Why is it that watching porn is such a guilty pleasure? You like watching it and it excites you but at the same time you have this nagging feeling that you’re doing something wrong. Well, change your mindset because watching porn can actually be good for you and your relationship with your partner!

Here’s Why Porn is So Good for You…

Sex Therapy. We have many hang ups when it comes to sex and sometimes, you may want to try something new and exciting that you just can’t even mention to your lover for fear of being ridiculed and rejected. By watching porn, you simply get rid of this naughty thought out of your system. True, it may not be the same as performing the sex position or sex idea yourself, but at least you get to ‘live it’ in a different way. As a result, it’s no longer a constantly nagging thought in your head.

Sex Education. Despite what you may want to believe, you’re probably not the hot stud you think of yourself between the sheets. You often hear it said that men do not know how to pleasure women, right? Well then, grab a couple of porn videos and see for yourself just how these hot studs pleasure their women in front of the camera… for hours! I guarantee, after just watching a couple of porn videos, you’ll walk away with tips to pleasure her like never before. You bet you’ll score a lot of sex points with that!

Sex Drive Overload. Is your relationship reaching a certain sexual plateau? This is normal. The trick, however, is not to let this plateau stretch for ages because if you do, you’ll wake up one fine day and wonder why you and your partner hardly ever have sex anymore. A healthy, sexual relationship is a work in progress. Do your share in keeping the sex alive by constantly finding hot, new, sexy ways to make love. And one sure-fire way of achieving this is to… yes, watch porn!

Go Ahead… Watch Porn Tonight!

Step 1. If you want to watch porn with your partner tonight, keep in mind that the worse thing you can do is spring a surprise on her! What you should do is sort of set the stage so your sex partner is more willing to watch porn with you. How? First, start with foreplay. You can do this days in advance or just at the start of the day when you plan to watch porn together. Simply do things that increase the sexual tension between you like touching her ‘inappropriately’ or sending a dirty joke or dirty short story to her mobile phone or email.

Step 2. Rent a porn video. You can watch porn online or you may even have a subscription to a porn channel but these are often just snippets of porn. If you rent a porn video, then this may revolve around a ‘story’ and women love that! Because it’s presented as a ‘love story’, your lover will be less against watching the actual porn stuff.

Also, be sure to pick a porn video that’s not too wild for her. For instance, if you know she’s dead set against certain sex positions or bondage, this is NOT the time to try and persuade her to trying it. Remember, small steps…

Step 3. Before you watch the porn video together, make sure other elements at home are set up right as well. For instance, dim the lights, light some candles. If you have kids, make sure they’re spending the night with their grandparents. In short, make sure that there’s nothing that will hinder you guys watching porn tonight.

Step 4. Watching porn obviously makes the watchers horny and don’t be shy in communicating that that’s exactly what you’re feeling while she’s beside you. Just be subtle. No need to grab her; just make small innuendos like rubbing your front or trying to graze her breast. Trust me, she’ll get the idea.

Step 5. Lastly, be prepared with protection. Nothing can be more annoying than finding yourselves wanting to have sex… and can’t.

Watching porn is not bad. It’s just something that society finds quite hard to grasp. But if it’s working wonders for YOUR sex life, why fight it? Instead, use it! It’s better to have a striving sex life than not to have one at all.

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I had the most terrrrrific night! My honey and I definitely had a blast playing different kinds of lovers’ games, and of course… it made us sooo horny! And so sitting here, I was thinking of sharing what we’ve been up to last night. Ready?

Strip Chocolate

Snakes and Ladders are out! Say hello to strip chocolate instead. Now I really don’t think I have to explain further what it truly means. After all, doesn’t the game sound raunchy enough already? Indeed, it is. Sitting here makes me warm all over again.

But anyway, for the uninitiated, strip chocolate can be one of the most sensual and delicious games you can ever play. Never mind if it messes up every corner of your household. For this game, you need 2 chocolate body frosting jars, dice, a game board, 25 choco cards, and 2 paint brushes. Each of you can take turns rolling the dice, which will end in you choosing either a dare (which can be pretty boring actually), to strip (this is the best part), or paint an artsy design on any part of your partner’s body (the exposed part of course) using the chocolate body frosting. Don’t forget to say “Yummy” after!

Here’s a twist to this game: If you don’t mind being ‘sexy’ with other couples, find a pair that’s into a bit of kinkiness. Basically, choose to paint a chocolate design on someone’s body, but YOU don’t get to lick it off… somebody else has to do it. I guarantee that the sexual tension in the room will be sky high!

Truth or Dare

If strip chocolate wasn’t daring enough for you, try The Truth or Dare Chocoholics game. It’s a dessert game for adults that encourage you to express your innermost sexual desires to your partner. (What else can possibly be a great aphrodisiac than very vivid imagination?)

In this game, a spinning bottle will determine whether the person who has been chosen by it shall go for truth or settle for dare. The entire package also includes chocolate body frosting as well as soft brushes, just in case you’d like to create romantic images all over your woman’s body… and then lick it off of course.

Saucy Dining Experience

If you have played mystery games before, then this wouldn’t come as a great surprise. But Saucy Dining is more than just solving crimes. Actually, it’s totally different. It is a dinner party–themed game, where all of the recipes are made from aphrodisiacs! And apart from simply savoring the sexual desires that the food will bring, there’s another twist to this game. You and your partner really have to play with the food and each other!

Here’s an example, asparagus is a known aphrodisiac right? So… instead of just eating the asparagus off the plate, place one between hear breasts… and then eat it!

Tequila Body Shots

This is, by far, the easiest and simplest aphrodisiac game I can ever think of… yet super sexy! Alcohol isn’t really an aphrodisiac, but you know what they say, when you’re intoxicated, you can possibly do anything!

Plus, with alcohol, blood rushes through your veins so fast that you want to release all of your sexual emotions right away. And because there’s a tendency that you’ll get drunk, we both prefer to do this at the comfort of our own home. After all, all you need is a bottle of tequila, some salt, and some lime.

So here’s what you do: put some salt on your woman’s body, lick the slat off, drown a shot of tequila and follow up with a piece of lime. Easy! The trick of course is to be ‘creative’ with where you put the salt on her body. I personally love it when my man licks salt of my lips, wrist, inner arm, and between my breasts!

Just do this game with a bit of moderation ok? Tequila is also notoriously known as a ‘knockout drink’. That is, you guys can easily get drunk without you realizing it. One minute, you’re up and happy and then bang! you’re throwing up everywhere! And this, my friends, ruins every chance of you getting laid tonight.

So are you having a difficult time having fun in your sex life? Choose any one of these sexy games and their aphrodisiac props, and tell me which one gives you the most laughter, the highest passion pull, and leads to the hottest sex!

Enjoy!

Sarah

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Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

IMPORTANT: Don’t forget to leave your comments below!

Sarah

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