boomer sex

Wow, I´m so turned on after watching this gorgeous woman “play” with her 2 thongs…

Remember, the most powerful tactic in bed is:

TEASING!

And this girl is such a PRO…

To know what I mean, take a few seconds to watch this video.

Enjoy!

Sarah

Hi there!

There´s no “sex class” today…

Why?

Because I just want to share with you (and your partner) a VERY sexy video.

Please enjoy watching these 3 gorgeous women having fun!

Hope it helps to get BOTH of you on the right mood for sex!

Enjoy honey…

Sarah

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Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs

Description:

Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.

While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.

How to Use It:

The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.

You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.

Why to Use It:

Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.

Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.

Purchasing Suggestions:

Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.

Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.

Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.

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It is natural throughout life for a woman to experience changes in their libido. It can be like a rollercoaster ride. One minute your up and can get enough. The next minute you are down. There are many influences that can affect the libido of a woman. It can be anything from a change in lifestyle to a certain medicine that has been prescribed.

In tackling the issue of libido I have put together a list of the most universal reasons (and solutions) for a waning in a woman’s libido; it maybe possible to correct the circumstances with a few simple lifestyle changes.

A Note of Introduction

Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal

There’s a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body’s physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman’s libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused.

The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.

Below we list nine reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.

1. Situation and Lifestyle

The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn’t leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a little spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don’t want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.

Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.

Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with your partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video or technique.

The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you’re making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.

2. Mindset - Anxiety, Stress and Fear

Sex is the last ting on a woman’s mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman’s libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems.

In the modern world there are fears of STD’s or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience.

The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.

Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.

If you’ve tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.

3. Routine and Boredom

It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women’s ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven’t tried.

This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.

It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don’t like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom.

There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.

In Conclusion

Many women for the reasons given above suffer from lower sex drive. It happens to most women at some point in their lives. It maybe time to truly look at your lifestyle and make some tough decisions. Sex is a very important part of your life and any problems must be addressed.

It is time to analyse your life and make real and sufficient time to address your sexual needs. Then look at your routine and maybe spice things up with new and exciting appoaches agreed to by both you and your partner. It is time you took control of your life back.

Approach sex like it is your very first time and try to capture that old feeling. It is with experimentation that sex can become fresh again. This will make it exciting and thus you will want to have sex again.

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Pleasuring your partner is an important part of a great sex life. You definitely know that, right? Well, one of the best ways to pleasure her is by giving her a little selfless attention – that means doing something hot to make her feel amazing even when you’re not getting anything back . . . at least not at that moment.

I’m talking about oral sex or, in this case, cunnilingus.

The good news is that oral sex can be amazingly pleasurable for your partner. The bad news is a lot of guys just don’t know what their doing and that ruins the experience for both of partner. But you’re not going to be one of those guys.

Let’s look at some pointers to improve your oral sex aptitude.

Oral sex is one of those things guys have to pretty much learn how to do on their own. It’s not like driving a car where they can ask their dad for advice and it’s not even like vaginal sex which you learn how to do from watching a couple of X-rated films. You’re pretty much on your own with this one so let’s look at three techniques you can use to become outstanding in the oral sex department.

First, you’ve got to know how to move your tongue. The best analogy to describe this is a cat or a dog drinking water from a bowl. When they’re lapping up that water, their tongue is going in and out of their mouths pretty fast, right? Well, that’s the same type of movement you’re trying to achieve. Short and fast is the way to turn up the heat and rev up her clitoris.

Of course, using just “lapping” techniques won’t necessarily win you a prize in bed; you’ve got to know how to spice things up. After you use the first technique for a little bit, mix it up and try a rotation technique. Instead of moving your tongue in and out, keep it in and moving it a circular motion. This motion works amazingly well with the clitoris (circular motion also does the trick in vaginal intercourse, too) and can sometimes be just what she needs to push her over the top.

Now I know some of these cunnilingus sessions can last a pretty long time and a man’s tongue can get pretty tired (we do appreciate the effort though!), so when you start wearing down, give your tongue a break and try humming instead. That’s right – I said humming. Pick any tune you want and hum away but the trick is to keep your face in position. The vibration from your humming will travel up through her vagina and stimulate her clitoris. Basically, you’re becoming her own special vibrator.

Sometimes, guys, you just can’t do it alone. Now I’m not suggesting you bring in a friend, but I am suggesting you pack along a special surprise in your pocket for her: a sex toy. You can choose almost any type of sex you want, but keep in mind one thing: Where am I going to use it? If you don’t mind sharing your tongue space with a vibrator or dildo – and many guys don’t – then any of those choices are fine. My suggestion though is to invest in a toy designed specifically of anal stimulation. Even though your woman may frown on anal intercourse (especially if she’s had a bad experience), the truth is that stimulation in that region – when done correctly – can be pretty intense and can even lead to G-spot orgasms! Plus, if you’re pleasuring her in one area and your “friend” is pleasuring her in another, then your partner is definitely going to be one happy lady, especially after a few minutes.

And you’re likely to be happy, too. A satisfied woman is very likely to turn right around and repay you for your efforts. Maybe with a little fellatio. After all, what man doesn’t love getting oral sex?

While we’re on the subject of oral sex though, I want to mention safety. I’m not trying to kill the mood but you’ll have a lot more fun if you’re protected than if you end up seriously regretting your actions a few months down the road if you know what I mean. While oral sex won’t cause pregnancy, you and your partner can still transmit diseases that way. It may not be romantic but you need to invest in dental dam which covers your teeth and tongue during the act so you don’t exchange bodily fluids during the act. Trust me, you’ll be thankful you did.

Now go out there and start pleasuring your woman with amazing cunnilingus . . . safely.

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Ok “boys”, lets get started with today´s naughty fantasies.

Important: I said FANTASIES!

It´s not legal to have sex outdoors in most countries, so let´s just fantasize together darling.

Here are some of my hottest Outdoor Sex Fantasies:

1. Get a blow up pool and enjoy a moment together in your backyard;

2. Go camping with close friends, and get a sleeping bag for 2 (for hot sex while your friends are sleeping);

3. Try having sex in a hammock;

4. Go to the closest beach, and try a “salt water” sex experience;

5. Rent a kayak (or similar), go far away from the beach and have hot sex;

6. Try something on in a store together, and enjoy wild sex in the dressing room;

7. Take your woman to a restaurant (outdoors) and tell her to give you a blow job (under the table cloth);

8. Invite your closest friends to a picnic, and have sex in the car while they´re getting the BBQ ready!

Now it´s YOUR turn.

Please take a moment to write your fantasies in the “Leave a Comment” section!

Kisses!

Sarah

Raising consciousness is the heart and soul of Tantric Sex. So many people are swept through life looking at pictures in the mind instead of living with full awareness of each moment.

They spend their time and energy dwelling on the past, plotting the future, and comparing the current state of affairs to a set of pre-recorded subconscious tapes.

To counteract the programming that keeps us distracted and to quiet compulsive left-brain thinking, Tantra teaches us to focus our attention on the present.

Tantra shows us how to exist in this moment, become totally absorbed in the “now,” and open our inner windows to the world fully. This activates our right brain that contributes to a presence more deeply rooted in spirit.

We do this by heightening our five senses — sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing. We become dedicated to enjoying the physical fully by reveling in eating, drinking, massaging, dancing, and making love.

We learn to live in harmony with whatever life serves up, whether on a silver platter or bed of thorns. That’s partly why Tantrikas major in surrender — just letting things happen of their own accord without resistance. This whole approach to life suggests we should just give up goal orientation, enter each experience without expectations, and just live fully in each moment.

PRACTICE: Sitting Meditation

Description

Tantra aims to raise consciousness. It’s not a philosophy but a collection of spiritual and sexual practices. A logical question, then, is how can you practice raising consciousness? Soon we’ll show you how to do this with sex. For sex to be sacred, transformative, and awesome, you must approach it with the right attitude. That attitude is meditation. Which is a great way to practice consciousness.

Meditation is simply sitting and emptying the mind. It’s not an essential prerequisite for joyous Sacred Gate massage, but it sure helps when you enter yoni with the right attitude. We describe it here for you to experiment with.

Since you can’t force thoughts away, emptying the mind is more challenging than it sounds. Gurus have developed many meditation techniques down through the ages that can help you quiet the inner talk and enter a “no mind” condition. We’ve tried many of them and they all seek to create a deep inner peace filled with stillness.

Purpose

Sitting Meditation just guides you to watch your breath. The simple relaxation method is good preparation for what’s coming, because conscious breathing is one of the Tantric skills used in the sexual practices that follow.

1. SPACE

Make some free time in a quiet uninterrupted space. You can do this next to a partner, but, since it’s a personal private inner experience, it’s not essential. Yes, you have to turn off your phone, answering machine, pager, and TV. Be brave, let go of the remote for just a few moments.

2. SIT

Sit in a comfortable position. The classic posture is the lotus position with one leg crossed over the other. We can’t get all the way there, and it may not be easy for you either. Get as close as you can to this posturing, insuring that you sit upright at least. A great aid is a “zafu,” a round Japanese meditation pillow that’s firm and shaped like a fat pancake. It helps you keep your pelvis higher than your semi-crossed legs. You can also meditate sitting straight in a comfortable chair or sofa.

3. BE

Meditation is not doing anything — it’s simply being. So don’t set any goals or preconceptions of what’s going to happen. Just sit for a moment and relax.

4. WITNESS

As you settle in to a comfortable state, you’ll undoubtedly discover that your mind is busy. Don’t do anything about it, just let it happen. Witness ideas floating by like clouds in a brisk wind.

5. WATCH YOUR BREATH

To quiet the mind without force, watch your breath coming in and out. Don’t change your breathing consciously, just pay attention to it entering your nostrils, flowing into your lungs, and out again.

6. COME BACK

You’ll probably find your concentration wandering away from your breath. Don’t beat yourself up, this is natural. When you realize you’ve strayed, just come back to watching your breath.

7. A FEW MINUTES

Gurus advise sitting like this for 15 minutes morning and afternoon. Since you shouldn’t be watching the clock, we’re not sure how you time it. We usually just remain still until we relax and the mind settles.

Afterthoughts

My primary concern here with how meditation helps prepare you for ecstatic sacred sex and Tantric Orgasm. All I can say is that tension impedes the process and relaxation is vital for long lasting supreme experiences. It also helps you practice focusing, an important skill in Tantric lovemaking.

As well, if you incorporate regular meditation into your life, you’ll find that it’s a great way to relieve stress, release tension, and relax. One essential requirement for ecstasy is “relaxation in high states of arousal.”

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