Mind-Blowing Oral Sex In 5 Steps

Oral sex on her or cunnilingus is one sure-fire way to bring your woman to an orgasm. This is because many women reach their climaxes better and faster thru clitoral stimulation than through intercourse.

However, just like many things in a relationship, if you always apply the same techniques than just becomes a ‘routine’. And since any routine can become boring over time, your oral sex activities may not be as hot for her now as they used to be.

So what should you do? Surprise her tonight with some one-of-a-kind oral sex loving!

Today’s Sexercise – Oral Sex Like She’s Never Experienced Before

1. Go for extended foreplay tonight.

Most men know that oral sex is one of the fastest ways to make a woman wet. Tonight, simply take your time and make it your mission to not perform cunnilingus on her until she’s already wet and dying for you to go down on her! (Here’s the bonus part: since foreplay ‘conditions’ her mind to focus on sex, it would be easier and faster for you to bring her to an orgasm when you want to.)

2. Perform oral sex on her… while she still has her clothes on.

Notice that most women close their eyes while you go down on them. Well, somehow, you performing oral sex on her ‘under her skirt’ or ‘under the table’ fuels her imagination even more! This is because she can’t see you and never really knows just when your tongue will meet her body.

Here’s a situation you can try tonight. Flirt with her a bit to inject some sexual thoughts into her brain. While cooking dinner, tell her you want to see her in a skirt. You know, just ‘for a change’. Help with cooking so that she plays along with you.

Sit opposite each other on the table. Play footsie or run a hand up her thigh; keep the sexual tension going.

Now here’s the hot part, before, during or after dinner, go under the table; pull her a bit so that she sits lower/further down the chair. Spread her legs and work your magic. She’ll be gripping the sides of the table in no time!

3. DON’T go to bed… yet.

Resist the temptation to fall back on your ‘sex routine’ so don’t go to bed. Instead, lead her to the kitchen countertop or to a (strong) coffee table. Continue lavishing her with your oral sex techniques.

4. Don’t tire yourself out.

Of course, you don’t want to tire yourself out just as she’s getting more and more hot and turned on so give your tongue some reprieve with these tips.

• Use a vibrator. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with enlisting the help of a sex toy! Luckily for you, there are many different types of vibrators in the market now (e.g., anal vibrators, G-spot vibrators, clitoral vibrators, etc.) so simply pick your vibrator of choice. Again, it’s all up to you if you want to push her over the edge at this point or simply to continue the pleasure while giving your tongue a rest. If she does not have a vibrator…

• Use your fingers. Slowly penetrate her with your fingers and mimic the actions of your manhood. If you want to bring her to an orgasm, you can go for G-spot stimulation at this point. If not, simply continue the thrusting motion so that you can ‘rest’ a bit while still continuing to give her pleasure.

5. Bring her to her climax.

By this time, your partner must be dying for some release. Don’t deny her her explosive orgasm. Here are some techniques you can use to bring her over the edge.

• Spread her a little bit with your hands and with her clit exposed, go down and give it a quick little suck. Imagine her clit as the cake batter you’re licking and sucking off your pinky.

• Pop a cough drop in your mouth, suck on it a bit and then go back to licking her. Your ‘cool’ tongue on her swollen clitoris should give her an electrifying sensation!

• Roll your tongue like cylindrical tube and use it like your manhood, thrusting as far as you can inside her. While doing this, use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris.

Oral sex need not be ‘routine’ for you guys. It can be as hot, spontaneous, and wild as you want it to be. Practice the sexercises above and you’ll soon see how easy it is to uplift your sex lives with just a few changes in your oral sex activities.

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I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

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Sarah

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One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really give her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you’re using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don’t use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what’s mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you’re going to burn scented oils.

Also, don’t scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don’t forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don’t join her in the bath just yet.

Start sexually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or ‘clean’ her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here’s a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try ‘shampooing’ her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her ‘sweet spot’. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply ‘connect’ with that special place as well. Good luck!

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This article is ONLY for people in relationships…
or for people who want to be in a relationship…
or for people who just care about relationships.

Well, in that case, I guess it’s for pretty much everyone.

Here’s the premise:

We have become relationally ignorant and it is coming back to haunt us…big time! Sorry….I didn’t mean to upset you, but it’s the truth.

We are all quite aware of the 50 % + divorce rate in the U.S. But did you know that second marriages have approximately a 60% rate and third marriages hover around 70%?

The fallout from divorce extends even further, and more dangerously, as you look from one generation to the next.
Children in a single-parent environment drop out of school, become pregnant, abuse drugs, and get into trouble with the law much more often than their two-parent counterparts. These same children also have a higher incidence of divorce in later years.

All too often divorce breeds dysfunction and more divorce.

Add to our less-than-desirable divorce statistics, and perhaps even more unfortunate, that at least one out of every three women will be physically assaulted by her partner at some point in her lifetime.

What is wrong with this picture?

It’s simple: We have not been taught nor role modeled how to have happy, healthy or lasting relationships.

Think about it…we receive the 3 R’s of reading, writing and arithmetic in our schooling, but the forth R of relationships is no where to be found.

You tell me: Which R is most important?

So, what is a person or a couple to do?

Here’s a start:

The Top Ten Actions for Healthy Relationships

1. Learn How to Communicate Effectively:
Communication is one of the primary cornerstones of ALL healthy relationships.

2. Treat Each Other as Best Friends:
Research shows that couples who treat each other nice and who are friendly during non-conflict times stay together longer and are happier.

3. Commit to Moving “Towards” Rather Than “Away”:
Many people avoid conflict (and sometimes deeper intimacy) and distance themselves when anything becomes uncomfortable.

4. Get Complete With the Past:
Bringing “unfinished business” into a relationship will eventually create unnecessary hardships, conflict and drama.

5. Always Date:
Keep the romance and passion going or the “fire” will go out.

6. Let Your Partner Help You:
You are in a partnership…let go of ego or control issues and allow both of you to benefit from the partnership.

7. Be Authentic:
Always speak your truth with compassion and discernment.

8. Create a Weekly “Check-In”:
Stay current with addressing the challenges and affirming the growth of the relationship.

9. Create a Shared Relationship Vision:
Give the relationship extra value, purpose and direction.

10. Always Practice Effective Listening:
Although this is a core piece of effective communication, it deserves its own separate acknowledgement. Listen to ALL that is being said AND ALL that is NOT being said.

Practice these 10 actions regularly and you can save your relationship from becoming one of “those” statistics.

AND if enough people commit to becoming more relationally intelligent, who knows what impact we could have on the world as a whole.

Think about it!

Merry Christmas Happy New Year to all my customers, Sarah xx

Hi everyone! Sarah here, with more sensual tips.

Remember, my goal in life is very clear: To help you improve your sex life!

With that being said, let´s get started…

You can jazz things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter) by throwing in some toys and accessories.

Some couples shy away form using sex toys in their intimate lives because they believe such items are not “normal” for use with couples or are too perverse for their relationships. The truth is that more couples than you might imagine make the items we describe in the following pages a part of their intimate fun.

Other couples may be concerned about purchasing these items. Almost every city, even fairly small ones, have stores specializing in erotic merchandise like the ones listed below. Most cities have multiple stores. Many of these stores are just as clean and inviting as any other retail outlet; others cater to a lower-quality crowd and are found mainly in dilapidated neighborhoods (these you might want to avoid). Of course, if you’re nervous about going to the stores – this is completely common at first – you can purchase all of the items from online shops from the convenience and privacy of your home.

With that said, let’s take a look at one of the hottest sex toys and how it can enhance your sex lives.

Sex Toy/Accessory: Dildo

Average Price Range: $20 to $100+

Description:

Dildos are elongated pieces of material – usually latex, plastic, glass, or acrylic – that are molded into shapes similar to a penis. Dildos come in a wide range of shapes and sizes. Some are molded to closely resemble the look and feel of a penis. Others are made more for stimulating certain parts of the body, particularly the clitoris.

Besides the standard dildos, you can also purchase double-ended dildos and anal dildos which we’ll talk about a little later.

How to Use It:

Dildos can be used in a variety of ways. The most common way is to insert it into the woman’s vagina, possibly while using the penis to penetrate her anus (some dildos are made for this specific reason), while she is masturbating the man, or while he is helping her get ready for the big event with the real thing. She can also use it to masturbate while her partner watches.

Additionally, there are dildos which are specifically designed for anal penetration. These dildos are more narrow and are not as long so they fit more comfortably into the anus than a penis might and can provide a more relaxed, safer way to experience anal intercourse.

Another option are double-sided meaning both ends are meant to resemble a penis. Some of these dildos can be used with a partner – both of you can take it for a ride simultaneously. Other double-ended toys are meant to provide double pleasure to the woman: one end is meant for her vagina, the other is meant for her anus.

Why to Use It:

The main reason to play with a dildo is that it can help bring women to a climax more quickly and more consistently. While a penis may not be able to hit the right spot, dildos are designed based on a woman’s pelvic anatomy so they can apply pressure to the clitoris and help her reach an orgasm.

Another reason is that having a dildo in the bed is almost like adding a third person to the fun. You have an extra penis to play around with and in can go almost anywhere. Even the man might find it kind of fun to have a dildo gently placed in his anus – the pressure on the prostrate feels amazing!

It’s also fun to watch your partner pleasure him or herself with or without our help. A dildo makes it easy for a woman to masturbate and to “get off” and some dildos can even help men reach their pleasure zones more easily leading to a dynamic orgasm for both of you.

Purchasing Suggestions:

If you’re interested in vaginal dildos, your best choice are the ones made of glass. These are not only practical but many of them are beautiful, too. Besides the aesthetics, glass is easier to keep sanitized than plastic or many other materials. You can simply slide it into your dishwasher after you’ve finished sliding inside each other then let the heat do the trick. Glass can also withstand changes in temperature that means you can intensify your fun with a cold or a warm dildo. Imagine how penetrating your partner with a cold glass dildo is going to feel on one of those hot, muggy days. She’ll get chills in more ways than one! Keep in mind though that all that fun comes with a price – glass dildos are more expensive than other materials in general.

For other types of dildos, just make sure that you choose a toy designed for what you want to use it for. Don’t try to use a traditional dildo for anal penetration – your partner will definitely NOT appreciate it since most standard dildos are even larger and wider than a penis.

Safety Tip:

Never insert a dildo into another area of the body or into another person without thoroughly cleaning it first. You can pass on infections and diseases if you don’t take precautions. Most erotic merchandise stores do sell special cleaners for sex toys. Otherwise antibacterial soap and hot water are your best choices.

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Today, I’m going to talk about a sensitive subject: sex and age. We all know that age is relative, just a number, etc. but it’s true that our bodies change as we grow older. Some of these changes can have a negative impact on your sex drive.

Fortunately, there are many steps you can take to diminish the effects of aging on your libido and sexual performance.

So let’s get started!

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How old is old?

Jimmy Buffet once said, “No matter how old I get, those high school girls stay the same age.” Not only is this funny, it’s a healthy point of view. I certainly know that when I was 18, I thought 25 was old. When I was 25, I thought 30 was old, and so on. The older you get, the less old it seems.

Age is a number too many people get hung up on. It’s not the number of years you pass on this earth that’s important — it’s how you choose to spend that time.

Getting older is only a problem when it starts affecting your daily life. Or, as we’ll discuss, your sex life.

Women, aging and sex

Women do experience a gradual decline in sexual responsiveness as we age. The production of hormones diminishes which can affect sex drive. In addition, these physiological changes take place:

- vaginal walls become more thin and rigid
- the vagina produces less lubrication

Both these changes can cause discomfort during intercourse (so be sure to choose a good, effective lube).

Here’s the good news: a woman’s capacity to achieve orgasm remains unchanged well into her senior years. (It may take longer to achieve orgasm, however.)

Menopause is associated with the end of fertility, menstruation and the production of eggs. Traditionally, menopause has been considered the end of a woman’s sex life. People who thought this also thought that the only reason women engage in sex is to have children. But recent studies have demonstrated that many women enjoy sex more after menopause! Their fears of unwanted pregnancies are completely ended. So, instead of being the end of your sex life, menopause can be a new beginning!

If you or your partner is an older woman who requires a longer time to achieve orgasm, you may want to try my favorite l-arginine cream to aid in sexual stimulation.

Age-related changes in a man’s sex life

The story behind the effects of age on a man’s sexual function is a little more grim. You’ve heard the often-repeated claim that a man’s peak sexual age is 18? Unfortunately, this is true. It’s a shame that most men are at their pinnacle of sexual capabilities at an age when they don’t know how to use them.

Every year after this sexual peak, a man’s steriod hormone (including testosterone) levels gradually decline. This decrease is measurable by the age of 30. Lower hormone levels mean two things:

• reduced speed of physiological reactions (you get aroused more slowly)
• increased refractory period (time after orgasm that it takes to achieve a second erection)

The former shortcoming is okay and can be overcome with sufficient foreplay. The second is more troublesome — like most women, I really really like round 2. Fortunately a friend of mine has found a solution that helps men get ready for round 2 faster: this product, he says, makes orgasms stronger as well as helping him get back in action.

After age 40, the urgency of sexual desire or “horniness” decreases. Men over 40 are harder to turn on and generally speaking don’t perform as well as younger men. (Don’t get your feelings hurt! There are exceptions.) This decline continues through the 50s.

Another effect of age that sets in around age 40 is a periodic inability to get an erection. It’s not that you’re not aroused — it’s just that you cannot get an erection. Many men are extremely anxious about this. Even worse, many women don’t understand this phenomenon and think that a lack of erection is a lack of excitement, arousal, and sometimes even a sign of ambivalence. That’s why pharmaceuticals that promise instant erections are so popular among men with anxieties and low self-esteem.

Despite these changes in a man’s body, recent studies have indicated that healthy men enjoy fulfilling sex lives into old, old age. Men are also fertile their entire lives, so age need not diminish one’s ability to father children.

Men concerned about declining hormone levels should strongly consider trying Endowmax. The herbs in the formula help stimulate the body to increase testosterone production and can help you shed those extra decades when you’re in bed.

Sex and age — the bottom line

All studies that have been done lately has indicated that many of our ideas about sex and age are just plain wrong. Women don’t lose interest in sex when they go through menopause. Men don’t lose interest in sex after 40 — they just need more enticement to get excited.

The best thing you can do for your sexual health is to be fit. Eat healthy foods in moderation and go to the gym. Avoid stress, or, if you can’t, learn to deal with it in a healthy manner. Above all else, talk to your partner about your concerns. Keep the lines of communication open.

And remember — you can enjoy a healthy, fulfilling sex life for as long as you want!

Kisses,

Sarah xx

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You may be surprised to find out that inside the mind of your significant other are plenty of steamy sex fantasies she’s probably never told you about but that’s she’s secretly dying to get a chance to act out. Can you imagine the night of wild sex the two of you could have after acting out just one of these fantasies? You’d both end up experiencing a night you’d never forget!

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But how do you get her to open up about her fantasies? That’s the tricky part because women don’t want to give away too much of her secret, sexual selves because we’re afraid of being condemned by the men in our lives. We don’t want them to think our fantasies are weird or that we’re slutty or anything like that.

You can try sharing your sexual fantasies with her and seeing if she’s willing to open about hers, but if that doesn’t work you can share some possibilities and see which ones get the biggest reaction from her. She doesn’t have to say it’s her fantasy but she can give the two of you permission to try it.

Here are some ideas:

The Groupie & the Guitarist

Lots of women spent their teenage years fantasizing about the guys of their favorite band. They’d see this hot guy on stage playing music they loved and feeling as if he was doing all of that just for her. And she’d wish she could get backstage just to show him how much she loved his music.

The good news for you is that in this fantasy you’re going to be that hot musician and she’s going to be the willing groupie who’s ready to do just about anything you ask, especially performing oral sex. Make sure to dress in your most impressive rock star attire and have the music for the band she used to fantasize about playing in the background to create the right vibe in the bedroom.

The Stranger

Sure women want to have sex with guys they love and care about, but that doesn’t mean we don’t fantasize about meeting a stranger and going home with me to experience a night of incredible, nameless, and no-strings attached fun. The problem is many women would have a hard time making this one happy for real.

So you can make it happen instead. Go separately to a bar. Both of you dance and mingle with other people for a little while before meeting for the “first time.” After a little flirting and suggestive behavior, the two of you can head right outside to the car and have a good time right there in the parking lot or lock yourselves in the bar’s restroom for a little fun. It feels dangerous and that makes the whole thing even hotter.

Being Aroused by Authority Figures

There’s a good chance you’ve woman has had more than an innocent crush on at least one authority figure in her life. It might have been a teacher, a police officer, a fireman, even a politician, but the important thing she was turned on by his position of power over her. If you can find out who she couldn’t think of without envisioning a steamy encounter, then you’ll know exactly how to make this fantasy work.

Let’s say her fantasy involves a teacher. You can be the teacher who makes her stay after – not to punish her but to give her your own special reward for being such a good student. If you have a desk that could be used a prop in your fun then that’s even better. After all, if you bend her over most desks she’ll be in just the right position for whatever “reward” you have in mind.

Other women fantasize about getting it on with a police officer. You can act this one out, too, even if you don’t have access to a uniform. Make sure to frisk her slowly and rub your hands up and down her entire body, as well as between her thighs and over her breasts. If you happen to have a set of handcuffs (and a key) then they can be excellent props, too.

Try suggesting one of these sexy fantasies to your significant other and see what she says. If she’s up for it, then have a good time and reap the benefits of an incredible night of ecstasy neither of you will soon forget.

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One of the biggest misconceptions people have about female orgasms is that they are all created equal. The truth is that not all orgasms are the same: they may all be equally pleasurable but they are generally arrived at through different means.
Basically, there are two types of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral.

Today, we’re going to briefly discuss both types.

Vaginal Orgasm

This type of orgasm was the only type Freud and other men of his time felt to be legitimate types of sexual pleasure for women to experience. Unfortunately for women, only about 20% can receive an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The other 80% need something a little extra.

Before we get into that, let me explain exactly what we mean by vaginal orgasm. A vaginal orgasm occurs solely because of stimulation of the vagina. That stimulation is usually in the form of the thrusting of the male penis during vaginal intercourse.

The reason most women do not receive an orgasm just from penetration is that the vagina is not a highly sensitive area. This is actually a good thing. Remember that the vagina is not just used for sex but also for delivering babies. If the inside walls of the vagina were made up of concentrated nerve endings like we find in the nipple, the clitoris, or the penis, then childbirth would be even more difficult for women.

In fact, only the first two inches of the vagina are sensitive at all.

So why do some women have orgasms solely from vaginal stimulation?

The answer is they probably aren’t. Women who report vaginal orgasms benefit from their anatomy. In some women, the labia minora are formed in such a way that vaginal penetration actually causes the labia to rub against or gently pull on the clitoris.

This, not vaginal stimulation, is leading to the orgasm in most cases. Technically, however, this would still be considered a vaginal orgasm because there is not direct stimulation of the clitoris.

Another reason why some women report having vaginal orgasms is that the shape of the penis and their preferred position allow for stimulation of the G-spot. Because the G-spot is linked to increased pleasure and may also induce orgasms, this is another possibility worth considering.

The bottom line here though is that vaginal orgasms are not common. Men and women need to realize that penetration is often not going to be enough to accomplish the goal. The good news is that gives both partners an excuse to experiment with some new things and ideas!

Clitoral Orgasm

By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. First, let me share with you some information about the clitoris.

The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.

Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.

The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.

With that said, it’s important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.

What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman’s body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.

Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we’ll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.

Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it’s usually not the most satisfactory approach.

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.

And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

So, bottom line: Please understand: there is NOTHING wrong if your woman requires clitoral stimulation besides penetration to reach an orgasm. And actually, it IS more fun!

Once you understand this fact, you´ll both start to get more “creative” in bed. And trust me, she will NOT be frustrated anymore!

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Hi everyone! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you 5 hot tips to help you spice up your relationship…

I hope you enjoy these 5 tips… Kisses!

Great Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Relationship

They say that marriage is bliss—for the first year or so. After that, the boiling passion of most newlyweds cools down into a simmer. This is not to say that the couple is too used to each other, or is losing interest. It is simply the result of life taking over, schedules being set and met, and routines falling into place. While some couples are happy with their lives during this time, others feel that the newlywed phase ended too soon.

One part of this slowing down for newlyweds and couples is that busy schedules do not allow for the blissful times of the honeymoon days. Making time for intimacy can be difficult, even in the best of situations. Sometimes, a little bit of extra sex is all you need to feel like that newlywed couple once more. For those couples that want to feel like newlyweds again, young and old, here are some sex tips to spice up your marriage.

1. Go buy a sex tips book. This may seem like an odd tip for this piece, but it is the best advice to give. Sex tips books are very explicit and will give you and your spouse a chance to explore what you both like in (or out) of the bedroom.

2. Rent or buy some soft pornography. Sex tips books are great, but sometimes you learn better from seeing than reading. When you and your spouse watch the movies, look at the positions and make sure that you mention any that you might like to try.

3. Take time for each other whenever possible. Get the idea out of your head that sex must happen at night in the bedroom. The best sex tip you will ever get is this—if you get the opportunity to be intimate with your partner, take it!

4. Make a date. Who says you can’t date after marriage? If you feel like your marriage is getting horribly dull, make a date with your spouse. Go out to dinner and a movie, hit the club, or go bowling. By the time you get home, you will feel like you did when you first got married. Since you are both going to be relaxed and in the mood for some fun, use this time to try out some sex tips out of that book mentioned earlier, or pop in a movie.

5. One of the best sex tips for lonely housewives of overworked husbands is to do something unexpected to gain their attention. Sometimes working hard gets in the way, and we don’t see that we are leaving our spouse out of our lives. Put a risqué picture or sexy note in his briefcase or wallet. You will be sure to gain his attention and affections by the time he comes home to a nice candle light dinner for two.

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Do you know what the biggest problem getting in the way of most couples’ sex lives is? You might be surprised by the answer.

It’s stress. Think about it. All day long you’re probably stressing about your job, you’re stressing about the traffic, you’re stressing about your finances, you’re stressing about the kids, then you go home and start stressing about whether you’ll be able to help your partner get off. With all that stress, it’s a miracle you can get an erection at all!

Stress does a lot of damage to our bodies as you probably already know. But besides raising your blood pressure (not in a sexy way), it can also reduce your libido. And that’s not what you or your partner wants. Plus, if she’s feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of life, you’ll have a much harder time getting her to warm up and climax at all.

The combination is simply disappointing sex lives.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. By finding ways to reduce your stress levels (and your partner’s), you’ll be able to find more fulfillment in bed and I know that’s definitely something you’d want.

One way is to practice meditation. You don’t need to learn any complicated positions, although it wouldn’t hurt if you also want to become a little more flexible in the bedroom. All you really need to do is find a comfortable spot, close your eyes, and picture something very comforting. When I’m meditating, I always picture a garden of flowers because that helps me feel good. Don’t picture your significant other – while she may make you feel wonderful in lots of ways she’s also probably going to make you feel stressed.

Make sure you can really picture whatever your image is. Make it so real you can feel it, taste it, touch it, and smell it.

You should do this at least once a day for ten minutes or any time you feel particularly stressed. The best part is that you can use a similar exercise to help you get ready for the bedroom. Instead of visualizing something that relaxes you, picture yourself and your partner in the middle of some hot sex and imagine her screaming your name in pleasure. Picturing this will not only rev up your libido, it will also give you more confidence in the bedroom.

Another stress reliever is a warm bath or shower. I could soak for hours in a bubble bath, especially one filled with aromatherapy bubbles. Sure, most people think relaxing in the tub is just for girls but guys can enjoy soaking, too. Just lay back so most of your body is enveloped in the water and close your eyes. The water will feel like warm lips or hands moving softly over your body. It’s an incredibly soothing feeling.

Even better is taking a warm bubble bath with your partner. Both of you can strip naked and crawl under the bubbles with your bodies entwined under the water. You can either face each other or you can have her sit between your legs and lean back against your body. If you’re a smart man – and I know you are – you’ll choose the latter. Once you’re both relaxed, your hands can start doing some exploration under the bubbles: stroking her breasts, running your fingers along her inner thighs, even stimulating her clitoris a little with your finger or a waterproof vibrator. You could even use one of those shower head nozzles to direct water right onto her most sensitive areas if you have one handy. And don’t worry, if she’s half the woman you deserve she’ll return the favor by giving you some special ways of relaxing even more.

After you’ve enjoyed some stress relief in the bathtub, you’ll be ready to go even further in the bedroom. Don’t think about your performance. Don’t think about how long you need to last or anything like that. Concentrate instead on giving her all the pleasure you can. When she’s feeling amazing, you’re going to be feeling amazing.

The best part is that amazing sex and particularly sex that results in orgasms is also a great sex reliever. That means by practicing some of these tips and getting as much great sex from your partner as possible is going to help both of you be happier and healthier in bed, in your relationship, and in life.

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Women have finally gotten their fair due in the category of all-natural sexual arousal and pleasure enhancers. Currently, there are dozens of such products on the market for men (not to mention several prescription meds that cater only to men), but only very recently have women’s products moved into consumer focus. It’s a booming segment of the natural supplement market that’s more popular than ever.

However, the use of herbs and nutrients to enhance women’s sex drives and pleasure is nothing new. For many years, folk medicine and naturopathic healing have had a variety of natural and botanical ingredients in their arsenal of tools to combat women’s flagging sexuality due to fatigue, stress, dietary deficiency, aging, hormonal changes or emotional upset. What’s new now is the availability of specialized, pre-calibrated formulas in new standardized dosages using many of these time-honored ingredients.

The great news is that the formulas work — so well that women are buying them in record numbers and celebrating the results. The bad news? That the natural supplement market is easily infiltrated by fakes and poseurs, products that do nothing but cost as much as the real thing.

The wise consumer should first gain an understanding of how these products work, and what goes into a quality supplement, then make an informed choice to enjoy the best results.

What you’re looking for is a non-prescription, balanced formula that can be taken as a daily supplement without side effects or interference with birth control or other medications you might be taking. The specific formulation varies by manufacturer, however, all formulas worth purchasing are created in a cGMP pharmaceutical-grade facility, of top-quality ingredients. Here’s what else to look for: The ingredients in a good supplement individually will work to promote better blood flow and increased muscular relaxation, plus act on hormones for increased, more energetic sexual response. In addition, the hormone-balancing factors in the formula may combat the negative effects of menopause, such as night sweats and hot flashes, and may even balance mood and attitude before or during menopause. Taken together, in a blend that is thoughtfully created and precisely calibrated, the effects on the overall female reproductive system are overwhelmingly positive — from a healthier, more satisfying sex life to natural fertility.

With all the choices out there, it takes a diligent researcher to find out which are the effective formulas. One that meets all the critieria above is Satibo™, which in addition to being an effective and very popular libido-booster for women, is also provided by one of the top legitimate companies in sexual health improvement for men and women. Here’s a partial list of Satibo™’s ingredients, and a description of how each works specifically on the female reproductive system:

Chinese Wolfberry (Goji Berry) (Lycium Barbarum L.) - Chinese Wolfberry is grown in Asia (including the Himalaya) and parts of the USA . It reddens when ripe, and darkens with drying. It has been used for millennia in Asia for its medicinal properties, including combating diabetes, liver and kidney problems.

Job’s Tears (Coix Lacryma-Jobi) - Although Job’s Tears have been used as a food grain. It also has a long history within Chinese medicine, which is how it became an ingredient of Satibo. It’s medicinal uses include the treatment of warts and other skin conditions, gastrointestinal maladies, poor water flow throughout the body, and lung disorders.

Liquorice Root (Glycyrrhiza) - Liquorice can be used to treat a number of ailments including sore throats, heartburn, arthritis, and constipation. It’s use in Chinese herbal medicine is well established.

Gorgon Fruit (Euryalacea) - Gorgon Fruit is used for improving sexual ability and energy levels in the elderly as well helping to slow the aging process. It can also be used to treat premature ejaculation, nocturnal emissions, arthritis pain and frequent urination.

Lily (Lilium Candidum L.) - From the bulb of the Lily flower that is known for its medicinal properties. It has been used as a topical treatment for burns, pimples, or generic female complaints. Chinese herbalists also use it for treatment of coughs and insomnia.

Chinese Yam (Dioscorea Opposita) - Chinese Yam is traditionally used to promote the function of the spleen and/or stomach. It can also be used in the creation and proper function of body fluids and treating coughs.

Notice that the blend described above goes to work on the libido from multiple fronts: circulatory, hormonal, stress reduction, female-specific tonification and overall effects on the genitals. Other formulas may contain amino acids, vitamins, enzymes or various vegetable extracts. Though many of these ingredients are available individually from health food stores or herbal pharmacies, the prevailing wisdom today points to the superiority of formulas like this, that are pre-calibrated and blended to take the guesswork out of herbal extracts — not to mention the more economical approach of buying a complete tablet as opposed to a bewildering array of pills or tinctures that must be measured, mixed or calculated each day. Results vary for individual women, but most report positive effects after only about a week or two on the supplement. Unlike prescription meds, these natural supplements have no side effects and can be obtained without a prescription or costly doctor’s office visit. Because of their safety and efficacy, natural supplements are the number one choice today among women seeking to improve their libido and sexual pleasure.

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Men who truly amaze their partners in bed know a little secret: great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. If you want to turn things up in the bedroom, then you need to set the stage in advance. And that means doing a little advance planning and putting together an incredible experience she’s not going to forget.

First, you’ve got to be alone. Your partner may have sex in your bedroom with the door closed even when the kids are asleep in the next room but she’s not truly going to get into the moment when there’s a chance of waking them up or having them walk in. So your first job is to schedule some alone time with her. And that doesn’t just mean you’ve got to leave the kids somewhere else – that also means friends, parents, co-workers, everybody who could interfere in what you’ve got planned have to be out of the picture. If you’re thinking it’s impossible, just imagine how amazing the night is going to be with just the two of you alone enjoying each other with more abandon than you’ve ever imagined. I’m guessing you’ll find the motivation you need.

Second, create a romantic interlude for her. Women aren’t only seduced through their bodies. If you want to truly make all of her body come alive to your touch, then you have to start by turning her on mentally and that’s going to require a little romance.

Let’s look at two scenarios which could make the bedroom a much more fun place for the two of you tonight.

Idea #1

Start off by preparing a fabulous meal for her while she’s gone at work. If you’re not the world’s greatest cook, don’t worry. Cook whatever you know how to make – it’s not the meal itself but the idea of the meal that will work magic. Now when she’s on her way home, turn off all the lights and instead light a trail of candles which will lead her into the dining room. Have the table set with more candles. You can serve white or champagne but avoid any hard liquor because alcohol make release your inhabitations but it also dampens the performance for both partners and that’s definitely not how you want the evening to end.

Before you serve a delicious dessert, sneak up stairs and draw her a warm bubble bath. Surround the tub with lighted candles and lower the lights. Once she’s finished eating, lead her up the stairs and slowly undress her for the bath. Then give her a bath. Move slowly over her body, paying particular attention to all of her erogenous zones. Don’t concentrate too much on her breasts at first. Wait until she’s clearly getting exciting before you suds them or make your way between her thighs.

After the bath, towel her dry and start the foreplay. By now, she’s both mentally and physically prepared to enjoy a full evening of enjoying your body as much as you were enjoying hers.

Idea #2

If your partner is a little more adventurous, plan a romantic interlude that won’t end in the bedroom but somewhere even more erotic. Make reservations at her favorite restaurant and arrange to take her there as a surprise. Over dinner, slip away to the “bathroom” then call her cell phone. When she answers, use your deepest, sexiest voice to outline all of the ways you want to pleasure her for the evening. Be explicit. Women can be very easily stimulated this way because we have incredibly vivid imaginations, especially of the men we’re sleeping with. Don’t think she has spent long hours picturing the two of you in some pretty hot situations before.

After dinner, drive to somewhere secluded. Have a CD playing that sets the mood – you can either choose romantic ballads or something a little sexier depending on what helps turn her on the most. Now bring out your secret weapon: a battery-powered vibrator. Lean her seat back and slide the vibrator inside of her. All the while, whisper in her ear about what you’ve still got in store for her. Pretty soon, she’ll be practically (and maybe literally) begging you to come inside of her.

And that’s the moment you do exactly what she asks. If you can’t get comfortable in the car, get a room at the closest motel you can find and spend the rest of the night finding out just how many orgasms you’re both capable of having.

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