I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Hi all!

I´m so excited!

It´s 2008… a year that will be LIFE-CHANGING for you.

How do I know?

I “just know”!

But remember, 2008 WILL be a life-changing year ONLY if you make the right DECISIONS.

In order to change, you need to decide first…

So here´s my advice:

1. Make a list of all the BIG changes you want to make in your life (the BIG ones!);

2. Decide which BIG decisions you have to make in order to achieve them;

3. Take action!

Please PROMISE ME that 2008 will be a LIFE-CHANGING year (it´s up to you!)

I want to wish you a VERY happy (and VERY sensual) new year!

Love and kisses!

Sarah Torbay

In my line of work, I hear people complain a great deal about their sex lives. Men, like yourself, come to me and ask how they can improve their performance in the bedroom. And I always ask the same question: How is your communication?

Now I’m not asking about whether or not she’s calling out your name while you’re on top of her. What I mean is how is your communication outside the bedroom! Most of the time, I get blank looks and guys saying that they don’t understand what one has to do with the other.

And, you see, that’s the real key to the problem. As a woman, I understand how important communication is not just to the health of the relationship in general but also in how easy it is for us to “get off” in the bedroom. Sure, women can enjoy a quick romp with a stranger just like a guy can, but when we’re looking for more than a cheap thrill we need to feel a deeper connection with our partners and that’s only created through communication.

You probably won’t be surprised by this news but your lover and you don’t communicate in the same way. Different things are important to both of you and there’s nothing wrong with that, but you’ve got to know how to get beyond those differences and bridge that communication gap which is so common in relationships.

Let me give you a perfect example. Men don’t necessarily see the importance of looking at a person who is talking. In fact, if they’re with the guys, too much eye contact just feels a little uncomfortable. Women need that eye contact as a non-verbal signal that you are paying attention to what she has to say and that you feel she is important. It’s not whether or not you are paying attention to her; it’s really about making her feel like she’s your number one priority.

When women don’t feel important, they don’t feel as open and that’s bad in the bedroom. To really get to the heights of pleasure, you both need to be open to each other and feel good about your relationship. Otherwise, it’s just not going to happen.

Actually, another example of a communication problem is how one partner suggests sex. Guys are pretty forward. If they’re in the mood for love, then they just come right out and ask or start making pretty obvious overtures. That’s a real turn off for women sometimes, plus women can’t flip their arousal switch on nearly as fast as a man can. So while she may be pretty turned on a little later, being asked for sex isn’t going to make that happen. Instead, you need to take the initiative and start working up to the sex with some playful touching, a little kissing, and more fondling. When done correctly, Guys, you won’t even have to ask the question: she’ll be leading YOU into the bedroom instead of vice versa.

Communication is also a sign of closeness to a woman. The more she opens up to you the closer she feels with you. As a result, she expects you to be more forthcoming as your relationship progresses. When that doesn’t happen, she’s going to doubt your closeness and that’s going to put a real damper on your fun in the bedroom. She’s going to be a lot less tense, more open-minded, and more eager to experiment and to kick things up a notch in the passion department if she thinks the two of you have a deeper bond. That means just by going outside your comfort zone and sharing some intimate things with her – intimate emotionally, not physically – you’ll be open up the door for better sex in the bedroom.

Furthermore, open and honest communication about friends, work, interests, and feelings can eventually become steamy talk about each other’s fantasies and what you both love to feel in the bedroom. These are things we don’t just discuss with everyone so you’ve got to reach a certain level of communication before she begins revealing how she’s always wanted to have sex with her science teacher on one of the classroom desks (or maybe that’s just me).

The bottom line is that if you want to really get your woman turned on to you in the bedroom you’ve got to be more aware of her communication needs outside the bedroom. Then you can expect some real fun under the sheets.

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