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Archive for November, 2007

30
Nov

Foreplay – Steps to a Whole Day Affair…

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Foreplay is not something to be rushed. In fact, the longer the suspense, the tighter the tension, the hotter the passion!

You see, if you are trying to put foreplay back into your lives and then rush through it, then you are undermining its importance. Instead, plan for a night of passion you and your partner won’t forget.

foreplay-picture Start the day right. Start foreplay the minute your partner wakes up. For women, try leaving erotica (a Kama Sutra-type book always works!) by the bedside or ‘accidentally’ leave a pair of black (or red) thongs on the bed. Titillate his imagination!

For men, leave a dirty magazine under the pillow or on the bed. The ‘accidentally leaving your underwear’ thing doesn’t work for men as successfully as for women though. Instead, wake up with, er… an erection and be sure your partner sees it or ‘accidentally’ comes into contact with it.

I guarantee your partner will wake up with thoughts of sex in the air! (There you go; foreplay has begun!)

Now continue this ‘teasing’. For example, you can let your robe fall off after the shower or go out of the shower completely naked (say you forgot to bring a towel or clothes or something…). Don’t be shy to make ‘poses’ while naked! Bend over, stretch, or even rub yourself lightly. Do this innocently but be sure your partner sees it!

Be unreachable but don’t be mean. At this point, your partner’s thoughts may already be about sex, don’t give in! Play hard to get. However, don’t be mean. Some people tease to the point where his/her partner is so hot already that if you don’t give in, they get frustrated! Worse, they see it as rebuke. You don’t want that! You should be able to tease ‘to a point of return’.

The ‘Excuse Me’ Tip!

Here’s a tip from one of my readers. Sometimes, when she wakes up in the morning, she teases her man by trying to get out of bed on HIS side. So she says “excuse me” and then she just HAS to get on top of him right? And while there, a little ‘dry rubbing’ goes on and soon enough, he gets hot. She then gives him a wet kiss, gets up and says “See you tonight honey…” coyly.

(It works for men also!)

Maintain the sexual tension. Now that you’ve started foreplay, maintain the tension. Most people make the mistake of thinking that because their partners were ‘hot’ this morning, they will be in exactly the same state that night. Wrong!

So how do you keep your partner longing for you during the day? Try these tricks.

• Send an x-rated email or link to an x-rated site and say “Look at what [name of friend or colleague] sent me today!”
• Send an email or SMS saying “Honey, [name of porn film] is in at the store/video rent house today. Shall I get it?”
• Send a picture SMS of yourself with… barely anything on.

Set the stage appropriately. The stage can be a hotel room or simply at home. You MUST take the personality traits of your partner here.

If he/she is the romantic type, then spread rose petals on the floor and on the bed, chill the champagne, and light 100 scented candles! However, here’s the real-life truth: many people are not like this. Some think this is ‘over the top’ or ‘too corny’. So don’t try to recreate a romantic movie scene here if it doesn’t suit you or your partner.

If he/she is more the ‘practical’ type, then hold off on the scattered flower petals and simply go for a fresh bouquet of red roses and put them in a vase in the living room and another in the bedroom. Instead of champagne, go for your partner’s favorite wine or hard-to-get, imported beer! Instead of 100 scented candles, go for few lighted ones placed strategically in your home. Be subtle but make the changes stand out nonetheless.

Practical Tips!

Please don’t try and create a romantic setting if you have not taken care of a few basic things such as getting rid of the kids and doing some basic room cleaning. I tell you, it ruins the mood!

Seriously, if you have kids, it really pays to have them stay at grandma’s for the night. I guarantee you’ll be amazed at how uninhibited and abandoned your partner will be in bed!

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27
Nov

Banish Boredom With A Big “O”

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Hi! Sarah!

I hope you are having a WONDERFUL day!

I want to share with you an article that is SOOO true… It is about the ONLY solution to banish sexual boredom.

It is short, but TRUE!

I would love to read your comments! :)

Kisses!

Sarah

woman-orgasm How To Banish Sexual Boredom

Some couples get bored with sex after a few months because they lack what others know and practice enabling them to continue to enjoy making love throughout their adult life. It is not actually true that variety staves off sexual boredom.

Sure, different practices, different spots and positions, different methods, different times of day, different scenes, different sex toys and devices, and different lovers might supply grand sex, but the truth about what solely holds sex together for a couple is orgasm. Sex without orgasm is a dark affair.

Most sex advice overlooks orgasm and harp exclusively on foreplay. That’s explicable, because the whole body is seen for what it is, erogenous in nature, and so a little imagination and strength are what is required to manipulate your bodies into bodily pleasure, but the truth is that no bodily pleasure measures up to orgasm as the destination of lovemaking, that nostalgic place you always want to return to at every given opportunity, without boredom in sex with your partner.

Conversely if a relationship were to be entirely built on outrageous or core foreplay and even several outlandish sexual positions, boredom can set in easily because the acts in themselves are not orgasmic. They lack that delicate ingredient in orgasm that makes you feel renewed afterwards. It is very easy to forget a partner who is an expert in foreplay than one who regularly produces orgasm.

Sex in new relationships are usually very hot and experimental and could lead to orgasm from time to time, but if the couple does not discover the sexual path and rhythm that leads to mutual orgasm, may not be simultaneous always, and settle into that pattern each time they make love, soon boredom will set in, no matter how much love they profess for each other.

The bond in a sexual relationship is orgasm. Women who can’t attain orgasm with their partners look for it elsewhere. Reason, as they will confide in their friends, is usually boring sex.

So if you want to keep your sex life alive and well, you must ensure that orgasm is regular for your woman. She looks forward to the “over the moon” orgasmic feeling in sex with you. Make it happen by knowing what to do all the time to have her sexually satisfied. You can find online, for little or nothing, useful information on how to keep your woman sexually satisfied.

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24
Nov

Sex and Chocolate?

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Hi there!

Let´s talk about sex and chocolate.

It´s a CLASSIC question: What is better: sex or chocolate?

My answer is:

BOTH!

However, you DON´T need to eat the chocolate… Just enjoy hot “sex with chocolate” if you know what I mean…

To give you some ideas, watch this video.

Kisses!!!

Sarah

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21
Nov

A Sexy Thanksgiving Message For You!

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Hi all!

You have NO IDEA how important “Thanksgiving Day” is to me…

sensual-thanksgiving Do you know why?

For 1 reason ONLY:

Because I can thank YOU (yes YOU) for letting me share tips and techniques to improve your SEX life.

(If you don´t celebrate Thanksgiving Day in your country, I STILL want to say THANKS!)

I want to say THANK YOU for:

- Giving a meaning to my life;
- Letting me be part of your MOST intimate moments;
- Allowing me to share with you my experience and advice;

And most important:

- For letting me help you IMPROVE your SEX life every day!

Thanks… Thanks so much!

And finally, please let me give you a recommendation today.

Get everything ready for a sensual moment with your partner tonight. Have the most ROMANTIC and WILD sex (yes, both at the same time) with her.

And after you BOTH enjoy a mind-blowing orgasm… grab your partner´s hands and say:

“Thank you for being part of my life… Happy Thanksgiving Day”!

Please promise that you will do it…

Have a VERY SENSUAL Thanksgiving Day!

Your friend,

Sarah

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18
Nov

Three Positions to Hit the G-Spot

Posted in enhance, g-spot, libido, sex  by admin

Hi darling, I found an article about the G-Spot… You will love it! :)

Believe it or not, I dedicate 100% of my time to find top-quality information to help you improve your sex life.

That is my mission in life!

To help as many people as I can enjoy the best sex positions every time!

With that said… let´s get started!

nude Three Positions to Hit the G-Spot

I read the other day that the majority of American’s regularly have sex in just a few positions. Well, if that’s true, its time to shake things up! This article is on g spot positions. These are our favorite ways of hitting the g-spot during sex.

If you like boring, normal sex, that lasts just 5 to 10 minutes, don’t read this page. If you’re feeling more adventurous, and are ready to blow your mind then please, proceed!

So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For the purposes of this article, we’re going to assume you know what the g spot is, how to regularly find it, and how your partner likes it stimulated.

Now that that’s all taken care of lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.

In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We’ve found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.

And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!

Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)

I have to say there’s something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.

As you are on top, experiment with what feel’s best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel’s good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)

Now, as the guy in this position, you’re not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do “ just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.

You’ll also get a great workout! : )

Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you’ll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.

I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference. If you want to find out more about liberator shapes, their website is www.liberatorshapes.com.

Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)

This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there’s just something so primal and sexy about *&#*! from behind.

Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.

However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)

Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.

This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.

We’ve also been using the liberator shape - the wedge - in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.

Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman’s Legs on His Shoulders)

We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can’t look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner’s shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)

Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won’t tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

Well, these are our three favorite g spot positions, and I hope you try them out and enjoy!

Visit our pages on g spot positions for more information.

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14
Nov

Try Using Sex Furniture!

Posted in enhance, g-spot, libido, sex  by admin

Have you thought about bringing sex to a new level but aren’t ready for toys? Sex furniture is a perfect way to spice up your sex life. It’s non intimidating and so discreet your partner won’t even be able to distinguish it from the rest of your home decor. Today I’m going to inform you on sex furniture, what it is, what it does, and why your woman will love it. C’mon guys it’s about time you take sex out of the bedroom!

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What is sex furniture?

Unlike most sex toys, sex furniture is made for couples to enjoy together. It’s not to be used alone or only on one partner. Sex furniture is home furniture designed specifically to allow partners to reach perfect angles for ultimate penetration and sensations. Sex furniture is not cheesy; it’s versatile, comfortable and stylish enough to be part of your home decor.

In fact, sex furniture should be made to be out in the open. Studies show items put away or hidden get used less than ones easily available. The innocent look of sex furniture allows you to integrate them into your home decor. This means they’re always accessible, just like a bed but so much better. Their ability to be arranged into shapes makes it perfect furniture for the day and so much more at night!

How does sex furniture work?

Most people know the difference between okay sex and great sex is finding the right angle. Sex furniture allows couples to find perfect angles flat surfaces like beds don’t offer. With sex furniture couples find their bodies fit together like never before. For women this means a position where her clitoris is stimulated and her G-spot can also be accessed. Men also experience intense sensations from reaching new angles during sex. Because sex furniture is so flexible, couples can create unique positions and angles that ensure every thrust reaches the right place.

This ability which allows couples to find just the perfect angle makes it one of the easiest and satisfying ways to improve sex life. In fact, women know the secret to great sex can be as small as a slight change of angle and it’s no wonder over 90% of people buying sex furniture are women. The truth is beds are dull and boring in comparison to sex furniture.

Here’s why:

Benefits of sex furniture

As mentioned above, the key to great sex is finding the perfect angle; any kama sutra book will tell you that. However, what they don’t take into account is that not many couples are as agile and youthful as they use to be. Some couples are limited by their bodies due to injury or from the natural aging process. Sex furniture will help you get into those amazing angles without catching a cramp! Just because you are no longer in your physical prime doesn’t mean you can’t experience sex like if you were 20.

You don’t need to be a gymnast sex furniture will give you the right support for wild sex. Unlike, regular furniture which can wear down, lose shape or collapse after heavy use, sex furniture is built to last. They are designed to support the force of two bodies with a much higher level of specification than traditional upholstery. In fact, most products come with a 10 year guarantee. They also come with removable, machine washable covers so that you leave no trace behind!

With the wide variety of sex furniture stores available you can easily find a product that fits right into your home. Most have an extensive product line with different colors, materials, and dimensions so that you can easily add it to your home decor. My favorite product line is by Loving-Angles but my girlfriends all love the Liberator as well. Here is a brief reminder of why you should consider sex furniture:

  • Access exquisite angles not offered by flat surfaces such as beds
  • Enhances sex life by creating new sex positions
  • Allows men to stimulate a woman’s clitoris or g-spot during sex
  • Provides support and comfort for unique positions
  • Is built to last; won’t lose shape or collapse
  • Designed to be part of your home decor
  • Machine washable covers for easy up-keeping

5 popular sex furniture items

1. Wedge

The wedge is great for beginners. In fact, many couples have used the science behind the wedge without realizing it. Have you ever noticed your girlfriend prop a pillow underneath her during sex? This gives her a slight lift so that her clitoris or g-spot is stimulated during sex.

However, unlike a pillow which loses shape and goes flat, the wedge securely elevates a woman’s hips to improve her sensation during sex. It also helps men penetrate deeper into the vagina. The wedge offers a slight change of angle which can make all the difference. It can also be used in combination with other products below. It’s definitely an essential.

2. Tilt

The tilt is a larger wedge and is great for doggy style or anal sex. During rear entry sex positions many women experience discomfort as they elevate their body with their arms and shoulders. The tilt eliminates this pressure and makes sex more enjoyable for women. It supports and pushes a woman’s hips up for the perfect back door angle. Now both of you can last as long as you want without having to stop from discomfort.

The tilt can also be used for front positions similar to a wedge for extreme elevation to the hips. The tilt and wedge make a perfect combination on or off the bed. These are one of the smaller sex furniture items which are great starters.

3. Pad

The pad is a base for sex furniture. Instead of placing items such as the wedge and tilt on the floor it is ideal to use them on the pad. The pad eliminates carpet burns or pain to knees caused by hard floors. The pad also converts to a seat when folded in half. The pad gives great control and leverage so that sex is more comfortable. In combination with other sex furniture, like the tilt seen below, the pad is the perfect base for all shapes.

4. Box

The box is also a familiar furniture seen at home. It resembles an ottoman but is designed to deliver a stable springy bounce for rocking sex! Internal layers inside the box allow it to alternate from a stable seating to a bouncy love cube. You can sit on it while you have your partner straddle you or you can use it to place her feet over it. The possibilities are endless. Below it is used to give you ultimate rear entry penetration.

5. Head Rest

The head rest is a perfect support for oral sex. It supports your head when you are on your back and your woman is on top just as the picture demonstrates below or it can be used to support and lift your chin while lying on your stomach. The head rest can be adjusted to give an upward or downward tilt without slipping or losing shape. It ensures the perfect fit and support no matter how tall you are. Bye Bye neck aches during oral sex!

Overall, sex no longer is a thing for the bedroom. It could and should be explored in other areas beside the bed. Even if you don’t have sex furniture, improvise using furniture in your own home. Be creative and find those angles that can make sex so much better! Another great tip to giving your female partner the ultimate sensation is to enhance lubrication in combination with a great sex angle.

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So men, it’s about time you offer women unique angles for penetration and couples it’s about time to start creating them. Remember, you don’t have to be in your 20’s to have wild sex. There are ways to have both comfort and pleasure during passionate sex. Be open and explore other regions; I bet you never knew your home could be your playground!

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10
Nov

Two Hot And Erotic Positions

Posted in enhance, libido, sex, tantric  by admin

Hi! Sarah here…

Today I want to share with you 2 erotic positions you can try tonight with your lover. :)

Enjoy!

hot-sex-positions Position: Get a Leg Up
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal or Anal

Description:

This is a great variation of the missionary position. The woman lies flat on her back on a bed, the floor, a couch, etc. The male partner positions himself over her, and then lifts both of her legs into the air before penetrating her.

Why It’s Hot:

When you lift her legs in the air like this, you are also putting her pelvis at an angle that provides for deeper penetration and more direct access to her clitoris. This spells greater satisfaction for both of you.

If you like hard and fast sex, then this position is great for that, too.

Also, if the woman does need a little extra help reaching climax, you can give her a hand easily either by massaging her manually or using a vibrator to maximize her stimulation and her pleasure.

Variations:

If the angle isn’t just right for you, then you can adjust it. Instead of just holding the woman’s legs in the air, the man can actually grab them and lift her butt up off the bed slightly for the right angle.

You can also adjust the angle by placing a pillow under her butt or pelvis.

Since this position is good for anal and vaginal intercourse, try using a vibrator or dildo on your partner while you penetrate her anus. This combination of stimuli will feel amazing for both of you.

Anal Sex Tip: Make sure to use plenty of lubricant during anal sex. The lubricant will reduce the friction and will make anal intercourse more enjoyable for both of you. By the way, use a water-based lubricant and don’t use petroleum jelly.

Position: Behind the Edge
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal or Anal

Description:

The woman leans over the bed so that the top half of her body is flat against the mattress while the rest of her is completely off the bed. The man comes behind her either from a standing or a kneeling position, then penetrates her.

Why It’s Hot:

This position is hot because it seems spontaneous. You were so turned on that you didn’t even make it to the bed!

Besides that, the position of body makes penetration very enjoyable for both of you. Plus, it’s perfect if she likes to grind her butt into your pelvis – some guys go crazy for this move while they’re doing the penetration.

Another reason it’s hot is because the man can reach around to massage his partner’s breasts or to run her clitoris with his hand, a sex toy, even a piece of silk or a feather. All of this will add her to her pleasure and help her reach orgasm.

Variations:

You don’t have to limit this position just to the bed. Anything which the woman can bend over so that her pelvis would be lined up with her partner’s would work great – some work even better than others. The arms of couches, dining room chairs, office desks, picnic tables, sinks, kitchen counters, porch railings . . . the list of possibilities goes on and on.

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7
Nov

Two Women Having Fun!

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Hi! Sarah here…

Honey, I have a sexy AND funny video for you today… You will enjoy it!

(by the way… I love watching 2 girls “together”!)

Enjoy!

Sarah

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3
Nov

What An Orgasm Feels Like

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So what is SO amazing about having an orgasm? Well, let me explain…

Most women described two parts of the orgasm: the physical and the psychological sensations. Physically, many women feel pleasant contractions throughout their pelvic region. These contractions are caused by the blood returning to the body and the blood vessels narrowing again. One woman described these contractions as ripples of pleasure.

While the physical sensation seems to be wonderful, many of the women I’ve discussed with paid more attention to the psychological sensation. Immediately after the orgasm, women report feeling completely relaxed and stress free as if all of the tension in their body has suddenly been released. They also talk about overwhelming feelings of peacefulness. In fact, many women claim that orgasms help them to get a more restful night of sleep, particularly when stress has been interfering with their sleep patterns.

The physical sensations of the orgasm usually last between 10 to 30 seconds. The psychological sensations can last as long as an hour or more, depending on the environment.

When it comes to female orgasms, there are technically two types: vaginal and clitoral. The truth is that almost all female orgasms, even those supposedly resulting solely from vaginal stimulation, originate with the clitoris.

So what does that mean for lovers? First, it means that if you have not yet discovered the clitoris in yourself or in your partner, then that should be your first task. The second task is to start discussing what kind of clitoral stimulation works best. If you don’t know now, then by all means begin experimenting.

I should also mention that more recent research is indicating that at least in some women both vaginal and clitoral stimulation is needed to provide a so-called œcomplete orgasm.

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