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3
Apr

The Art of Kissing

Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

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One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

IMPORTANT: Don’t forget to leave your comments below! :)

Sarah

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9
Feb

The Art of VOLUNTARY Cumming

Posted in arousal, ejaculation, enhance, libido  by admin

I know you don’t need convincing that lasting longer in bed is a great idea. But please be aware that you can’t experience the kind of ecstatic wave you´ve always wanted if you rush headlong towards orgasm or try to hold yourself back.

You have to learn to RELAX into intense pleasure in order to go higher and higher.

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Guys argue all the time about their confused idea that Tantra means not cumming. It doesn’t have to be that way or any way.

When you learn to go higher and higher, the simultaneous orgasm with your partner will be incredible. More importantly, when the ecstasy of the ride is greater than the brief spurt at the end, you may never want to cum again.

But won’t it be nice when it’s YOUR choice and you can decide to squirt or not as the mood strikes you?

The Disadvantages of When Your Penis is the Boss

Maybe it’s not needed anymore. Maybe the mere idea of lasting longer in bed and experiencing the pleasures of sex for HOURS and not mere minutes is enough to convince you that ‘cumming on command’ is better than cumming involuntarily.

But in the slight chance that you’re still not convinced, here’s what you LOSE cumming too quickly…

- Many women are multi-orgasmic because their energy isn’t depleted by orgasm. You don’t want to cum and be ‘finished’ and leave her yearning for more do you?

- Many men’s erections don’t spring back to life after cumming. For older men, it sometimes takes a couple days to recover their ability to stay hard for long. Sex therapists call this the “refractory period”. So having an orgasm without ejaculating lets you repeat lovemaking as quickly and often as you want.

- Many men release lots of energy when they cum which makes them distant, sleepy, and exhausted. Don’t cum and you stay energetic throughout the night!

- Many men lose the desire to continue making love when they blow their wad, suddenly losing that closeness and intimacy women crave. Some describe it as if a power switch was turned off.

- Many men shut down not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well, cutting off the communion at multiple levels that this e-course can help you achieve.

The Benefits of ‘Cumming-on-Command’

And just to leave you with the positive aspects, by not cumming you can…

- Experience HOURS of orgasmic pleasure instead of just a few seconds of intense release.

- Undergo continuous ecstasy at its peak throughout your whole body.

- Stay connected with your partner longer, deeper, and at various levels.

- Keep your entire body energized. (The Taoists believe that retaining your semen is highly nourishing and the key to longevity!)

- Fully satisfy your partner’s often unfulfilled sexual desires.

- Satisfy multiple partners one after the other without a break.

- Promote health, vigor, and mental clarity by retaining your energy.

- Achieve bigger, stronger, longer-lasting orgasms when you finally choose to cum.

Wow! Just going over the list turns me on!

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Sarah :)

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1
Feb

What Can A Woman Do To Increase Her Libido - Part Two

There are many tools a woman can use to increase her libido. There are many natural sex drive killers but if you understand these potential problems there are solutions. Below in this article we highlight problems and ways a woman can overcome these issues and increase her libido.

1. Relationship Issues

If there is any ill feeling towards a partner it has to be addressed. If an issue or conflict is left unresolved it will lead to a dampening of desire as can secrets or if you are emotionally upset for some reason.

When you are carrying negative feelings about a partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically an even in some severe cases never return. It can be as simple as a lack of appropriate hygiene, or something more complex, such as infidelity; whatever the case issues have to be addressed and dealt with before you can feel sexual again towards your partner.

Communication is the key to a good relationship. If you don’t talk to your partner, resentment will grow with you partner and eventually result in an all out conflict. If talking to one another doesn’t work then maybe it means trying a counsellor or therapist to move things in a positive direction.

If that doesn’t work then maybe it is time to see a sex therapist as there maybe problems that are deep rooted that even you are not aware of. I am afraid to say though if all else fails then it may just mean that a relationship has run its course and it is time to say goodbye. It maybe a sad moment but sex is an important part of your life and a relationship and you must enjoy it.

2. Body Complex

No one is ever one hundred percent satisfied with their own body as I have covered in other articles. It maybe those extra large love-handles or those bingo wings or maybe even an issue with your small breasts.

The truth is that to feel positive about sex then you must be happy with your own body. As I have said we all have imperfections (perceived or real) and it time to accept them and live with them. If you can’t then you may need to take some further action.

3. Getting Older

Age catches up with us all and does take a toll on our bodies. There is a loss of bone mass, susceptibility to illness, painful joints, grey hair, sagging flesh and the list goes on. Menopause and decreased testosterone (yes in women too) production are the reasons for decrease in libido but fear, anxiety and depression from aging can contribute too.

If you are going through the menopause, it is important that you understand the changes taking place in your own body. It may mean seeking out your doctor about treatment for the physical changes that are taking place and affecting the sex drive.

The use of Estrogens in any forms can increase blood flow to the vagina and increase arousal thus leading to increased desire. Hormone therapy that includes low dose androgens has been shown to be particularly effective at increasing low libido. There may even be something as easy as the use of lubricants to get an immediate effect if you are experiencing vaginal dryness.

4. Sexual Abuse

Those people that have been unfortunate to suffer sexual abuse can later then have a difficult time with physical intimacy. It is a natural reaction and it takes time and understanding for both the mind and boy to deal with these painful experiences, but there is little attention paid to our sexuality.

Please if this applies to you know that many people who have suffered sexual assault have gone on to have healthy and full sexual relationships. It takes time, patience, understanding and some counselling. This cannot be rushed and you must take your time and only become intimate when you are ready too! Never ever let anyone pressure you into something you feel uncomfortable about.

5. Medication

It is widely known that the effect of birth control pills (also when combined with oral contraceptives) leads to a lowered libido. The decreased androgen production or lowered testosterone levels can cause women to experience a lower libido and less vaginal lubrication.

There are other medications that also dampen desire such as tranquilisers, high blood pressure pills and mood stabilizer amongst many. It must also be noted that even mediation that isn’t anyway connected to sexual; arousal can have an adverse affect on sexual desire. When talking to your doctor about any new medication and finding that it may alter your libido it might be best to ask if there maybe a viable alternative.

Depression seems to be a part of modern life. If you are feeling down and cannot shake the feeling it may mean you have depression. If you feel this way then it maybe time to see you doctor. Depression will make many people listless, drowsy, sad, angry, upset and very emotional. Depression will have a very noticeable effect on libido. It is known that as many as seventy five percent of people with depression also suffer a lowered sex drive.

The very drugs that are used to treat depression (MAOI’s, SSRI’s and tricyclics) can also lead to sexual dysfunction, such as a delay in orgasm and lead to an adverse affect on the level of sexual desire.

There have been changes in the last few years that have given hope to people in this situation. There are drugs such as Viagra(r) with antidepressants. Then there may be the use of herbal remedies such a Ginkgo Bilboa, which is thought to help with lack of desire related to taking Paxil or other antidepressants. The there may also be Wellbutrin that has been shown to combat reduced sexual desire.

Please, though whatever you decide or look into always consult you doctor before any changing of medication or stopping your medications.

6. Medical Problems

There are many numbers of medical disorders that can lower libido such as a thyroid problem or hormone deficiency (especially in older people). A metabolic disorder; anything that adversely affects you metabolism (including an eating disorder, accident, trauma or illness) will obviously cause a lowered libido; it is also true to note that one in five American women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), more comely know as a low sex drive.

If you have ruled out all other reasons to why you have a low sex drive then consult you doctor. You may have a readily curable medical condition.

Conclusion

There isn’t such a thing as a normal libido we are all different and have different sex drives. If you feel frustrated by lack of sexual appetite, take it easy. . Your personal sense of normality is defined by how you feel about your sexuality and whether or not you’re happy with how you are expressing it.

If you are comfortable about your sexuality then congratulations; if however you feel that you may need a gentle push; then explore the remedies suggested here. There is though no miracle cure some of the suggestions here have worked for other people but may not work for you. It may just take time and patience. It may mean just going solo for a while with a sex toy or eating a piece of chocolate. Hey girls chocolates is an aphrodisiac after all!

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16
Jan

What Can A Woman Do To Increase Her Libido - Part One

It is natural throughout life for a woman to experience changes in their libido. It can be like a rollercoaster ride. One minute your up and can get enough. The next minute you are down. There are many influences that can affect the libido of a woman. It can be anything from a change in lifestyle to a certain medicine that has been prescribed.

In tackling the issue of libido I have put together a list of the most universal reasons (and solutions) for a waning in a woman’s libido; it maybe possible to correct the circumstances with a few simple lifestyle changes.

A Note of Introduction

Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal

There’s a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body’s physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman’s libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused.

The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.

Below we list nine reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.

1. Situation and Lifestyle

The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn’t leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a little spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don’t want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.

Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.

Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with your partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video or technique.

The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you’re making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.

2. Mindset - Anxiety, Stress and Fear

Sex is the last ting on a woman’s mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman’s libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems.

In the modern world there are fears of STD’s or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience.

The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.

Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.

If you’ve tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.

3. Routine and Boredom

It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women’s ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven’t tried.

This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.

It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don’t like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom.

There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.

In Conclusion

Many women for the reasons given above suffer from lower sex drive. It happens to most women at some point in their lives. It maybe time to truly look at your lifestyle and make some tough decisions. Sex is a very important part of your life and any problems must be addressed.

It is time to analyse your life and make real and sufficient time to address your sexual needs. Then look at your routine and maybe spice things up with new and exciting appoaches agreed to by both you and your partner. It is time you took control of your life back.

Approach sex like it is your very first time and try to capture that old feeling. It is with experimentation that sex can become fresh again. This will make it exciting and thus you will want to have sex again.

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22
Dec

This is for couples only…sorta

Posted in boomer, enhance, foreplay, relationship, romance, spice up  by admin

Happy Christmas :) This article is ONLY for people in relationships…
or for people who want to be in a relationship…
or for people who just care about relationships.

Well, in that case, I guess it’s for pretty much everyone.

Here’s the premise:

We have become relationally ignorant and it is coming back to haunt us…big time! Sorry….I didn’t mean to upset you, but it’s the truth.

We are all quite aware of the 50 % + divorce rate in the U.S. But did you know that second marriages have approximately a 60% rate and third marriages hover around 70%?

The fallout from divorce extends even further, and more dangerously, as you look from one generation to the next.
Children in a single-parent environment drop out of school, become pregnant, abuse drugs, and get into trouble with the law much more often than their two-parent counterparts. These same children also have a higher incidence of divorce in later years.

All too often divorce breeds dysfunction and more divorce.

Add to our less-than-desirable divorce statistics, and perhaps even more unfortunate, that at least one out of every three women will be physically assaulted by her partner at some point in her lifetime.

What is wrong with this picture?

It’s simple: We have not been taught nor role modeled how to have happy, healthy or lasting relationships.

Think about it…we receive the 3 R’s of reading, writing and arithmetic in our schooling, but the forth R of relationships is no where to be found.

You tell me: Which R is most important?

So, what is a person or a couple to do?

Here’s a start:

The Top Ten Actions for Healthy Relationships

1. Learn How to Communicate Effectively:
Communication is one of the primary cornerstones of ALL healthy relationships.

2. Treat Each Other as Best Friends:
Research shows that couples who treat each other nice and who are friendly during non-conflict times stay together longer and are happier.

3. Commit to Moving “Towards” Rather Than “Away”:
Many people avoid conflict (and sometimes deeper intimacy) and distance themselves when anything becomes uncomfortable.

4. Get Complete With the Past:
Bringing “unfinished business” into a relationship will eventually create unnecessary hardships, conflict and drama.

5. Always Date:
Keep the romance and passion going or the “fire” will go out.

6. Let Your Partner Help You:
You are in a partnership…let go of ego or control issues and allow both of you to benefit from the partnership.

7. Be Authentic:
Always speak your truth with compassion and discernment.

8. Create a Weekly “Check-In”:
Stay current with addressing the challenges and affirming the growth of the relationship.

9. Create a Shared Relationship Vision:
Give the relationship extra value, purpose and direction.

10. Always Practice Effective Listening:
Although this is a core piece of effective communication, it deserves its own separate acknowledgement. Listen to ALL that is being said AND ALL that is NOT being said.

Practice these 10 actions regularly and you can save your relationship from becoming one of “those” statistics.

AND if enough people commit to becoming more relationally intelligent, who knows what impact we could have on the world as a whole.

Think about it!

Merry Christmas Happy New Year to all my customers, Sarah xx

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7
Dec

Video and pictures with your lover!

Posted in enhance, libido, orgasm, treatment, video  by admin

Hi everyone! Sarah here…

Here´s a cool tip for the weekend:

Get a cold drink… (well, two… one for your girl).

Then tell her to pose for you! Be as CREATIVE as possible! (her main goal is to be as sensual as possible!)

But you MUST take pictures or video!

Trust me… after doing this your desire will increase 398% and you will have a great night together! :)

Here´s a quick video to show you what I mean… Enjoy!

Have a great weekend!

Sarah

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24
Nov

Sex and Chocolate?

Posted in boosters, enhance, libido, orgasm, video  by admin

Hi there!

Let´s talk about sex and chocolate.

It´s a CLASSIC question: What is better: sex or chocolate?

My answer is:

BOTH!

However, you DON´T need to eat the chocolate… Just enjoy hot “sex with chocolate” if you know what I mean…

To give you some ideas, watch this video.

Kisses!!!

Sarah

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18
Nov

Three Positions to Hit the G-Spot

Posted in enhance, g-spot, libido, sex  by admin

Hi darling, I found an article about the G-Spot… You will love it! :)

Believe it or not, I dedicate 100% of my time to find top-quality information to help you improve your sex life.

That is my mission in life!

To help as many people as I can enjoy the best sex positions every time!

With that said… let´s get started!

nude Three Positions to Hit the G-Spot

I read the other day that the majority of American’s regularly have sex in just a few positions. Well, if that’s true, its time to shake things up! This article is on g spot positions. These are our favorite ways of hitting the g-spot during sex.

If you like boring, normal sex, that lasts just 5 to 10 minutes, don’t read this page. If you’re feeling more adventurous, and are ready to blow your mind then please, proceed!

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For the purposes of this article, we’re going to assume you know what the g spot is, how to regularly find it, and how your partner likes it stimulated.

Now that that’s all taken care of lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.

In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We’ve found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.

And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!

Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

I have to say there’s something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.

As you are on top, experiment with what feel’s best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel’s good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)

Now, as the guy in this position, you’re not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do “ just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.

You’ll also get a great workout! : )

Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you’ll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.

I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference. If you want to find out more about liberator shapes, their website is www.liberatorshapes.com.

Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there’s just something so primal and sexy about *&#*! from behind.

Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.

However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)

Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.

This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.

We’ve also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.

Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman’s Legs on His Shoulders)

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can’t look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner’s shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)

Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won’t tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

Well, these are our three favorite g spot positions, and I hope you try them out and enjoy!

Visit our pages on g spot positions for more information.

Or check out our website and learn to explore your g spot, and enjoy amazing orgasms, and female ejaculation. Authored by a real couple, with practical tips, techniques, and exercises. http://www.master-your-g-spot.com

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14
Nov

Try Using Sex Furniture!

Posted in enhance, g-spot, libido, sex  by admin

Have you thought about bringing sex to a new level but aren’t ready for toys? Sex furniture is a perfect way to spice up your sex life. It’s non intimidating and so discreet your partner won’t even be able to distinguish it from the rest of your home decor. Today I’m going to inform you on sex furniture, what it is, what it does, and why your woman will love it. C’mon guys it’s about time you take sex out of the bedroom!

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What is sex furniture?

Unlike most sex toys, sex furniture is made for couples to enjoy together. It’s not to be used alone or only on one partner. Sex furniture is home furniture designed specifically to allow partners to reach perfect angles for ultimate penetration and sensations. Sex furniture is not cheesy; it’s versatile, comfortable and stylish enough to be part of your home decor.

In fact, sex furniture should be made to be out in the open. Studies show items put away or hidden get used less than ones easily available. The innocent look of sex furniture allows you to integrate them into your home decor. This means they’re always accessible, just like a bed but so much better. Their ability to be arranged into shapes makes it perfect furniture for the day and so much more at night!

How does sex furniture work?

Most people know the difference between okay sex and great sex is finding the right angle. Sex furniture allows couples to find perfect angles flat surfaces like beds don’t offer. With sex furniture couples find their bodies fit together like never before. For women this means a position where her clitoris is stimulated and her G-spot can also be accessed. Men also experience intense sensations from reaching new angles during sex. Because sex furniture is so flexible, couples can create unique positions and angles that ensure every thrust reaches the right place.

This ability which allows couples to find just the perfect angle makes it one of the easiest and satisfying ways to improve sex life. In fact, women know the secret to great sex can be as small as a slight change of angle and it’s no wonder over 90% of people buying sex furniture are women. The truth is beds are dull and boring in comparison to sex furniture.

Here’s why:

Benefits of sex furniture

As mentioned above, the key to great sex is finding the perfect angle; any kama sutra book will tell you that. However, what they don’t take into account is that not many couples are as agile and youthful as they use to be. Some couples are limited by their bodies due to injury or from the natural aging process. Sex furniture will help you get into those amazing angles without catching a cramp! Just because you are no longer in your physical prime doesn’t mean you can’t experience sex like if you were 20.

You don’t need to be a gymnast sex furniture will give you the right support for wild sex. Unlike, regular furniture which can wear down, lose shape or collapse after heavy use, sex furniture is built to last. They are designed to support the force of two bodies with a much higher level of specification than traditional upholstery. In fact, most products come with a 10 year guarantee. They also come with removable, machine washable covers so that you leave no trace behind!

With the wide variety of sex furniture stores available you can easily find a product that fits right into your home. Most have an extensive product line with different colors, materials, and dimensions so that you can easily add it to your home decor. My favorite product line is by Loving-Angles but my girlfriends all love the Liberator as well. Here is a brief reminder of why you should consider sex furniture:

  • Access exquisite angles not offered by flat surfaces such as beds
  • Enhances sex life by creating new sex positions
  • Allows men to stimulate a woman’s clitoris or g-spot during sex
  • Provides support and comfort for unique positions
  • Is built to last; won’t lose shape or collapse
  • Designed to be part of your home decor
  • Machine washable covers for easy up-keeping

5 popular sex furniture items

1. Wedge

The wedge is great for beginners. In fact, many couples have used the science behind the wedge without realizing it. Have you ever noticed your girlfriend prop a pillow underneath her during sex? This gives her a slight lift so that her clitoris or g-spot is stimulated during sex.

However, unlike a pillow which loses shape and goes flat, the wedge securely elevates a woman’s hips to improve her sensation during sex. It also helps men penetrate deeper into the vagina. The wedge offers a slight change of angle which can make all the difference. It can also be used in combination with other products below. It’s definitely an essential.

2. Tilt

The tilt is a larger wedge and is great for doggy style or anal sex. During rear entry sex positions many women experience discomfort as they elevate their body with their arms and shoulders. The tilt eliminates this pressure and makes sex more enjoyable for women. It supports and pushes a woman’s hips up for the perfect back door angle. Now both of you can last as long as you want without having to stop from discomfort.

The tilt can also be used for front positions similar to a wedge for extreme elevation to the hips. The tilt and wedge make a perfect combination on or off the bed. These are one of the smaller sex furniture items which are great starters.

3. Pad

The pad is a base for sex furniture. Instead of placing items such as the wedge and tilt on the floor it is ideal to use them on the pad. The pad eliminates carpet burns or pain to knees caused by hard floors. The pad also converts to a seat when folded in half. The pad gives great control and leverage so that sex is more comfortable. In combination with other sex furniture, like the tilt seen below, the pad is the perfect base for all shapes.

4. Box

The box is also a familiar furniture seen at home. It resembles an ottoman but is designed to deliver a stable springy bounce for rocking sex! Internal layers inside the box allow it to alternate from a stable seating to a bouncy love cube. You can sit on it while you have your partner straddle you or you can use it to place her feet over it. The possibilities are endless. Below it is used to give you ultimate rear entry penetration.

5. Head Rest

The head rest is a perfect support for oral sex. It supports your head when you are on your back and your woman is on top just as the picture demonstrates below or it can be used to support and lift your chin while lying on your stomach. The head rest can be adjusted to give an upward or downward tilt without slipping or losing shape. It ensures the perfect fit and support no matter how tall you are. Bye Bye neck aches during oral sex!

Overall, sex no longer is a thing for the bedroom. It could and should be explored in other areas beside the bed. Even if you don’t have sex furniture, improvise using furniture in your own home. Be creative and find those angles that can make sex so much better! Another great tip to giving your female partner the ultimate sensation is to enhance lubrication in combination with a great sex angle.

Special lubrication enhancement like sensitizing FuYuaChun enhances a woman’s clitoral sensitivity so that each penetration is intensified and she achieves orgasms easier. I personally never have sex without it; it’s like the icing on the cake!

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So men, it’s about time you offer women unique angles for penetration and couples it’s about time to start creating them. Remember, you don’t have to be in your 20’s to have wild sex. There are ways to have both comfort and pleasure during passionate sex. Be open and explore other regions; I bet you never knew your home could be your playground!

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10
Nov

Two Hot And Erotic Positions

Posted in enhance, libido, sex, tantric  by admin

Hi! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you 2 erotic positions you can try tonight with your lover. :)

Enjoy!

hot-sex-positions Position: Get a Leg Up
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal or Anal

Description:

This is a great variation of the missionary position. The woman lies flat on her back on a bed, the floor, a couch, etc. The male partner positions himself over her, and then lifts both of her legs into the air before penetrating her.

Why It’s Hot:

When you lift her legs in the air like this, you are also putting her pelvis at an angle that provides for deeper penetration and more direct access to her clitoris. This spells greater satisfaction for both of you.

If you like hard and fast sex, then this position is great for that, too.

Also, if the woman does need a little extra help reaching climax, you can give her a hand easily either by massaging her manually or using a vibrator to maximize her stimulation and her pleasure.

Variations:

If the angle isn’t just right for you, then you can adjust it. Instead of just holding the woman’s legs in the air, the man can actually grab them and lift her butt up off the bed slightly for the right angle.

You can also adjust the angle by placing a pillow under her butt or pelvis.

Since this position is good for anal and vaginal intercourse, try using a vibrator or dildo on your partner while you penetrate her anus. This combination of stimuli will feel amazing for both of you.

Anal Sex Tip: Make sure to use plenty of lubricant during anal sex. The lubricant will reduce the friction and will make anal intercourse more enjoyable for both of you. By the way, use a water-based lubricant and don’t use petroleum jelly.

Position: Behind the Edge
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal or Anal

Description:

The woman leans over the bed so that the top half of her body is flat against the mattress while the rest of her is completely off the bed. The man comes behind her either from a standing or a kneeling position, then penetrates her.

Why It’s Hot:

This position is hot because it seems spontaneous. You were so turned on that you didn’t even make it to the bed!

Besides that, the position of body makes penetration very enjoyable for both of you. Plus, it’s perfect if she likes to grind her butt into your pelvis – some guys go crazy for this move while they’re doing the penetration.

Another reason it’s hot is because the man can reach around to massage his partner’s breasts or to run her clitoris with his hand, a sex toy, even a piece of silk or a feather. All of this will add her to her pleasure and help her reach orgasm.

Variations:

You don’t have to limit this position just to the bed. Anything which the woman can bend over so that her pelvis would be lined up with her partner’s would work great – some work even better than others. The arms of couches, dining room chairs, office desks, picnic tables, sinks, kitchen counters, porch railings . . . the list of possibilities goes on and on.

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7
Nov

Two Women Having Fun!

Posted in enhance, lesbian, libido, video  by admin

Hi! Sarah here…

Honey, I have a sexy AND funny video for you today… You will enjoy it!

(by the way… I love watching 2 girls “together”!)

Enjoy!

Sarah

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30
Oct

Try these 6 steps tonight!

Posted in enhance, increase, libido  by admin

Hi honey, how are you today?

I want to share with you this amazing article! I enjoy sending you sensual information because I honestly want to help you improve your intimate life…

That is my ONLY mission in life! :)

Enjoy this article, and most important: try these 6 steps tonight!

Kisses,

Sarah

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Female Orgasm - How to Make a Woman Orgasm in 6 Simple Steps

If you follow the simple tips below you will achieve not only more pleasure for you but make your partner have a memorable orgasm to.

Lets look at the female orgasm and the 6 simple tips to make it happen.

1. Relax and Enjoy

Most women view sex as both an emotional and physical experience and are generally not as easily aroused as men.

It is important that they don’t feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.

Female orgasm comes from the mind as much as the body.

2. Foreplay

To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are many erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones.

To give a couple of examples 80% of women don’t believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire.

The buttocks, what women doesn’t feel self conscious about her behind? Show her you appreciate it, stroke it and kiss it and remember “All these gestures add up”.

There are many more erogenous zones and we have written on 12 others in previous articles that most men don’t think about so discover them.

3. Oral Sex

Women simply loVe oral sex and can orgasm from it easier sometimes than sexual intercourse, so perfect your art. Oral sex does not just mean a quick lick - it’s a specific technique.

Plenty of oral sex (10 to 15 minutes) will get your partner in the mood and relax her.

4. Go slowly

Many women claim their men come too quickly. If that’s you then you need to slow down or vary the pace.

Sex is not simply about orgasm for you, the build up is pleasurable and it will come eventually, so take your time to give your partner a chance to come to - Don’t leave her frustrated.

5. Correct Breathing

Breathe deeply and slowly this will help you prolong sex and you can also synchronise your breathing with your partners, which will be highly erotic for both of you and give the feeling of becoming in sexual union together.

If you haven’t tried it do so it’s very erotic.

6. Forget complicated positions!

Your main aim is to target the g spot to give a pleasurable female orgasm, there are really 3 positions that work well for this and there mentioned in writings thousands of years ago and they still work.

We have discussed these fully before so check these positions out.

Don’t use such complicated positions all you do is concentrate on holding the position or one you have seen in a porn movie hitting the g spot is much easier than that.

Here´s An Extra Tip: Visualization

Lose yourself in the act and use visualization.

Imagine a warm glow, in the pelvic region going out to the extremities of the body.

Doing this concentrates your mind on one thing and one thing only - What you are doing and everything else doesn’t matter.

Visualization is used to achieve many things in life and can be used as a powerful tool in helping you help your partner achieve orgasm.

Try the above tips and you will make your partner feel relaxed, excited, wanted and loved and you will both enjoy more satisfying sex.

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27
Oct

Here Is A Sensual 5-Step Plan!

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Hi! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you an article called “A 5 Step Plan for Having Incredible Sex”…

Sugar, remember that my goal is (and will ALWAYS be) to help you enjoy the best sexual experiences with your lover! :)

I hope you enjoy this one…

Kisses! :)

Sarah

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A 5 Step Plan for Having Incredible Sex

You know, it always amazes me how much time guys will spend to have sex. But once they get into the bedroom, they don’t make an effort to make it fun and exciting.

In essence they become selfish and only care about their own experience.

Why do I say this?

Well one MAJOR complaint I get from my female friends is most guys are completely unoriginal when it comes time to “do the deed”. What’s happening is many guys are receiving their sexual advice from friends or from pornography.

Ultimately this leads to the distorted view of sex.

Now I ask you my friend, which is more important:

A) Having a quick sex session where you’re the only one who is satisfied.

OR

B) Having a great time where you’re both satisfied and she tells ALL her friends how great you are in the sack.

Hopefully you picked choice B!

Now if you really want to be a provider of incredible sex, you have to know what you’re doing. In this article, I’ll provide you with a 5 step system that’ll guarantee an incredible time in the bedroom.

If you follow this system, you’ll definitely become a master of the bedroom!

Step 1- Set the right mood

Great sex starts before you initiate contact with a woman. If you want her to have a great time, you must create an atmosphere which will be both sensual and seductive. In fact, the right kind of environment can be a key element to enhancing her pleasure.

Now the best way to set things up is to darken the room, light some candles and put on good music. By doing this, you’re putting her in the psychological mindset that she’s about to have a relaxing but sexually charged experience.

Step 2- Kiss her and initiate foreplay

Once you’ve set up the seductive atmosphere you should initiate physical contact and initiate foreplay. In fact, I think foreplay is the best way for transitioning from a conversation to having sex.

So begin by start kissing her. My advice is to begin slowly then build up the intensity. Then when you’ve built up some serious heat, move on to other things like “heavy petting” and sensual massages.

Just remember foreplay is a crucial element for great sex so make sure you’re focusing on her pleasure and building up intensity.

Step 3- Initiate oral sex

Once you’ve built up the passion of the pre sex session you should move on to giving her oral sex. Again remember to start slowly and focus on HER reactions.

It’s well known that women like different things when receiving oral sex, so don’t be afraid to experiment and find out what really “pushes her buttons”.

When you see a positive reaction, keep doing whatever is driving her wild.

Step 4- Tease her before you initiate sex

As you reach the pinnacle of oral pleasure, start having sex.

Now one incredible technique to use at this time is to tease her. In other words, don’t just start having sex without making her REALLY want it bad.

Try going slowly and initiate have sex, then stop! If you keep on starting and stopping she’ll go crazy.

If you can tease a girl for a few minutes she won’t be able to control her actions.

Step 5- Build up the intensity

Now that you’re having sex, it’s important to vary your pacing and the positions you’re in. Again I want to emphasize the importance of concentrating on her pleasure and making sure she’s having a good time.

So throughout the session build up speed, pull back and go slow. Follow this pattern till you both can’t stop.

Knowing how to be a great lover to a woman is an important skill you must learn to develop. By following the 5 step plan I’ve outlined in this article, you’ll be able to rock her world!

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25
Oct

Just Add Some OIL…

Posted in enhance, libido, massage, video  by admin

Hi there,

Here´s what you have to do tonight to “get your partner´s body ready” (Trust me, she won´t rest for a week or more with so much sex…)Before you get back home, buy a large bottle of OIL…

What kind of oil?

Use your imagination!

Baby oil, cooking oil, “aromatherapy” oil… it´s up to you!

Just be creative.

Then, take your wife/girlfriend/lover to the bedroom (without saying anything) and take her CLOTHES OFF.

Finally…

Watch this video to know what to do next!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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8
Oct

Eye-Opening Facts About Libido Boosters

Posted in boomers, boosters, enhance, libido  by admin

In recent years, most of the focus has been on men’s sexual performance and pleasure. Now, there are products to help the woman achieve a stronger sex drive, a healthy excitement and interest in sex, a more complete natural arousal, and better responses throughout the sexual arousal cycle including a more powerful climax.

libido-boostersIf you or your partner has experienced diminished sex drive and lower levels of sexual response due to fatigue, hormonal changes, stress, aging, or inadequate diet — or if there’s simply a disparity between the woman’s and the man’s sex drive in your relationship — women’s libido-booster supplements can help.

How do natural supplements for the woman’s libido work?

These supplements are typically blended herbal formulas with a number of natural ingredients that each address some aspect of the female sexual response cycle. For instance, some ingredients act on the circulatory system to increase blood flow to the genitals, while others directly enhance production and balance of hormones associated with sexual health. Other ingredients may be specifically chosen for their beneficial effects on the female reproductive system and ability to create overall relaxation or a sense of well being. Taken daily, these supplements are meant to increase sexual response time, boost libido, intensify sexual sensations and orgasm, and balance the hormonal system for proper reproductive functioning.

Can I expect instant results from these products?

If you choose a good-quality, top-notch product, you will notice some results right away, mostly in the form of immediately increased sensations. Most women find that responses improve progressively with daily use over a period of time. Of course, inferior products may have little or no effect, so choose your supplement with care from a respected company that’s been in existence for a while — one excellent choice is FuYuaChun™ from Satibo, a company that has been devoted to sexual health for men and women for many years.

I have never had a strong sex drive and seem not to have much sensitivity in the genital area. Can a women’s libido-booster product help?

It’s difficult to say exactly what may be behind your lack of interest in sex and lack of sexual response. You may wish to consult your practitioner if you want to understand the underlying causes. For most women who describe themselves as you do, however, natural supplements are very helpful. Women can experience the benefits of a healthy sex drive and proper sexual functioning with the correct, quality formula.

Are there any side effects?

If you choose a pure, natural product manufactured in a cGMP pharmaceutical facility (such as FuYuaChun™ by Satibo), you can be assured of receiving a completely safe, herbal supplement that will not interfere with other medications or disrupt birth control. There are no side effects. However, because the herbal ingredients have effects on the entire sexual system, some women notice a slight increase in breast size. Also, you are advised to beware of products whose origin or ingredients are uncertain.

I know the cost of men’s products like Viagra and Cialis and really high. Are these women’s products prohibitively expensive, too?

The truth is, some are ridiculously costly and some are suspiciously cheap. The rule of thumb here is that you get what you pay for — and for a good quality, clinically backed women’s supplement, you can expect to pay about $50 for a month’s supply, with reputable companies offering a discount for larger orders. So no, it’s not prohibitively expensive when you consider that a good supplement contains top-quality ingredients which are more costly (and are more effective!) than cheaper substitutions. When you find out how fantastic this is for your sex life, you will likely feel that the cost is worth every penny.

Is it safe to take a product like this if I’m trying to get pregnant?

Again, you should choose an excellent quality supplement in any case, but especially if you are contemplating pregnancy. Look for assertions of safety from the manufacturer, and when in doubt, consult your doctor or midwife. In the case of FuYuaChun™, it’s been known to increase fertility. Once you confirm your pregnancy, you should always check with your practitioner regarding any supplements or medications you are taking — even vitamins.

Should I tell my partner I am using a product like this?

We’re all in favor of open communication — and for some couples the fun of experimenting with a new sexual enhancer is a definite turn-on! For some women, though, having a little secret is an aphrodisiac all its own, not to mention a good gauge of how well your secret potion is working: if you and he are very happy with the more sexual you, there’s your answer! Later if you want to cop to your secret, it may open him up to the whole category of natural supplements for men.

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