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10
Apr

Try These Sex Games Tonight!

I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

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Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. :) I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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10
Mar

Lights… camera… action!

Posted in fantasy, foreplay, relationship, spice up, video  by admin

Hi all!

It´s finally 2008, I´m so excited about 2008. :)

Today I´ll give you some tips to spend a VERY sensual evening with your partner.

It´s called “lights… camera… action!”

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Because the idea is to take advantage of the technology we have today (such as digital cameras) to enjoy some sexy moments together.

So let´s get started!

1. Grab your video camera and make your own porno movie together. I recommend creating a title for the movie and a story. Don´t just have sex in front of a camera! Create a story first, and then act it…

2. Get a few costumes to make your porno movie even more sensual. For example, try roles like: CEO of a company, secretary, soldier, prostitute, etc.

3. Another great technique is to videotape yourselves having sex. Just have sex as usual. And then watch the movie together to see what you both like and what you´re doing wrong. (It will help both of you improve your sex skills!)

4. Finally I recommend preparing a romantic dinner together, grab a bottle of red wine, a few candles and… enjoy your sensual movies together!

Enjoy! :)

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21
Jan

Using Handcuffs for Wild Sex!

Posted in bondage, fantasy, foreplay, libido, sex, toys, wild  by admin

Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

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While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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7
Jan

Outdoor Sex Fantasies!

Posted in fantasy, foreplay, libido  by admin

Ok “boys”, lets get started with today´s naughty fantasies.

Important: I said FANTASIES!

It´s not legal to have sex outdoors in most countries, so let´s just fantasize together darling.

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Here are some of my hottest Outdoor Sex Fantasies:

1. Get a blow up pool and enjoy a moment together in your backyard;

2. Go camping with close friends, and get a sleeping bag for 2 (for hot sex while your friends are sleeping);

3. Try having sex in a hammock;

4. Go to the closest beach, and try a “salt water” sex experience;

5. Rent a kayak (or similar), go far away from the beach and have hot sex;

6. Try something on in a store together, and enjoy wild sex in the dressing room;

7. Take your woman to a restaurant (outdoors) and tell her to give you a blow job (under the table cloth);

8. Invite your closest friends to a picnic, and have sex in the car while they´re getting the BBQ ready!

Now it´s YOUR turn. :)

Please take a moment to write your fantasies in the “Leave a Comment” section!

Kisses!

Sarah

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24
Dec

6 Sexy Tips For Christmas!

Posted in fantasy, lingerie, sex, toys  by admin

Hi there!

First of all:

Happy holiday season! :)

I honestly LOVE helping you improve your sex life. Trust me, that is by FAR the best Christmas gift I can get…

But enough about me… let´s talk about you and how to enjoy the sexiest Christmas ever!

Here are a few tips…

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1. Buy the hottest sex toy and give it to your loved one in a red box (with red and green gift wrap) during christmas… Yes, during the “family” dinner. But tell her to open the box after the party.

2. Write a sensual letter to “Santa” asking for the hottest sex toys and female lingerie (for her), and give it to your woman a night before Christmas.

3. Give her the best Christmas gift ever: a letter (signed by you) with a formal commitment to be her SEX slave for one week.

4. Ask your girl NOT to wear underwear during the Christmas dinner. Plus, she MUST wear a dress!

5. Sit right next to her during the “family” dinner… and touch her slowly… Make sure there´s a long table cloth!

6. After dinner is over, she´ll be ready for wild sex. So, hurry and go back home to enjoy the new sex toys together! :)

Have a VERY sensual holiday season!

Once again: helping you is the BEST gift I can get! :)

Love and Kisses,

Sarah

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30
Nov

Foreplay – Steps to a Whole Day Affair…

Posted in fantasy, foreplay, libido, orgasm, romance, sex  by admin

Foreplay is not something to be rushed. In fact, the longer the suspense, the tighter the tension, the hotter the passion!

You see, if you are trying to put foreplay back into your lives and then rush through it, then you are undermining its importance. Instead, plan for a night of passion you and your partner won’t forget.

foreplay-picture Start the day right. Start foreplay the minute your partner wakes up. For women, try leaving erotica (a Kama Sutra-type book always works!) by the bedside or ‘accidentally’ leave a pair of black (or red) thongs on the bed. Titillate his imagination!

For men, leave a dirty magazine under the pillow or on the bed. The ‘accidentally leaving your underwear’ thing doesn’t work for men as successfully as for women though. Instead, wake up with, er… an erection and be sure your partner sees it or ‘accidentally’ comes into contact with it.

I guarantee your partner will wake up with thoughts of sex in the air! (There you go; foreplay has begun!)

Now continue this ‘teasing’. For example, you can let your robe fall off after the shower or go out of the shower completely naked (say you forgot to bring a towel or clothes or something…). Don’t be shy to make ‘poses’ while naked! Bend over, stretch, or even rub yourself lightly. Do this innocently but be sure your partner sees it!

Be unreachable but don’t be mean. At this point, your partner’s thoughts may already be about sex, don’t give in! Play hard to get. However, don’t be mean. Some people tease to the point where his/her partner is so hot already that if you don’t give in, they get frustrated! Worse, they see it as rebuke. You don’t want that! You should be able to tease ‘to a point of return’.

The ‘Excuse Me’ Tip!

Here’s a tip from one of my readers. Sometimes, when she wakes up in the morning, she teases her man by trying to get out of bed on HIS side. So she says “excuse me” and then she just HAS to get on top of him right? And while there, a little ‘dry rubbing’ goes on and soon enough, he gets hot. She then gives him a wet kiss, gets up and says “See you tonight honey…” coyly.

(It works for men also!)

Maintain the sexual tension. Now that you’ve started foreplay, maintain the tension. Most people make the mistake of thinking that because their partners were ‘hot’ this morning, they will be in exactly the same state that night. Wrong!

So how do you keep your partner longing for you during the day? Try these tricks.

• Send an x-rated email or link to an x-rated site and say “Look at what [name of friend or colleague] sent me today!”
• Send an email or SMS saying “Honey, [name of porn film] is in at the store/video rent house today. Shall I get it?”
• Send a picture SMS of yourself with… barely anything on.

Set the stage appropriately. The stage can be a hotel room or simply at home. You MUST take the personality traits of your partner here.

If he/she is the romantic type, then spread rose petals on the floor and on the bed, chill the champagne, and light 100 scented candles! However, here’s the real-life truth: many people are not like this. Some think this is ‘over the top’ or ‘too corny’. So don’t try to recreate a romantic movie scene here if it doesn’t suit you or your partner.

If he/she is more the ‘practical’ type, then hold off on the scattered flower petals and simply go for a fresh bouquet of red roses and put them in a vase in the living room and another in the bedroom. Instead of champagne, go for your partner’s favorite wine or hard-to-get, imported beer! Instead of 100 scented candles, go for few lighted ones placed strategically in your home. Be subtle but make the changes stand out nonetheless.

Practical Tips!

Please don’t try and create a romantic setting if you have not taken care of a few basic things such as getting rid of the kids and doing some basic room cleaning. I tell you, it ruins the mood!

Seriously, if you have kids, it really pays to have them stay at grandma’s for the night. I guarantee you’ll be amazed at how uninhibited and abandoned your partner will be in bed!

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2
Sep

Spice Things Up With Sex Toys!

Posted in arousal, bondage, boomer, fantasy, libido, sex, spice up, toys  by admin

Hi everyone! Sarah here, with more sensual tips.

Remember, my goal in life is very clear: To help you improve your sex life!

With that being said, let´s get started…

You can jazz things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter) by throwing in some toys and accessories.

Some couples shy away form using sex toys in their intimate lives because they believe such items are not “normal” for use with couples or are too perverse for their relationships. The truth is that more couples than you might imagine make the items we describe in the following pages a part of their intimate fun.

dildo-female-orgasm Other couples may be concerned about purchasing these items. Almost every city, even fairly small ones, have stores specializing in erotic merchandise like the ones listed below. Most cities have multiple stores. Many of these stores are just as clean and inviting as any other retail outlet; others cater to a lower-quality crowd and are found mainly in dilapidated neighborhoods (these you might want to avoid). Of course, if you’re nervous about going to the stores – this is completely common at first – you can purchase all of the items from online shops from the convenience and privacy of your home.

With that said, let’s take a look at one of the hottest sex toys and how it can enhance your sex lives.

Sex Toy/Accessory: Dildo

Average Price Range: $20 to $100+

Description:

Dildos are elongated pieces of material – usually latex, plastic, glass, or acrylic – that are molded into shapes similar to a penis. Dildos come in a wide range of shapes and sizes. Some are molded to closely resemble the look and feel of a penis. Others are made more for stimulating certain parts of the body, particularly the clitoris.

Besides the standard dildos, you can also purchase double-ended dildos and anal dildos which we’ll talk about a little later.

How to Use It:

Dildos can be used in a variety of ways. The most common way is to insert it into the woman’s vagina, possibly while using the penis to penetrate her anus (some dildos are made for this specific reason), while she is masturbating the man, or while he is helping her get ready for the big event with the real thing. She can also use it to masturbate while her partner watches.

Additionally, there are dildos which are specifically designed for anal penetration. These dildos are more narrow and are not as long so they fit more comfortably into the anus than a penis might and can provide a more relaxed, safer way to experience anal intercourse.

Another option are double-sided meaning both ends are meant to resemble a penis. Some of these dildos can be used with a partner – both of you can take it for a ride simultaneously. Other double-ended toys are meant to provide double pleasure to the woman: one end is meant for her vagina, the other is meant for her anus.

Why to Use It:

The main reason to play with a dildo is that it can help bring women to a climax more quickly and more consistently. While a penis may not be able to hit the right spot, dildos are designed based on a woman’s pelvic anatomy so they can apply pressure to the clitoris and help her reach an orgasm.

Another reason is that having a dildo in the bed is almost like adding a third person to the fun. You have an extra penis to play around with and in can go almost anywhere. Even the man might find it kind of fun to have a dildo gently placed in his anus – the pressure on the prostrate feels amazing!

It’s also fun to watch your partner pleasure him or herself with or without our help. A dildo makes it easy for a woman to masturbate and to “get off” and some dildos can even help men reach their pleasure zones more easily leading to a dynamic orgasm for both of you.

Purchasing Suggestions:

If you’re interested in vaginal dildos, your best choice are the ones made of glass. These are not only practical but many of them are beautiful, too. Besides the aesthetics, glass is easier to keep sanitized than plastic or many other materials. You can simply slide it into your dishwasher after you’ve finished sliding inside each other then let the heat do the trick. Glass can also withstand changes in temperature that means you can intensify your fun with a cold or a warm dildo. Imagine how penetrating your partner with a cold glass dildo is going to feel on one of those hot, muggy days. She’ll get chills in more ways than one! Keep in mind though that all that fun comes with a price – glass dildos are more expensive than other materials in general.

For other types of dildos, just make sure that you choose a toy designed for what you want to use it for. Don’t try to use a traditional dildo for anal penetration – your partner will definitely NOT appreciate it since most standard dildos are even larger and wider than a penis.

Safety Tip:

Never insert a dildo into another area of the body or into another person without thoroughly cleaning it first. You can pass on infections and diseases if you don’t take precautions. Most erotic merchandise stores do sell special cleaners for sex toys. Otherwise antibacterial soap and hot water are your best choices.

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22
Aug

Enjoy Wild Sex In These 2 Places…

Posted in enhance, fantasy, libido  by admin

Hi everyone! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you 2 naughty places where you MUST have sex with your partner.

IMPORTANT: There´s NOTHING more BORING than having sex in the SAME place every single night…

Be creative! :)
Ok, with that said… Let´s get started! Enjoy!

Sarah xx
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Location: Swimming Pool/Hot Tub

What to Do:

Unless one of you can hold your breath for a long time, you are somewhat limited in how adventurous you can be sexually in a swimming pool or hot tub. That doesn’t mean you can’ still have a great time.

The weightless feeling you get from being in the water makes it extremely easy to have sex while standing up, especially if one person is leaning against the side of the pool.

Of course, you don’t just have to have sex. Foreplay can be fun in the swimming pool or hot tub, too. Bring along your favorite water-proof vibrator or dildo and share them. These locations can be even hotter if you bring along an extra person or two for some really wild encounters.

Why It’s Hot:

Swimming pools and hot tubs combine two of the things which make sex incredible: the risk of being caught and the feeling of water.

Because most pools and hot tubs are outside, you’re going to be running the same risks and experiencing the same thrills that you were discussed in the section on backyard sex. Your neighbors could see you. Your outside where almost anyone could peek into you fence and get a look at what you and your partner(s) are up to.

Plus, nothing beats the feeling of cool water on your skin when you’re hot from passion. It doesn’t cool you off; it just seems to get you hotter. Maybe because your nerve endings are already on high alert, anxious for any kind of stimulation and the lapping of the water against your skin and genitals provides just the right amount of stimulation to drive you over the edge.

Fun Fantasies:

The woman was swimming in her pool on a particular hot day. The sun was shining, and she could hear the sounds of the neighbors next door in their backyard enjoying the weather, too. She dived under the water and when she came up she saw her partner getting into the pool with her.

Instead of swimming when he joined her, he start stroking her shoulders and kissing the side of her neck – the place that always drove her crazy. Things started heating up when he untied her bikini top and let it flow away in the pool while his right hand started massaging her breasts. She protested that they couldn’t have sex out there in the the backyard with the neighbors so close by, and he agreed then she heard the sound of buzzing in the water. He untied her bikini bottoms, then slid his hand between her legs and inserted a vibrator inside her.

She cried out with shock and delight as the pulsing object was moved in and out of her body while her partner continued kissing and stroking her body and the cool water continued to graze her skin like thousands of feathers. When she’s ready to climax, she wraps her arms and legs around him and holds on as ripples of thunderous pleasure rushed through her.

Location: Car

What to Do:

When you think of having sex in your car, you’re probably thinking about the uncomfortable backseat, but your automobile has a lot more sexual potential than you may be giving it credit for.

In today’s car, most of the driver and passenger seats recline almost all the way back to a flat position. That means you don’t have to crawl into that tight backseat to have a good time. You just put the seat back and get it on, preferably in the passenger seat so the steering wheel doesn’t get in the way.

Another fun and frisky way to have fun in the car is by giving him oral sex. You can lean across the seat and give him something to make the car ride something he won’t soon forget. Men can give their women a treat by bringing along a handy vibrator and using it on her while she’s seated in the car. If she’s the passenger and you’re stuck in traffic, the other drivers are going to wonder why she’s so happy.

Don’t forget that these mammoth SUVs that people drive nowadays have lots of extra room in the back. All that space can be used for hauling around children and stuff or it can provide you with lots of room to try out some new sexual positions.

And we can’t forget truck beds. There’s nothing quite as magical as parking under a sky full of stars, climbing into the bed of your truck, and making love in the moonlight. That’s about as intimate and romantic as you can get.

Safety Tip:

Never, ever, under any circumstances do anything sexual to each other in the car while one of you is driving. That distraction could be enough to cause an accident. It’s much more fun to enjoy the sensual pleasures of your automobile when it’s parked.

Why It’s Hot:

Car sex isn’t anything new or revolutionary – most of us probably had some kind of sex in a vehicle when we were younger. However, as we get older and settle down in a relationship, the kind of passion and excitement that drove us to get in on the cramped space of a car kind of disappears.

That’s why car sex is one of the greatest ways to rekindle that passion. You feel young and horny all over again – a great combination for sex.

Car sex also gives us the thrill of getting caught. Even if you’re only doing it in a car that’s parked in your own garage, you’re still going to feel a little naughty and a little more vulnerable than you would having sex in your house. Maybe it’s all the windows.

Plus, being in closed quarters means that you and your partner are forced to be near each other. Your body parts can’t help but press against each other or brush against the other person’s skin. All this innocent touching can definitely ignite a spark.

Fun Fantasies:

The man and woman were driving home after a movie and dinner. The woman saw a dark parking lot attached to a closed department store and told her husband to pull into the lot – somewhere away from the road. When he asked why, she smiled and told him she had a surprise for him.

Once he was parked, she didn’t let him say anything. Instead, she started kissing him and between kisses, she told him to move his seat back so he wasn’t as close to the steering wheel. He didn’t ask questions this time but did what she asked. Soon he felt her fingers in his lap, unfastening his pants and reaching in to begin stroking his penis. He moaned deeply.

After a few minutes of stroking, she stopped kissing him and lowered her into his lap and began performing oral sex on him. Nervously, he looked around to make sure no one was around who might see them, then he closed his eyes and laid back his head so he could enjoy the full power of the orgasm that would be rocketing through his body very soon.

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14
Aug

Share Your Fantasies For Better Sex

Posted in boomer, fantasy, libido, orgasm, sex, spice up, toys  by admin

You may be surprised to find out that inside the mind of your significant other are plenty of steamy sex fantasies she’s probably never told you about but that’s she’s secretly dying to get a chance to act out. Can you imagine the night of wild sex the two of you could have after acting out just one of these fantasies? You’d both end up experiencing a night you’d never forget!

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But how do you get her to open up about her fantasies? That’s the tricky part because women don’t want to give away too much of her secret, sexual selves because we’re afraid of being condemned by the men in our lives. We don’t want them to think our fantasies are weird or that we’re slutty or anything like that.

You can try sharing your sexual fantasies with her and seeing if she’s willing to open about hers, but if that doesn’t work you can share some possibilities and see which ones get the biggest reaction from her. She doesn’t have to say it’s her fantasy but she can give the two of you permission to try it.

Here are some ideas:

The Groupie & the Guitarist

Lots of women spent their teenage years fantasizing about the guys of their favorite band. They’d see this hot guy on stage playing music they loved and feeling as if he was doing all of that just for her. And she’d wish she could get backstage just to show him how much she loved his music.

The good news for you is that in this fantasy you’re going to be that hot musician and she’s going to be the willing groupie who’s ready to do just about anything you ask, especially performing oral sex. Make sure to dress in your most impressive rock star attire and have the music for the band she used to fantasize about playing in the background to create the right vibe in the bedroom.

The Stranger

Sure women want to have sex with guys they love and care about, but that doesn’t mean we don’t fantasize about meeting a stranger and going home with me to experience a night of incredible, nameless, and no-strings attached fun. The problem is many women would have a hard time making this one happy for real.

So you can make it happen instead. Go separately to a bar. Both of you dance and mingle with other people for a little while before meeting for the “first time.” After a little flirting and suggestive behavior, the two of you can head right outside to the car and have a good time right there in the parking lot or lock yourselves in the bar’s restroom for a little fun. It feels dangerous and that makes the whole thing even hotter.

Being Aroused by Authority Figures

There’s a good chance you’ve woman has had more than an innocent crush on at least one authority figure in her life. It might have been a teacher, a police officer, a fireman, even a politician, but the important thing she was turned on by his position of power over her. If you can find out who she couldn’t think of without envisioning a steamy encounter, then you’ll know exactly how to make this fantasy work.

Let’s say her fantasy involves a teacher. You can be the teacher who makes her stay after – not to punish her but to give her your own special reward for being such a good student. If you have a desk that could be used a prop in your fun then that’s even better. After all, if you bend her over most desks she’ll be in just the right position for whatever “reward” you have in mind.

Other women fantasize about getting it on with a police officer. You can act this one out, too, even if you don’t have access to a uniform. Make sure to frisk her slowly and rub your hands up and down her entire body, as well as between her thighs and over her breasts. If you happen to have a set of handcuffs (and a key) then they can be excellent props, too.

Try suggesting one of these sexy fantasies to your significant other and see what she says. If she’s up for it, then have a good time and reap the benefits of an incredible night of ecstasy neither of you will soon forget.

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17
Jul

Better Sex Through Imagination

Posted in bondage, boomer, fantasy, libido, orgasm, sex, tease  by admin

Hi! Sarah here… with another sensual tip!

Sometimes guys get a bad rap for having nothing on their minds but sex and let’s be honest that’s true in some cases, but if you want to heat things up in your bedroom than the more you’re thinking about getting in on with the partner waiting for you at home the hotter things are going to be between the sheets. And, if you can get HER thinking about what’s to come then you’re in for an awesome amount of fun.

female imaginationUnlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager – what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn’t have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.

Maybe back then, an imagination wasn’t such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you’re all grown up, it’s a whole new ball game.

So here’s how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.

While you’re at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can’t touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car – whatever location turns up your heat the highest.

If you don’t start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I’d be very surprised. But don’t dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don’t take matters into your own hands – if you know what I mean.

A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she’s been speeding, and you’re the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she’s a stranger you’ve just met in a smoky bar whose name you don’t even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn’t matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.

As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don’t have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.

From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don’t stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It’s going to be very hard to resist since you’re going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.

When you see her, don’t hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don’t forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you’ve been wanting her all day. That’s sure to get her just as hot as you are.

Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.

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