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9
Feb

The Art of VOLUNTARY Cumming

Posted in arousal, ejaculation, enhance, libido  by admin

I know you don’t need convincing that lasting longer in bed is a great idea. But please be aware that you can’t experience the kind of ecstatic wave you´ve always wanted if you rush headlong towards orgasm or try to hold yourself back.

You have to learn to RELAX into intense pleasure in order to go higher and higher.

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Guys argue all the time about their confused idea that Tantra means not cumming. It doesn’t have to be that way or any way.

When you learn to go higher and higher, the simultaneous orgasm with your partner will be incredible. More importantly, when the ecstasy of the ride is greater than the brief spurt at the end, you may never want to cum again.

But won’t it be nice when it’s YOUR choice and you can decide to squirt or not as the mood strikes you?

The Disadvantages of When Your Penis is the Boss

Maybe it’s not needed anymore. Maybe the mere idea of lasting longer in bed and experiencing the pleasures of sex for HOURS and not mere minutes is enough to convince you that ‘cumming on command’ is better than cumming involuntarily.

But in the slight chance that you’re still not convinced, here’s what you LOSE cumming too quickly…

- Many women are multi-orgasmic because their energy isn’t depleted by orgasm. You don’t want to cum and be ‘finished’ and leave her yearning for more do you?

- Many men’s erections don’t spring back to life after cumming. For older men, it sometimes takes a couple days to recover their ability to stay hard for long. Sex therapists call this the “refractory period”. So having an orgasm without ejaculating lets you repeat lovemaking as quickly and often as you want.

- Many men release lots of energy when they cum which makes them distant, sleepy, and exhausted. Don’t cum and you stay energetic throughout the night!

- Many men lose the desire to continue making love when they blow their wad, suddenly losing that closeness and intimacy women crave. Some describe it as if a power switch was turned off.

- Many men shut down not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well, cutting off the communion at multiple levels that this e-course can help you achieve.

The Benefits of ‘Cumming-on-Command’

And just to leave you with the positive aspects, by not cumming you can…

- Experience HOURS of orgasmic pleasure instead of just a few seconds of intense release.

- Undergo continuous ecstasy at its peak throughout your whole body.

- Stay connected with your partner longer, deeper, and at various levels.

- Keep your entire body energized. (The Taoists believe that retaining your semen is highly nourishing and the key to longevity!)

- Fully satisfy your partner’s often unfulfilled sexual desires.

- Satisfy multiple partners one after the other without a break.

- Promote health, vigor, and mental clarity by retaining your energy.

- Achieve bigger, stronger, longer-lasting orgasms when you finally choose to cum.

Wow! Just going over the list turns me on!

I recommend that you try Satibo for him and FuYuaChun for her

Sarah :)

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18
Aug

Supercharging your Sex Drive at any Age

Posted in boomer, enhance, libido  by admin

Today, I’m going to talk about a sensitive subject: sex and age. We all know that age is relative, just a number, etc. but it’s true that our bodies change as we grow older. Some of these changes can have a negative impact on your sex drive.

Fortunately, there are many steps you can take to diminish the effects of aging on your libido and sexual performance.

So let’s get started!

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How old is old?

Jimmy Buffet once said, “No matter how old I get, those high school girls stay the same age.” Not only is this funny, it’s a healthy point of view. I certainly know that when I was 18, I thought 25 was old. When I was 25, I thought 30 was old, and so on. The older you get, the less old it seems.

Age is a number too many people get hung up on. It’s not the number of years you pass on this earth that’s important — it’s how you choose to spend that time.

Getting older is only a problem when it starts affecting your daily life. Or, as we’ll discuss, your sex life.

Women, aging and sex

Women do experience a gradual decline in sexual responsiveness as we age. The production of hormones diminishes which can affect sex drive. In addition, these physiological changes take place:

- vaginal walls become more thin and rigid
- the vagina produces less lubrication

Both these changes can cause discomfort during intercourse (so be sure to choose a good, effective lube).

Here’s the good news: a woman’s capacity to achieve orgasm remains unchanged well into her senior years. (It may take longer to achieve orgasm, however.)

Menopause is associated with the end of fertility, menstruation and the production of eggs. Traditionally, menopause has been considered the end of a woman’s sex life. People who thought this also thought that the only reason women engage in sex is to have children. But recent studies have demonstrated that many women enjoy sex more after menopause! Their fears of unwanted pregnancies are completely ended. So, instead of being the end of your sex life, menopause can be a new beginning!

If you or your partner is an older woman who requires a longer time to achieve orgasm, you may want to try my favorite l-arginine cream to aid in sexual stimulation.

Age-related changes in a man’s sex life

The story behind the effects of age on a man’s sexual function is a little more grim. You’ve heard the often-repeated claim that a man’s peak sexual age is 18? Unfortunately, this is true. It’s a shame that most men are at their pinnacle of sexual capabilities at an age when they don’t know how to use them.

Every year after this sexual peak, a man’s steriod hormone (including testosterone) levels gradually decline. This decrease is measurable by the age of 30. Lower hormone levels mean two things:

  • reduced speed of physiological reactions (you get aroused more slowly)
  • increased refractory period (time after orgasm that it takes to achieve a second erection)

The former shortcoming is okay and can be overcome with sufficient foreplay. The second is more troublesome — like most women, I really really like round 2. Fortunately a friend of mine has found a solution that helps men get ready for round 2 faster: this product, he says, makes orgasms stronger as well as helping him get back in action.

After age 40, the urgency of sexual desire or “horniness” decreases. Men over 40 are harder to turn on and generally speaking don’t perform as well as younger men. (Don’t get your feelings hurt! There are exceptions.) This decline continues through the 50s.

Another effect of age that sets in around age 40 is a periodic inability to get an erection. It’s not that you’re not aroused — it’s just that you cannot get an erection. Many men are extremely anxious about this. Even worse, many women don’t understand this phenomenon and think that a lack of erection is a lack of excitement, arousal, and sometimes even a sign of ambivalence. That’s why pharmaceuticals that promise instant erections are so popular among men with anxieties and low self-esteem.

Despite these changes in a man’s body, recent studies have indicated that healthy men enjoy fulfilling sex lives into old, old age. Men are also fertile their entire lives, so age need not diminish one’s ability to father children.

Men concerned about declining hormone levels should strongly consider trying Endowmax. The herbs in the formula help stimulate the body to increase testosterone production and can help you shed those extra decades when you’re in bed.

Sex and age — the bottom line

All studies that have been done lately has indicated that many of our ideas about sex and age are just plain wrong. Women don’t lose interest in sex when they go through menopause. Men don’t lose interest in sex after 40 — they just need more enticement to get excited.

The best thing you can do for your sexual health is to be fit. Eat healthy foods in moderation and go to the gym. Avoid stress, or, if you can’t, learn to deal with it in a healthy manner. Above all else, talk to your partner about your concerns. Keep the lines of communication open.

And remember — you can enjoy a healthy, fulfilling sex life for as long as you want!

Kisses,

Sarah xx

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