t be mean. Some people tease to the point where his/her partner is so hot already that if you don’t give in, they get frustrated! Worse, they see it as rebuke. You don’t want that! You should be able to tease ‘to a point of return’.

The ‘Excuse Me’ Tip!

Here’s a tip from one of my readers. Sometimes, when she wakes up in the morning, she teases her man by trying to get out of bed on HIS side. So she says “excuse me” and then she just HAS to get on top of him right? And while there, a little ‘dry rubbing’ goes on and soon enough, he gets hot. She then gives him a wet kiss, gets up and says “See you tonight honey…” coyly.

(It works for men also!)

Maintain the sexual tension. Now that you’ve started foreplay, maintain the tension. Most people make the mistake of thinking that because their partners were ‘hot’ this morning, they will be in exactly the same state that night. Wrong!

So how do you keep your partner longing for you during the day? Try these tricks.

• Send an x-rated email or link to an x-rated site and say “Look at what [name of friend or colleague] sent me today!”
• Send an email or SMS saying “Honey, [name of porn film] is in at the store/video rent house today. Shall I get it?”
• Send a picture SMS of yourself with… barely anything on.

Set the stage appropriately. The stage can be a hotel room or simply at home. You MUST take the personality traits of your partner here.

If he/she is the romantic type, then spread rose petals on the floor and on the bed, chill the champagne, and light 100 scented candles! However, here’s the real-life truth: many people are not like this. Some think this is ‘over the top’ or ‘too corny’. So don’t try to recreate a romantic movie scene here if it doesn’t suit you or your partner.

If he/she is more the ‘practical’ type, then hold off on the scattered flower petals and simply go for a fresh bouquet of red roses and put them in a vase in the living room and another in the bedroom. Instead of champagne, go for your partner’s favorite wine or hard-to-get, imported beer! Instead of 100 scented candles, go for few lighted ones placed strategically in your home. Be subtle but make the changes stand out nonetheless.

Practical Tips!

Please don’t try and create a romantic setting if you have not taken care of a few basic things such as getting rid of the kids and doing some basic room cleaning. I tell you, it ruins the mood!

Seriously, if you have kids, it really pays to have them stay at grandma’s for the night. I guarantee you’ll be amazed at how uninhibited and abandoned your partner will be in bed!

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Hi! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you some information about my OBSESSION:

Sex toys, sex toys, sex toys… I love them!

Let´s talk about the Vibrator for a moment. Just because most people know about it doesn´t mean they all know how to use it properly!

So, let me teach you a few concepts… Relax and enjoy!

Sarah xx

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Sex Toy/Accessory: Vibrators
Average Price Range: $15 to $90

Description:

Vibrators are similar in some ways to dildos. Many are shaped like penises, but there are a wide variety of other shapes and sizes to choose from as well. The biggest difference between a dildo and a vibrator is the vibration.

The traditional vibrator’s action – which is usually powered by batteries or wall outlet – stimulates the clitoris and helps bring a woman to orgasm.

Today, couples have more options to choose from. Vibrators can be purchase to stimulate the clitoris, the G-spot, or the vulva. Some are large and have a stronger vibration while others are more discreet and can be used almost anywhere. Another type of vibrator – commonly called the tongue – recreates the feeling of oral sex for a woman.

Men don’t have to lose out on the pleasures of vibrators either. Just as there are dildos designed specially for anal fun, there are also vibrators that do the same thing. Because of the vibration, the vibrator doesn’t have to inserted very deeply usually to stimulate his pleasure zone – the prostate. Plus, these can be used to give more pleasure to women as well.

How to Use It:

That all depends on the type of vibrator you bought. Vibrators can actually be a lot of fun in the bedroom – that might be why they are the most popular sex toy hands down.

If you choose a vibrator for clitoral stimulation, it can be used during vaginal or anal intercourse to give your partner that little extra something she needs to hit the high notes of orgasmic delight. Of course, anal vibrators can be used during intercourse as well by either partner.

The vibration also feels amazing when it stimulates any erogenous zone on the body, including the breasts, the neck, inner thighs, etc., which means you can use them to heat things up during foreplay or to get things moving in the right direction during intercourse.

And, as with the dildo, each of you can watch or help one another climax using these nifty little toys.

Why to Use It:

The best reason of all to use a vibrator is because they feel incredible. If you’ve never used one, just turn your cell phone on vibrate and have someone call you while you hold it in your hand. Imagine that feeling intensified and located in your vagina, your anus, or on any other sensitive spot on your body. You’ll know exactly what I mean.

Another great reason to use a vibrator is because they aren’t intrusive. Some men shy away from dildos because penetrating their partner with a glass or acrylic shaft doesn’t leave much room for them. Since vibrators are smaller and can be used simply to add in a little extra sensation, they don’t get in the way of the main event.

Plus, let’s be honest, men are already sensitive about penis size and many of the most popular dildos on the market are a little “over-sized” when compared to the average man. That doesn’t men women like them bigger but it does mean that the toys have to be made that way in order to correctly stimulate the woman. Since vibrators come in small sizes and in shapes that don’t even resemble a penis at all, men won’t necessarily feel threatened by playing around with them.

Purchasing Suggestions:

For the best time with a vibrator, you should shop around. You definitely want to be able to adjust the strength of the vibration in order to customize your pleasure. That’s just a given.

You also need to take into consideration how you want to use them. If you’re looking for a water toy, then make sure the device you pick is water-proof and doesn’t run on electric power – be warned though that this usually means they don’t have the punch of other vibrators. If you want to be able to slide the vibrator between your partner’s legs during a movie, at a restaurant, or in the back of a cab, then you’ll want to choose something small and quiet.

Important Tip:

Whether you’re using dildos or vibrators, it’s a good idea to use lubricant. Even the smoothest toy can cause unpleasant friction whether it’s penetrating a man or a woman. Good lubricant can make a huge difference in the pleasure of the experience.

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Hi everyone! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you 2 naughty places where you MUST have sex with your partner.

IMPORTANT: There´s NOTHING more BORING than having sex in the SAME place every single night…

Be creative!
Ok, with that said… Let´s get started! Enjoy!

Sarah xx
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Location: Swimming Pool/Hot Tub

What to Do:

Unless one of you can hold your breath for a long time, you are somewhat limited in how adventurous you can be sexually in a swimming pool or hot tub. That doesn’t mean you can’ still have a great time.

The weightless feeling you get from being in the water makes it extremely easy to have sex while standing up, especially if one person is leaning against the side of the pool.

Of course, you don’t just have to have sex. Foreplay can be fun in the swimming pool or hot tub, too. Bring along your favorite water-proof vibrator or dildo and share them. These locations can be even hotter if you bring along an extra person or two for some really wild encounters.

Why It’s Hot:

Swimming pools and hot tubs combine two of the things which make sex incredible: the risk of being caught and the feeling of water.

Because most pools and hot tubs are outside, you’re going to be running the same risks and experiencing the same thrills that you were discussed in the section on backyard sex. Your neighbors could see you. Your outside where almost anyone could peek into you fence and get a look at what you and your partner(s) are up to.

Plus, nothing beats the feeling of cool water on your skin when you’re hot from passion. It doesn’t cool you off; it just seems to get you hotter. Maybe because your nerve endings are already on high alert, anxious for any kind of stimulation and the lapping of the water against your skin and genitals provides just the right amount of stimulation to drive you over the edge.

Fun Fantasies:

The woman was swimming in her pool on a particular hot day. The sun was shining, and she could hear the sounds of the neighbors next door in their backyard enjoying the weather, too. She dived under the water and when she came up she saw her partner getting into the pool with her.

Instead of swimming when he joined her, he start stroking her shoulders and kissing the side of her neck – the place that always drove her crazy. Things started heating up when he untied her bikini top and let it flow away in the pool while his right hand started massaging her breasts. She protested that they couldn’t have sex out there in the the backyard with the neighbors so close by, and he agreed then she heard the sound of buzzing in the water. He untied her bikini bottoms, then slid his hand between her legs and inserted a vibrator inside her.

She cried out with shock and delight as the pulsing object was moved in and out of her body while her partner continued kissing and stroking her body and the cool water continued to graze her skin like thousands of feathers. When she’s ready to climax, she wraps her arms and legs around him and holds on as ripples of thunderous pleasure rushed through her.

Location: Car

What to Do:

When you think of having sex in your car, you’re probably thinking about the uncomfortable backseat, but your automobile has a lot more sexual potential than you may be giving it credit for.

In today’s car, most of the driver and passenger seats recline almost all the way back to a flat position. That means you don’t have to crawl into that tight backseat to have a good time. You just put the seat back and get it on, preferably in the passenger seat so the steering wheel doesn’t get in the way.

Another fun and frisky way to have fun in the car is by giving him oral sex. You can lean across the seat and give him something to make the car ride something he won’t soon forget. Men can give their women a treat by bringing along a handy vibrator and using it on her while she’s seated in the car. If she’s the passenger and you’re stuck in traffic, the other drivers are going to wonder why she’s so happy.

Don’t forget that these mammoth SUVs that people drive nowadays have lots of extra room in the back. All that space can be used for hauling around children and stuff or it can provide you with lots of room to try out some new sexual positions.

And we can’t forget truck beds. There’s nothing quite as magical as parking under a sky full of stars, climbing into the bed of your truck, and making love in the moonlight. That’s about as intimate and romantic as you can get.

Safety Tip:

Never, ever, under any circumstances do anything sexual to each other in the car while one of you is driving. That distraction could be enough to cause an accident. It’s much more fun to enjoy the sensual pleasures of your automobile when it’s parked.

Why It’s Hot:

Car sex isn’t anything new or revolutionary – most of us probably had some kind of sex in a vehicle when we were younger. However, as we get older and settle down in a relationship, the kind of passion and excitement that drove us to get in on the cramped space of a car kind of disappears.

That’s why car sex is one of the greatest ways to rekindle that passion. You feel young and horny all over again – a great combination for sex.

Car sex also gives us the thrill of getting caught. Even if you’re only doing it in a car that’s parked in your own garage, you’re still going to feel a little naughty and a little more vulnerable than you would having sex in your house. Maybe it’s all the windows.

Plus, being in closed quarters means that you and your partner are forced to be near each other. Your body parts can’t help but press against each other or brush against the other person’s skin. All this innocent touching can definitely ignite a spark.

Fun Fantasies:

The man and woman were driving home after a movie and dinner. The woman saw a dark parking lot attached to a closed department store and told her husband to pull into the lot – somewhere away from the road. When he asked why, she smiled and told him she had a surprise for him.

Once he was parked, she didn’t let him say anything. Instead, she started kissing him and between kisses, she told him to move his seat back so he wasn’t as close to the steering wheel. He didn’t ask questions this time but did what she asked. Soon he felt her fingers in his lap, unfastening his pants and reaching in to begin stroking his penis. He moaned deeply.

After a few minutes of stroking, she stopped kissing him and lowered her into his lap and began performing oral sex on him. Nervously, he looked around to make sure no one was around who might see them, then he closed his eyes and laid back his head so he could enjoy the full power of the orgasm that would be rocketing through his body very soon.

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You may be surprised to find out that inside the mind of your significant other are plenty of steamy sex fantasies she’s probably never told you about but that’s she’s secretly dying to get a chance to act out. Can you imagine the night of wild sex the two of you could have after acting out just one of these fantasies? You’d both end up experiencing a night you’d never forget!

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But how do you get her to open up about her fantasies? That’s the tricky part because women don’t want to give away too much of her secret, sexual selves because we’re afraid of being condemned by the men in our lives. We don’t want them to think our fantasies are weird or that we’re slutty or anything like that.

You can try sharing your sexual fantasies with her and seeing if she’s willing to open about hers, but if that doesn’t work you can share some possibilities and see which ones get the biggest reaction from her. She doesn’t have to say it’s her fantasy but she can give the two of you permission to try it.

Here are some ideas:

The Groupie & the Guitarist

Lots of women spent their teenage years fantasizing about the guys of their favorite band. They’d see this hot guy on stage playing music they loved and feeling as if he was doing all of that just for her. And she’d wish she could get backstage just to show him how much she loved his music.

The good news for you is that in this fantasy you’re going to be that hot musician and she’s going to be the willing groupie who’s ready to do just about anything you ask, especially performing oral sex. Make sure to dress in your most impressive rock star attire and have the music for the band she used to fantasize about playing in the background to create the right vibe in the bedroom.

The Stranger

Sure women want to have sex with guys they love and care about, but that doesn’t mean we don’t fantasize about meeting a stranger and going home with me to experience a night of incredible, nameless, and no-strings attached fun. The problem is many women would have a hard time making this one happy for real.

So you can make it happen instead. Go separately to a bar. Both of you dance and mingle with other people for a little while before meeting for the “first time.” After a little flirting and suggestive behavior, the two of you can head right outside to the car and have a good time right there in the parking lot or lock yourselves in the bar’s restroom for a little fun. It feels dangerous and that makes the whole thing even hotter.

Being Aroused by Authority Figures

There’s a good chance you’ve woman has had more than an innocent crush on at least one authority figure in her life. It might have been a teacher, a police officer, a fireman, even a politician, but the important thing she was turned on by his position of power over her. If you can find out who she couldn’t think of without envisioning a steamy encounter, then you’ll know exactly how to make this fantasy work.

Let’s say her fantasy involves a teacher. You can be the teacher who makes her stay after – not to punish her but to give her your own special reward for being such a good student. If you have a desk that could be used a prop in your fun then that’s even better. After all, if you bend her over most desks she’ll be in just the right position for whatever “reward” you have in mind.

Other women fantasize about getting it on with a police officer. You can act this one out, too, even if you don’t have access to a uniform. Make sure to frisk her slowly and rub your hands up and down her entire body, as well as between her thighs and over her breasts. If you happen to have a set of handcuffs (and a key) then they can be excellent props, too.

Try suggesting one of these sexy fantasies to your significant other and see what she says. If she’s up for it, then have a good time and reap the benefits of an incredible night of ecstasy neither of you will soon forget.

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Hi! Sarah here… with another sensual tip!

Sometimes guys get a bad rap for having nothing on their minds but sex and let’s be honest that’s true in some cases, but if you want to heat things up in your bedroom than the more you’re thinking about getting in on with the partner waiting for you at home the hotter things are going to be between the sheets. And, if you can get HER thinking about what’s to come then you’re in for an awesome amount of fun.

Unlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager – what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn’t have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.

Maybe back then, an imagination wasn’t such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you’re all grown up, it’s a whole new ball game.

So here’s how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.

While you’re at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can’t touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car – whatever location turns up your heat the highest.

If you don’t start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I’d be very surprised. But don’t dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don’t take matters into your own hands – if you know what I mean.

A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she’s been speeding, and you’re the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she’s a stranger you’ve just met in a smoky bar whose name you don’t even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn’t matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.

As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don’t have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.

From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don’t stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It’s going to be very hard to resist since you’re going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.

When you see her, don’t hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don’t forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you’ve been wanting her all day. That’s sure to get her just as hot as you are.

Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.

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