Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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You can jazz things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter) by throwing in some toys and accessories.

Some couples shy away form using sex toys in their intimate lives because they believe such items are not “normal” for use with couples or are too perverse for their relationships. The truth is that more couples than you might imagine make the items we describe in the following pages a part of their intimate fun.

Other couples may be concerned about purchasing these items. Almost every city, even fairly small ones, have stores specializing in erotic merchandise like the ones listed below. Most cities have multiple stores. Many of these stores are just as clean and inviting as any other retail outlet; others cater to a lower-quality crowd and are found mainly in dilapidated neighborhoods (these you might want to avoid). Of course, if you’re nervous about going to the stores – this is completely common at first – you can purchase all of the items from online shops from the convenience and privacy of your home.

With that said, let’s take a look at one of the hottest sex toys and how it can enhance your sex lives.

Sex Toy/Accessory: Dildo

Average Price Range: $20 to $100+

Description:

Dildos are elongated pieces of material – usually latex, plastic, glass, or acrylic – that are molded into shapes similar to a penis. Dildos come in a wide range of shapes and sizes. Some are molded to closely resemble the look and feel of a penis. Others are made more for stimulating certain parts of the body, particularly the clitoris.

Besides the standard dildos, you can also purchase double-ended dildos and anal dildos which we’ll talk about a little later.

How to Use It:

Dildos can be used in a variety of ways. The most common way is to insert it into the woman’s vagina, possibly while using the penis to penetrate her anus (some dildos are made for this specific reason), while she is masturbating the man, or while he is helping her get ready for the big event with the real thing. She can also use it to masturbate while her partner watches.

Additionally, there are dildos which are specifically designed for anal penetration. These dildos are more narrow and are not as long so they fit more comfortably into the anus than a penis might and can provide a more relaxed, safer way to experience anal intercourse.

Another option are double-sided meaning both ends are meant to resemble a penis. Some of these dildos can be used with a partner – both of you can take it for a ride simultaneously. Other double-ended toys are meant to provide double pleasure to the woman: one end is meant for her vagina, the other is meant for her anus.

Why to Use It:

The main reason to play with a dildo is that it can help bring women to a climax more quickly and more consistently. While a penis may not be able to hit the right spot, dildos are designed based on a woman’s pelvic anatomy so they can apply pressure to the clitoris and help her reach an orgasm.

Another reason is that having a dildo in the bed is almost like adding a third person to the fun. You have an extra penis to play around with and in can go almost anywhere. Even the man might find it kind of fun to have a dildo gently placed in his anus – the pressure on the prostrate feels amazing!

It’s also fun to watch your partner pleasure him or herself with or without our help. A dildo makes it easy for a woman to masturbate and to “get off” and some dildos can even help men reach their pleasure zones more easily leading to a dynamic orgasm for both of you.

Purchasing Suggestions:

If you’re interested in vaginal dildos, your best choice are the ones made of glass. These are not only practical but many of them are beautiful, too. Besides the aesthetics, glass is easier to keep sanitized than plastic or many other materials. You can simply slide it into your dishwasher after you’ve finished sliding inside each other then let the heat do the trick. Glass can also withstand changes in temperature that means you can intensify your fun with a cold or a warm dildo. Imagine how penetrating your partner with a cold glass dildo is going to feel on one of those hot, muggy days. She’ll get chills in more ways than one! Keep in mind though that all that fun comes with a price – glass dildos are more expensive than other materials in general.

For other types of dildos, just make sure that you choose a toy designed for what you want to use it for. Don’t try to use a traditional dildo for anal penetration – your partner will definitely NOT appreciate it since most standard dildos are even larger and wider than a penis.

Safety Tip:

Never insert a dildo into another area of the body or into another person without thoroughly cleaning it first. You can pass on infections and diseases if you don’t take precautions. Most erotic merchandise stores do sell special cleaners for sex toys. Otherwise antibacterial soap and hot water are your best choices.

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Sometimes guys get a bad rap for having nothing on their minds but sex and let’s be honest that’s true in some cases, but if you want to heat things up in your bedroom than the more you’re thinking about getting in on with the partner waiting for you at home the hotter things are going to be between the sheets. And, if you can get HER thinking about what’s to come then you’re in for an awesome amount of fun.

Unlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager – what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn’t have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.

Maybe back then, an imagination wasn’t such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you’re all grown up, it’s a whole new ball game.

So here’s how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.

While you’re at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can’t touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car – whatever location turns up your heat the highest.

If you don’t start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I’d be very surprised. But don’t dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don’t take matters into your own hands – if you know what I mean.

A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she’s been speeding, and you’re the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she’s a stranger you’ve just met in a smoky bar whose name you don’t even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn’t matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.

As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don’t have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.

From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don’t stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It’s going to be very hard to resist since you’re going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.

When you see her, don’t hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don’t forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you’ve been wanting her all day. That’s sure to get her just as hot as you are.

Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.

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